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"a leading source of radical homosexual propaganda, anti-Christian bigotry, and radical transgender advocacy."

He is "praying that Pam Spaulding will "turn away from her wicked and sinful promotion of homosexual behavior." (CCLM's web site, 10/15/07)

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"I have been mocked over and over again by ungodly and unprincipled anti-christian lesbians."
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This is Pam's night to shine!

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Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 20:00:52 PM EDT

(Congratulations Pam! Thank you Kate! bkmn, I hope you don't mind I added a picture of our honorees. :) - promoted by Lurleen)

First and foremost - a toast to Pam as she is recognized by the Womens Media Center!

It's been a helluva day, not to mention week in gay politics. Love or hate him, John Aravosis has done an incredible job exposing the Obama administration's real approach to dealing with gay rights.

But the reason for this post is to thank Pam and Kate, and Kate, we all appreciate the leeway you give Pam to work on PHB!

bkmn :: This is Pam's night to shine!

The effort that Pam put into exposing the upcoming DNC take the gay money fundraiser was crucial to putting the Obama admin on alert.

And Pam puts so many hours into keeping all of us in touch with what is going on around us, and serves to help us and key us into issues that matter to all of us. You are doing one hell of a job Pam! Through you our voice is stronger.

This blog is not just about you though Pam, you are wise enough to include other voices. You welcomed Autumn, with a great perspective from the trans community that the gay community often ignores. And then there is Louise with her front line reports from Maine in the fight for equality. And Lurleen who has a great nack for finding the fundies we are battling on the west coast. And you are generous enough to allow your readers to post diaries, which opens up the world to us.

You have the best java anywhere Pam. That is something to be proud of.

I hope that you enjoy the night and the recognition. You deserve it.

The coffee is on me the next time you come to MSP. And I know a place with some awesome desserts too!

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THANK YOU, PAM!!!!

thank you, Pam!!!

this week i realized how much i depend on this site, as i found myself mocked, called "racist", & traitor by people ive posted alongside for YEARS.

they just didnt get it, but here, ya'll do.
bless you for that.

by: grover nerdkissed @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 20:15:21 PM CDT

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YES, Kudos and a of Gratitude for our blog mistress Pam Spaulding & company !

Pam you are generous , gracious , sharp, unrelenting in your pursuit of excellence ,accuracy and fast paced dialoge - the Blend is the go to blog for all issues and voices, lgbTQ and this reader is profoundly grateful for your style, and committment - you deserve every bit of recognition coming your way - a toast to Pam Spaulding for a format where all many many voices can be heard. The coffee is always steamin at Pam's. Maybe its not said enough - Thank you Pam Spaulding for all the work you do - and your committment to our civil social justice struggle. bkmn is totally correct and we wish you a wonderful evening -

by: proudprogressive @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 20:15:47 PM CDT

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Congratulations Pam!

The best blogmistress in the whole entiiiire universe!

Enjoy your night.

by: kevinchi @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 20:19:30 PM CDT

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Enthusiastically seconded!

I am not interested in picking up crumbs of compassion thrown from the table of someone who considers himself my master. I want the full menu of rights. -Archbishop Desmond Tutu

by: QScribe @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 21:36:16 PM CDT

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BRAVA!

"I have come to believe over and over again that what is most important to me must be spoken, made verbal and shared, even at the risk of having it bruised or misunderstood." - Audre Lorde

by: Michael Bedwell @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 21:55:40 PM CDT

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I agree

Pam is the only blog that gets down to the nitty gritty of issues, thanks also to the feedback of the peeps listed above.They may disagree from time to time but they don't hold grudges.

Same-Sex Marriage is good for the economy.

by: CharlesMerrill @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 20:26:09 PM CDT

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Indeed

They may disagree from time to time but they don't hold grudges.

The quality of Pam's coffeehouse I most appreciate is that topics here are not limited to ONLY HRC-approved gay issues (ie, marriage between two white men who can "pass"). She and other Baristas and Blenders unashamedly tackle the harder, gritty progressive stuff like racism, transphobia, immigration reform, religion, misogyny, bullying, fat-shaming, poverty, and intersection of all these problems. And with notably few exceptions, the Blenders, even when we disagree with one another, in the end do come together and are a supportive community.

We love you, Pam and Kate! WOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

God save ornery old queens! - kevinchi

by: Keori @ Thu Jun 18, 2009 at 01:33:39 AM CDT

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Congratulations, Pam

A true inspiration!!! And ys, thanks to Kate for her support and thanks to the folks here at Pam's for keepin' it steamin'.

