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Signorile on the WH: 'it's all about buying off gay leaders by seducing them, very cheaply'

by: Pam Spaulding

Sun Jun 21, 2009 at 14:54:46 PM EDT


Mike Signorile is on the money with this one.
I know some people think Obama should not have been given the photo-op, but really, the story of anger by gays was already out there and wasn't about to be changed by that event. In fact, the next day, the story line in the media was along the lines of "president offers some little thing but gays just are not happy and are in fact more angry." So the photo-op did nothing, but LGBT leaders kept the dialogue open by going, which they should.

But now, a cocktail party? No, that's not business -- it's schmoozing and sucking up, and it's all about buying off gay leaders by seducing them, very cheaply, so the White House can help get the money coming back in, since the DNC gay fundraiser for next week is collapsing. Their response so far has only been about the money and it's not nearly enough.

What we need now is real action. Not these crumbs, whether it be the census inclusion or some benefits for federal employees. We need something big, and until then, the DNC fundraisers should continue to be threatened, and nobody among the gay leadership should be partying with this president.
You know, when I saw a video link posted in another thread by Blender RevBob, I got a strange feeling that today it's "like deja vu all over again" re: some of the behavior of LGBT leadership during this turmoil.

Does this remind you of anything occurring right now? It certainly doesn't have to be that way.

Malcolm X: The House Negro And The Field Negro

"Back during slavery, when Black people like me talked to the slaves, they didn't kill 'em, they sent some old house Negro along behind him to undo what he said. You have to read the history of slavery to understand this. There were two kinds of Negroes. There was that old house Negro and the field Negro.

And the house Negro always looked out for his master. When the field Negroes got too much out of line, he held them back in check. He put 'em back on the plantation. The house Negro could afford to do that because he lived better than the field Negro. He ate better, he dressed better, and he lived in a better house. He lived right up next to his master - in the attic or the basement. He ate the same food his master ate and wore his same clothes. And he could talk just like his master - good diction. And he loved his master more than his master loved himself. That's why he didn't want his master hurt. If the master got sick, he'd say, "What's the matter, boss, we sick?" When the master's house caught afire, he'd try and put the fire out. He didn't want his master's house burned. He never wanted his master's property threatened. And he was more defensive of it than the master was.

That was the house Negro. But then you had some field Negroes, who lived in huts, had nothing to lose. They wore the worst kind of clothes. They ate the worst food. And they caught hell. They felt the sting of the lash. They hated their master. Oh yes, they did. If the master got sick, they'd pray that the master died. If the master's house caught afire, they'd pray for a strong wind to come along. This was the difference between the two.

And today you still have house Negroes and field Negroes. I'm a field Negro."

UPDATE: And Jonathan Capehart's WaPo piece only underscores the problem:
"Under normal circumstances, all of this [Obama's mini health care benefits memo he signed last week for the gay partners of federal employees] would have been big news in the push for gay and lesbian civil rights. Instead, it has been derided as too little, too late. As if any of this would have happened with Sen. John McCain (R-Ariz.) in the White House. I'm all for holding an ally's feet to the fire. But to not recognize and celebrate victories, no matter how "small," is maddeningly shortsighted in the long march to full equality.

"If gays and lesbians want big victories, such as the repeal of DOMA and the "don't ask don't tell" policy, they should focus their fire where it belongs: on Congress. Each bill will take 218 votes in the House and 60 in the Senate to reach the president's desk, and the votes aren't there yet. Saying no one is going to hand gay men and lesbians their rights, Berry told me, "We have to get out there and fight and get those votes." That won't be easy. But if last week's announcement is a sign that Obama will be vocal, persistent and public in his support, the fight can be won."

OK. Who said Congress shouldn't be held accountable? But where does it get its cues from -- the White House. Come on, we're not stupid. We've heard apologists say that Obama's rogue DOJ issued that brief without anyone in the WH knowing. Gee, when Bush was in the White House, we sure nailed the fact that Alberto Gonzales was working hand-in-glove with Dear Leader's constitutional wrecking crew at 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. So which is it people? I'm tired of the excuses, and bad ones at that.