You may not be gay, but you may be next.

by: LeslieK @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 20:28:57 PM CDT

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couldn't happen to a more deserving woman of COURAGE

What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?

~Heather Small

by: peteyPornpig @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 20:34:12 PM CDT

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Thanks, Pam!

And thanks, Kate! The Blend is such a great place to come, talk, vent, commiserate, and celebrate thanks to you. :-)

Want to save marriage equality in Maine? Ask me how! ;-)

by: atdnext @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 20:34:14 PM CDT

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Agreed

Pam does such an awesome job on the blog. Thank you, Pam. And congratulations on your much deserved award tonight!

by: deezero @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 20:37:55 PM CDT

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This is definitely one of my top blogs

Congrats Pam!

I appreciate your insights and also getting the L & T perspective from my community.

GREAT job as always.

by: Juan @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 21:02:28 PM CDT

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Hip Hip Hooray!

3 cheers to both Pam and Kate. We love and treasure you both...

"It goes on one at a time, it starts when you care to act, it starts when you do it again after they said no, it starts when you say We and know who you mean, and each day you mean one more."

by: Louise @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 21:05:59 PM CDT

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Congrats Pam and Kate!!!

and thank you for everything that you do to keep us informed and keep our issues visible in the blogosphere!
Personally, I think you deserve a Noble Peace Prize - you are the best!!!

Close the GayTM. Only give to candidates who have actually done something other than make promises - most are just pandering for our cash.

by: JohnVisser @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 21:15:09 PM CDT

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Your site is a gem Pam ... THANKS!

Pam, I find your site has a more personal touch than the other glbt news sites. Thanks for all the work you've done and continue to do.

by: Ralph4159 @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 21:17:04 PM CDT

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Your voice ...

For what it's worth, I forgot to mention: Every time I hear your voice on Signorile's show, I find you very soothing. You seem very balanced because your voice is so relaxing.

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You are what makes America great!

No one more deserving !

by: Torham @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 21:28:44 PM CDT

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kudos

Probably fitting that on this particular day, you were honored, Pam. Blessings.

by: coram nobis @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 21:44:37 PM CDT

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Outstanding, Pam!

Have an absolutely grand eve!

I tell you Chica that no greater abomination exists than women denying their spirit of sisterhood and instead becoming the oppressor. -Rebeca, Universidad Complutense de Madrid

by: MauraHennessey @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 21:46:13 PM CDT

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Add my thanks

Thanks to both Pam & Kate. This is my number one bookmark and the blog guides me to a wonderful labyrinth of information in all the responses and links. Kudos and more kudos !!

by: Passionforprog @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 21:50:21 PM CDT

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Congrats P and K ......

Your blog is the best! Can't wait to hear about the day's events and your perspective on Pres. Obama's statements.

by: exfundie @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 21:51:23 PM CDT

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...I do hope she comments on this tidbit from Aravois!

Vanasco put it in her piece on 365 Gay News.

Did you know that the two benefits Obama is 'giving' the gay community. Sick leave and long term health care purchase...

WERE ALREADY BEING GIVEN BY BOTH BILL CLINTON AND GEORGE W BUSH!

"Unfortunately, as John Aravois of Americablog pointed out in a question, this guidance was already extended by Bill Clinton and was followed by George W. Bush. And the "benefits" are already provided by many supervisors at their discretion."

So BARRY gave us a big DOUGHNUT... ZERO.... ZIP!!!

It's the Hammer of JUSTICE,
It's the Bell of FREEDOM,
It's the Song about LOVE between,
my Brothers and my Sisters
...All over this Land.

by: Orion45 @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 22:47:28 PM CDT

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rock on sister!

CONGRATULATIONS!

http://EQFL.org

by: banshiii @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 22:01:21 PM CDT

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You are such a rock star!!!

My blood pressure comes down when I come over here from places like DailyKos. I count on you for intelligent discourse, and you never disappoint!

by: ChristopherM @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 22:03:54 PM CDT

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KUDOS for tonight...

...and every cup you serve every day!

It's the Hammer of JUSTICE,
It's the Bell of FREEDOM,
It's the Song about LOVE between,
my Brothers and my Sisters
...All over this Land.

by: Orion45 @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 22:49:13 PM CDT

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Congratulations!!!!

The award is very deserved, thank you so much for your work!

by: Joe Decker @ Wed Jun 17, 2009 at 23:20:48 PM CDT

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Many thanks from a regular

in case I haven't said it in a while.