It's also confusing as to what Capehart's role is here -- is he speaking as a gay man writing in his capacity as a reporter for the WaPo (and who sits on its ed board), or speaking as a prominent member of the LGBT community? The line is very blurry; I tell you, this is also tiring because of the pious barbs thrown at citizen journalists/bloggers for expressing opinion in their writing/reporting. At least we're clear and honest about our advocacy and what we are representing.  

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Exactly
And, the advantage of a cocktail party with a location only divulged to the attendees (Remember Tobias saying, "email me if you're interested"?) is the perfect way sell out the gay community for access.

"Buttboys for bigots" comes to mind.


The hottest places in hell are reserved for those who, in time of great moral crisis, maintain their neutrality. -- John F. Kennedy (inspired by Dante's Inferno)


Oh, good linkage Pam.
Just exactly... well I ain't payin the House Gay no more... Let the Massa.

It's the Hammer of JUSTICE,
It's the Bell of FREEDOM,
It's the Song about LOVE between,
my Brothers and my Sisters
...All over this Land.


Oh, Good Grief!
Have you never heard about taking an opportunity to sit down together as an opportunity to talk together? Have you ever heard about how, if we want to be treated as full and equal citizens, we have to be seen as real, live, breathing humans who are like everybody else in almost every way?

Get off your high dudgeon, people. What the hell do you think we accomplish if we talk our bat and ball and go home in a huff? Either we sit down, as equals, or we're spiteful little nothings not ready to play in the prime time, grown-up world of politics.

We've gained a little moral high ground in the political world over the past week. But we can throw it all away if we get pissy and sullen. Think about it -- and, please, everybody, take a little time to think before you speak.


Who are you speaking to?


[ Parent ]
and what parts are pissy and sullen?
Who's going home in a huff? It's called using the leverage you have. And apparently talking in pleasant cocktail parties has netted zero influence, but withholding cash seems to have awakened some of these people right quick.  

[ Parent ]
a grown-up lesson about politics...
"withholding cash seems to have awakened some of these people right quick."

Politicians will do what they like...till they lose their money --- THIS is the political lesson that grown-ups must learn.


[ Parent ]
not that I'm writing-off dialogue
as far as I know, dialogue probably still has its place, but must be in conjuction with consequences - ie, no rights, no money.

Isn't this simple math?

Also, isn't it adult mentality that pushes us to question the prizes we are given, look deeper, and get at the real prize? One of the lessons we had growing up was "never trust salesmen too much".


[ Parent ]
Of course, not.
We need more of an "inside-outside strategy" that's worked for a number of other progressive causes. I think one of the biggest mistakes the "establishment" LGBT orgs made was in neglecting the grassroots while building up a big "insider" reputation. Because many of them now have that same "Inside the Beltway" mentality that's corrupted The White House, they think that last week's limited benefits announcement was somehow "a major milestone" deserving of a major fundraiser celebration... Forget the previous week's heinous DOMA brief.

While we should keep lobbying from the inside, we should also be protesting outside. While we should keep running campaigns and supporting (truly) allied candidates, we should also be doing rallies and sit-ins and other downright "radical" actions... Including withholding donations from "allies" who are not delivering. We need to use all the tools in our "political toolbox" to ultimately be successful.

Want to save marriage equality in Maine? Ask me how! ;-)


[ Parent ]
Yep.
Believe me, I've seen the difference. I sent money to Obama along with my friends. We made calls from California and walked door to door in Nevada. We've spent the last five months being VERY patient. And what have we seen so far? Nothing... Except federal employee "benefits", many of which were already in place in some departments.

It's been five months, and all we see are President Obama, Speaker Pelosi, and Majority Leader Reid passing the buck and blaming each other. Eventually, we'll need to put a halt to this kabuki dance and demand some accountability. I'm just glad we have you and a few others who are making it happen.

I don't see our attitude as "pissy". Rather, we're simply asking Obama, Reid, and Pelosi to fulfill the promises they made to us. That's all.

Want to save marriage equality in Maine? Ask me how! ;-)


[ Parent ]
another grown-up lesson....
"Rather, we're simply asking Obama, Reid, and Pelosi to fulfill the promises they made to us. That's all."

or in other words: "son/daughter, your promise is your bond, and expect the same from others."


[ Parent ]
Though, I am listening to strategy ideas from S1
S1, if you have some strategy ideas for dialogue or otherwise that will push the LGBT policies forward, I'm listening. Sincerely.

[ Parent ]
It's Not The Gays Who Should Be Worried
Democrats should be more worried that a republican without an antigay record could swoop in and collect a lot of former gay democrats.

It's not "gays need the democrats" - more like the democrats need as much support as they can get.


[ Parent ]
GOP is so heinous
I'll never vote for them, even if they repudiate their homophobic ways.

Which they won't because they are too tied to the whacky Jesus freaks.  


[ Parent ]
The days of being excited to be invited for cocktails is over
We're past that. Dear leaders are vying to grand marshal our parades. We want to be entertained in the chambers of Congress and the White House during the light of day. Not shadowy secret cocktail parties that GOP won't hear about and press will report on page 20, if at all.  

[ Parent ]
Hmmm, there's an old saying that comes to mind. Now what is it again?
Oh yes:  POLITICS AIN'T BEANBAG.  

I am not interested in picking up crumbs of compassion thrown from the table of someone who considers himself my master. I want the full menu of rights.  -Archbishop Desmond Tutu


[ Parent ]
Don't Want "Census Inclusion" Either
This "census inclusion" is a crumb as well - I could care less about something that everyone already has to do, regardless.

Actually happy about census inclusion, but
don't want that to pacify us. Stay tough.


[ Parent ]
My problem with the census
is that it'll never be accurate.  

It wouldn't surprise me if a good 50% of homosexuals, out or closeted, would check "heterosexual" anyway.

Because so many people are paranoid of letting their sexuality be known is the reason why we'll never know if gays are really 10% of the population, or if it's more or less.  


[ Parent ]
That's not the problem...
it's how is the Census going to count DPs and CUs where marriage is forbidden to those who might choose it otherwise.

Census doesn't ask if you're gay...and if you're out enough to be married and that can be recorded in the census you closet scenario doesn't apply.


[ Parent ]
If that's not the minimal increment to bring you back to the fold,
What if we repeal just the part of DOMA that lets you file as a married couple if you're in the part of the country that allows full marriage--of course, the CUers and DPers and CBers won't have that option, but it will open another tiny right to a small number.  Will that bring enough people back?  

The nice thing about the Dallas Principles is that it dissects that argument immediately.

# Duty, duty -- honor is, is --
Honor, Creideiki -- alertly
# Shared, is -- Honor #


[ Parent ]
How very true...
And thanks for the Malcolm X reference. It's very true. For a while, I felt like a "house gay" telling people to stay put and do what they're supposed to do inside the Dem infrastructure and one day we'll get all we want. Sometimes, I still feel that way when I ask people to get involved in the campaign(s) when they want to do something more radical.

You know, the Malcolm X reference got me thinking about something else. While Martin Luther King, Jr., SCLC, SNCC, NAACP, and the other "mainstream" civil rights organizations did plenty to get legislation passed, get favorable court decisions, and generally make progress happen, we forget about how the more radical elements pushed both the mainstream civil rights movement and the national conversation forward to make it happen as well. Now don't get me wrong, I don't think we need a gay version of Weather Underground or some other violent group, I don't see why it's wrong for us to get a little more "radical" in pushing forward our equality agenda and not feeling obligated to be satisfied when we have meaningless crumbs thrown our way.

Want to save marriage equality in Maine? Ask me how! ;-)


We don't need to act up....
We need to do what we do best. get out of the way and invite those in our community who know how to act up to do so. I am useless at a protest. I just want to sit down and sip my soda. But I know a few drag queens and a couple of sisters who could make The DNC fundraiser a truly memorable night. what we need is a bat phone and bus load of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence! smirk

Always thinking about it...

[ Parent ]
Capital idea!
The Sisters always were classy, but vivid. And they know a thing or two about raising charitable funds. Yes. If they were to turn up at the DNC cocktail party, the next sound you'd hear was of a hundred lorgnettes dropping!

Senator, I've known Sister Vicious Power Hungry Bitch, I've worked with Sister Vicious Power Hungry Bitch, and you, Senator, are no Vicious Power Hungry Bitch!


[ Parent ]
Capital idea!
The Sisters always were classy, but vivid. And they know a thing or two about raising charitable funds. Yes. If they were to turn up at the DNC cocktail party, the next sound you'd hear was of a hundred lorgnettes dropping!

Senator, I've known Sister Vicious Power Hungry Bitch, I've worked with Sister Vicious Power Hungry Bitch, and you, Senator, are no Vicious Power Hungry Bitch!


[ Parent ]
Heh, "The Field Queers"
or "The Field Faggots"

Or, whatever.

We need a grassroots group much like ACTUP...but reflecting the realities of 2009.


house queers, indeed
The continuing flap over Obama's betrayals of the LGBT communities has finally exposed much of Queer and progressive political leadership for the fabulousity and power-seeking whores they have always been.  Better still, Queers beyond the Beltway are witnessing how the confluence of personal self-dealing for access and a fortuitous period in history yields negligible gains for communities, and the Rainbow People of the hinterlands are expressing their ire.  In response, the cadre of self-perpetuating "leaders" deflects criticism of the President to the Congress without proposing a concrete set of actions for individuals to sway Congress in our favor.

It's as if no energy has been expended over the last 15 years to write and keep ready -- corporate and conservative PACs do this, but queer advocates can't or don't know how? -- the legislation to overturn DADT and DOMA, nudo tax penalties unique to same-sex partners, level the immigration playing field, erase no promo homo, and weave sexual orientation and gender identity into the Civil Rights Act.  And now that the broad-based grassroots passion is there, our major orgs are unprepared and/or unwilling to harness the energy other than to solicit donations or promote a national march of dubious consequence.

Twitter and other social media have clearly changed the political landscape in Iran--how about using them likewise to empower organic Queer action in America?  Let's take the argument to the home offices and local media of the 541 members of Congress, unshackled from centralized control and without regard to what access one might lose by bucking the current administration.


You make a very good point:
It's as if no energy has been expended over the last 15 years to write and keep ready...the legislation to overturn DADT and DOMA, undo tax penalties unique to same-sex partners, level the immigration playing field, erase no promo homo, and weave sexual orientation and gender identity into the Civil Rights Act.

The conservatives founded "think" tanks after Barry Goldwater lost, and they did a lot of thinking; how to screw the middle class, how to undo the "New Deal", how to restore feudalism. These institutions published books, magazines, journal articles, developed a pool of spokesmen who could be interviewed in the smallest media market at any time. The conservatives, over decades, moved the Overton window so far to the right that an Eisenhower Republican looks like a left-leaning Democrat of today.

What has the HRC been doing proactively? Where are the warm-and-fuzzy LGBTQ family stories in the Sunday supplements? Do we have any program to sponsor LGBTQ studies, and shepherd those studies into peer-reviewed journals? (I'm really asking, if we do, we're keeping that secret pretty well.)

The Pentagon (probably illegally) spent tax money in the run up to the Iraq war on briefing retired military officers with Administration talking points, and handing a list of said officers to the major networks. We need to have a list of speakers, qualified and trained microphone pit-bulls  prepared to speak, both live and through remote studieo. We need that list to be emailed every week to radio/TV bookers.

We didn't just wake up one day to Newt's "contract on America", the right wing financed his rise for decades before it happened.

If I'm totally wrong, and HRC or anyone else has been doing this, please let me know. As I said above, if we are doing this, we've been keeping that secret pretty well.

Remember what FDR said, "I agree with you, I want to do it, now make me do it." Have you written/called a congress-critter today? 8.25, 6.21


[ Parent ]
Put me on it.
I know how the right wing rose to power.

I was part of it.

http://www.dyssonance.com  Breaking all the rules...


[ Parent ]
What? who? what?....you were a collaborator? how? why? WHAT....?


Remember what FDR said, "I agree with you, I want to do it, now make me do it." Have you written/called a congress-critter today? 8.25, 6.21

[ Parent ]
lol
Actually, worse.

I was active for years in the party as it was slowly taken over. And I helped in some cases.

Suffice to say that by the first quarter of 2002 I knew the toad in office had killed the party.

So last year I went independent, finally.

Because what good is holding 50 year old political values of low taxes, small government, personal responsibility, and freedom for everyone when the party that espoused it was doing none of them?

I was a moderate then, I'm a moderate now, and I've watched it all slide right of me.

So come early November of next year, I file to run in 2012, most likely as a Dem.

I've spoken here, in old diaries, about how they came to power, and how we need to take their model.

We can get anything we want if we take over 10 seats in the senate and 40 in the house.

Anything.

ANd until we do, we'll get crumbs, election slogans or no.

http://www.dyssonance.com  Breaking all the rules...


[ Parent ]
Just make sure you keep that stuff about
killing Barney Frank on the q.t., okay?

[ Parent ]
What stuff about killing him?
I never had that.

What I had was that I don't care if he dies.

And I don't. Still.

Significant difference between not caring if he dies, and wishing him direct harm.

http://www.dyssonance.com  Breaking all the rules...


[ Parent ]
That was it.
What stuff about killing him?
I never had that.

What I had was that I don't care if he dies.

I stand corrected.

[ Parent ]
I believe that's what it will take.
Better still, Queers beyond the Beltway are witnessing how the confluence of personal self-dealing for access and a fortuitous period in history yields negligible gains for communities, and the Rainbow People of the hinterlands are expressing their ire.

I know no one who has any faith in the big national groups anymore.


[ Parent ]
House queers would be a step up
Obama put's the STAFF in staff queers

What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?


~Heather Small


Hey, Iowa got rained out today. :(
But I'm trying to get that message out on huff post about these staff queers of Obama. I see folks giving you a rough time (as usual).  

[ Parent ]
yeah whack NCYvonne a few times, my hand is blistered
   http://www.huffingtonpost.com/...

Sorry Iowa was a bust, all those corn fed boys, soaked to the skin....um...excuse me for a few minutes

What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?


~Heather Small


[ Parent ]
btw kev
I don't know if you ever saw this response, I didn't want anything wierd hanging between us, I really enjoy your posts

    http://www.pamshouseblend.com/...

What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?


~Heather Small


[ Parent ]
Oh!
1) I stopped going to Pride festivals for awhile because they were often a trigger to drink (that's no longer true). I've actually marched in more festivals than I've watched, so no, that's something that I've never noticed. (Plus, to be honest, I've only been getting really, really uptodate on gay civil rights issues since Prop 8 passed).

2) Cellblock, huh? I used to love that place but it's closed now. They have another bar with the same theme but it's more of a mixed straight/gay crowd. There is another bar like Cellblock (not as fun) that's pretty close to my house.


[ Parent ]
100s, huh?
hmmmmmm...let me percolate on that. Thanks!

[ Parent ]
Couldn't happen if there were a thousand fires
as I pointed out here: http://www.pamshouseblend.com/...

http://www.dyssonance.com  Breaking all the rules...

*sigh*
right now on THINKPROGRESS, people are goin' off about our "whining" & using the "rogue DOJ" line...

Those people...
will be doing a lot of whining of their own when Obama finally caves into big business interests regarding health care and Wall St. regulations.  And I'll just give them the proverbial finger.

[ Parent ]
Oh, you are so correct here Bruno.
Obama and his team don't seem to have a clue how to get Congress with them.

It's the Hammer of JUSTICE,
It's the Bell of FREEDOM,
It's the Song about LOVE between,
my Brothers and my Sisters
...All over this Land.


[ Parent ]
DADT
What I find most annoying about this "focus on Congress!!" B.S. (which is obviously what it is - a way of deflecting criticism from President Obama, I mean, c'mon, the timing here is ridiculous) is that particularly when it comes to DADT Congress can't get jack accomplished without Obama doing some heavy lifting.  Here is a long list of his promises regarding DADT.  Obama needs to request that the military review its DADT policy and help him develop new policy...and he hasn't made those types of requests.  Without clear public support from military leaders and without clear guidelines from the Commander in Chief the Congress doesn't really have anything to work with.  As my link shows DADT is one issue in which Obama (almost exclusively!) should really feel the outrage.  He doesn't have a lackey to blame on this one.  Obama needs to be exposed for his serious support of DADT's anti-gay discrimination.

And in the end, they are HIS promises.  He made them - he should keep them.


Of course.
Obama can find clear military support if he looks for it. See, e.g., Gen. Shalikashvili's piece in the WaPo.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/...

It would be nice, however, if Pelosi and Reid co-sponsored DADT repeal, not left it to someone (Rep. Tauscher) who is leaving for a job on Obama's Cabinet.

Still, Obama's rhetoric all along showed no ambivalence on DADT, not like his waffling on marriage. He said he wanted DADT gone, the military is enlisting felons and white supremacists at a time when it's short of soldiers, public (and military) opinion is shifting, and he can't bring himself to say the word repeal?

His promises. His rhetoric. Words are cheap.


[ Parent ]
Leaders? By whose definition?
Who says that those A list gays who gather together regularly at cocktail parties around the beltway are our leaders?  They certainly didn't get elected to leadership positions by any election in which I had a chance to vote.  

I frankly am sick and tired of people who are bleeding the gay community dry in the form of obscenely high salaries diverted from the donations made by LGBT folks around the nation,  telling us that we just don't understand politics.  Bull! Sometimes the writing on the wall is clear enough that anyone with half a brain can understand.

Elected Democrats from the President on down (with a few very brave exceptions) do NOT want to take a stand on gay rights. It is up to us, those who do not collect 3 figure salaries, and who do not lounge around nice offices paid for by the donations of people who actually work for a living to hold those politicians feet to the fire.  Especially when they take us so much for granted that they can compare our relationships to incest and pedophilia.

If those are our "leaders", then I sure am not going to be a follower.

Unabashed diarywhoring follows: Please see my diary " Where is the apology, President "Fierce Advocate"? " On the front page of this site before it scrolls away.


June 28 is Pride Day in SF
Pam (and other posters here) are right, it's Obama's place to lead on DADT repeal, and this Congress should follow.

Still, it's worth noting that Pelosi's home (8th U.S.) district is in San Francisco. The big parade is in one week's time. Since her office seems loath to respond to any inquiries but those originating from within her district, how about asking her to support her home constituents?

She works for them, doesn't she? Where are our leaders on that side of the country?


I wonder how Malcolm would feel
Knowing his speech survived to the internet age and was firing up teh gays?

Well he started out as a hustler you know
Or maybe you didn't know. Gay African-American history is still in the closet.

And while I'm on the subject a nice big GO FUCK YOURSELF to Jasmyne Cannick.


I would like to apologize
for typing a name that, apparently, has conflict-laden associations.

My excuse is, I was describing something specific.

But your point is taken. Far too many of our people are asking why an AA GLBT org sounds like an undercarriage treatment the dealer tried to scam you for--'The Rustin Center? What's that about?' is kind of exhausting to overhear during pride month.

I'm getting old and impatient.

But wait, there's more!


[ Parent ]
I heard about Malcolm X years ago but have not found any real proof
I believe the article that raised this possibility was in the Guardian.  But I have not found anything that confirms he used to hustle.  

If I'm wrong, please point me to the correct information.

Be better, not bitter!


[ Parent ]
I do remember a very, very vague reference
in the Autobiography of Malcolm X that somewhat implied it. But I'd have to reread the Autobiography to find it.

[ Parent ]
Yes, it's in the autobiography
but it's mentioned in passing, not dwelt on at all.

I am not interested in picking up crumbs of compassion thrown from the table of someone who considers himself my master. I want the full menu of rights.  -Archbishop Desmond Tutu


[ Parent ]
Apology for the incest/pedo brief...
There can be ABSOLUTELY NO PROGRESS until that happens.  We are STILL aggrieved.  Only a full and honest apology from Mr. Obama can begin the process of reconciliation.  Does Mr. Obama have the COURAGE to do the right thing?  Doubtful.

You know, that would help a LOT
In the first couple of days after the DOJ brief was released, an apology and retraction of the brief voiced by Eric Holder would have been acceptable to me. Instead, the White House chose to drop crumbs and, as a result, Obama really really owns that baby now.

Nothing less than an apology from the President is acceptable to me as far as that brief is concerned.


[ Parent ]
Breaking the Law
Everyone tends to hold STONEWALL as our "big moment", yet at the most fundamental level it was about BREAKING THE LAW (fighting back violently against the police).

Today it seems the vast majority of gays get nervous and criticize anyone who even breathes of the idea of breaking the law when it comes to demanding civil rights.  

Do they think STONEWALL would have happened ANY other way?


Decades more of abuse? - OR - Stonewall.  Nationwide.  NOW!


As an African-American Gay Christian Veteran...
Oh I think Jonathan Capehart is perfectly correct. Our ire should be toward Congress. But I also believ you should bloom where you are planted and that you should always start housecleaning at home. There is also plenty of fire in hell and hell hath no fury like a community scorned.
So guess what, it starts where it started. With an ignorant Administration and a congressional leadership team that hasn't realized that the music has changed. Stepping and fetching is as done as the Macarena.

Expect this fire to spread to the DNC coffers and just when you thought there was a chance of it going out we might just give the RNC a little taste. But I will no longer live in a generation that continuously believes that our lives and our rights are not a priority. We have babies to think about!  

Always thinking about it...


Really? WHAT babies?
Or lives and our rights are ALWAYS the Number One priority.

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Babies in gay/lesbian families?
Or maybe the poster was referrin' to the GBLT folk who'll come along after us.

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Protesting the DNC, not the White House
Sure, most of the anger has been directed at Obama, but that's because of the two briefs supporting anti-gay positions (DOMA and DADT) and the silence on our issues for so long. At least the House has debated and passed the hate crimes legislation.

However, the protest is at the Democrats in general, not just Obama; he's not even on the list attending the event. We understand that Dems in general have treated us as an ATM and are collectively to blame.  


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Cognitive dissonance, bigtime

The film OUTRAGE has finally opened here, and I'm just back from a screening.  Needless to say, I loved it (though I wish Dick had gone more into the journalistic side of the story--you know, how MSM journalists aren't really doing their jobs.)

BUT.  Sitting in the theater and seeing Barney Frank and Tammy Baldwin up on the screen talking about how wrong it is for politicians to work against their own communities freaked me out totally.  I just couldn't believe they'd say the things they said in the film and then do what they're doing now.  At one point when Barney was up there, I actually cried out, quite involuntarily, "What the fuck?!"  (The other audience members, instead of shushing me, laughed and applauded.)  Who needs closeted Republicans when we have out Democrats to do pretty much the same things to us?

I am not interested in picking up crumbs of compassion thrown from the table of someone who considers himself my master. I want the full menu of rights.  -Archbishop Desmond Tutu


If I could give you
4 extra points, I would.

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We need to channel this anger and effort
I find that I just don't have a vehicle to act on my frustrations... and do something about it. I write about it at other blogs where it's not a chorus... and I just don't find that effective. I tell friends... including straight ones... and they're supportive, but I'm not changing anything.

This is a weird conundrum for me. I'm a field organizer/campaign manager by trade -- and I just don't have anyone asking me to sign up or volunteer. HRC's never been that organization, though their 40+ MILLION a year that they raise could more than do that. We just don't have a funded, organized MoveOn.org type organization for the gay community. If we did, I'd send my resume and work for canned beans and health insurance at this point -- that's how frustrated I am. But it just doesn't exist.

We need to change that. Fast. If we don't channel our outrage, it's not going to move the President or Congress. Obama and the DNC will just keep feeding Joe Solomnese cocktails and caviar until Joe declares Mission Accomplished for them for them. It's time the activists take ownership of the movement -- the beltway insiders and cocktail brigade are destroying us.


You DO have a vehicle
It's called the voting booth.

Blindly supporting the Democratic Party because they are (allegedly) "better than the Republicans" is what got us where we are.  If we all cave and vote them in again because the GOP offers up more anti-gay boogeymen as candidates, all our anger and frustration really will be for nothing.  The Democrats, come election time, will say all the right things to us, as always--will repeat all of Obama's promises--and the pull the rug out from under us again once they're in office.  And if we get suckered into voting for them again, we will deserve that.

Not that I think voting for the GOP would result in anything better, mind you.  The two parties talk differently about us but behave in precisely the same way.  If we really want change, we have to support parties that seriously represent it and not the status quo.

I am not interested in picking up crumbs of compassion thrown from the table of someone who considers himself my master. I want the full menu of rights.  -Archbishop Desmond Tutu


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Not happy with crumbs
Here's what I wrote to Capeheart, as well as positing it on the discussion board (which is, incidentally filled with homo-hating posts, or was):

Dear Mr. Capeheart:

The President is of course not the enemy of the GLBT community.

But many of us can't glory in the very small progress the President has made, because when we weigh it against his soaring pro-gay rhetoric during the campaign, the mountain has birthed a  mouse.

We can't relish these positive baby steps forward because the President is offering zero leadership for the country and in Congress. He's even behind the curve on DADT, given that polls show a majority of Americans support its repeal--even here in Michigan.

We can't be proud of his crossing the rhetorical boundary and using the term GLBT because we know from our leadership that this latest action was rushed, incoherent, and that the community is being cozened behind the scenes by his staff.

We can't chalk this up as a victory because when it comes to civil rights, we live in a state of gay apartheid that the President is doing little to end, now that he's secured our votes.

Sincerely,
Lev Raphael
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"In order to maintain an untenable position, you have to be actively ignorant."  The Colbert Report


Maybe we could sponsor an old fashioned Cake Walk
When the government hands us CRUMBS, make CRUMB CAKE.

Sell them to donate to local LGBT charities.
I had mentioned having street party permits near Senator's homes and every other song play WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME LATELY. The idea of using the song NATIONALLY of Dancin' In the Street appeals to me, and follow the route of Martha and Vandellas song,(or if we want international flavor Bowie and Mick's version) Which includes Russia, Tokeo, and Brazil.
The cakes and dancing sounds like a pleasant way to spend some summer weekends. btw If Nationally Congress and this administration continues to anger us ,there is PLAN B, which involves throwing pumps at certain officials cardboard cut outs or dunk tanks with masked volunteers.

What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?


~Heather Small


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Largest wedding cake made of CRUMBS
Try to get in guiness book of records, for a wedding cake, and make it all from CRUMBS, that should send a pretty harsh message.
Lordy knows we have wedding cake bakers , and if we could pool their talents it could be funny as hell.

What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?


~Heather Small


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checked out record wedding cake
   World's Largest Wedding Cake: 15,032 Pounds

Mohegan Sun Casino Attempts to Shatter the World Record in Guinness Book of World Records

Today, at the New England Bridal Showcase, Mohegan Sun unveiled what it hopes will be the world's largest wedding cake. Measuring 17-feet tall and weighing 15,032 pounds, the seven-tiered cake is almost three-times the weight of the current record in the Guinness Book of World Records for the world's largest wedding cake.
  http://www.junkfoodnews.net/wo...
"The current record in the Guiness Book of World Records is 5,334-pounds, and was unveiled at Universal Studios, Orlando, Florida on June 12, 2003. The five-tiered cake, which measured 22-feet tall, celebrated the wedding of the animated characters Shrek and Fiona -- who were the main characters in the original Shrek movie -- and the opening of the new Shrek 4-D ride at Universal Studios."

What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?


~Heather Small


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my crumb cake tangent
sorry folks my mind wanders

I saw  a Raspberry crumb cake recipe...it just seemed such a fitting gift for members of Congressional democrats and the White House.
  http://www.cooksrecipes.com/ca...
I'm thinking a bag of crumbs,  a jar of raspberry jam, and a pound of powder sugar, from every queer in America would do the trick.

What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?


~Heather Small


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if we don't eat the damn thing first
petey. Raspberry crumb cake sounds delicious.

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