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Obama's moral test on the most pressing civil rights issue of our age

by: Pam Spaulding

Tue Jun 23, 2009 at 09:00:00 AM EDT


I want to welcome Tanya Domi, a former Captain in the U.S. Army, to the Blend.  She served for 15 years, enlisting as a Private and rising to the rank of Captain before leaving the service honorably. She wanted to contribute a guest post on the moral test the President faces on LGBT rights.
Obama's Moral Test:  What Will Be the Measure of this Man on the Most Pressing Civil Rights Issue of our Age?
By Tanya L. Domi, former Captain, United States Army

I will confess I did not support Barack Obama in the Democratic primaries.  I supported Hillary Clinton and hoped she would finally reach the pinnacle of power in the free world.  But she ran a poorly managed campaign and lost to a better candidate.  As a Democrat, I held my head high on Election Day and cast my vote with some hope and optimism for Barack Obama to become the 44th President of the United States. I was happy for so many friends--especially my African-American friends to witness such a great transformational moment in our history-to push back against our shameful history and bring down the chains of slavery that have weighed on us mightily-elevating all Americans along with our hopes and dreams for a better tomorrow.

I had hopes that we too, the LGBT community would be part of Obama's dream to realize a better country for all of America's citizens. Isn't that what he said during the campaign?  

But I was under no illusion, even during the thrill of election night parties and the heady days that followed.  I worked in Washington, D.C. on Capitol Hill and was a professional LGBT activist for the Task Force during the early 1990s when DADT came to pass.  I have been around the block a few times and have always known it would take a gargantuan political effort to overturn DADT, DOMA, pass ENDA-even to get a hate crimes bill passed in the Senate, not to include passing the Uniting American Families Act or a federal domestic partnership legislation now before Congress.  

However, since Obama's election we have watched DADT continue-unabated, full stop, despite two wars that included a military escalation in Afghanistan.   For me, especially as a veteran who served in the Army, this policy and its process has become even more repulsive and counterintuitive because we elected Barack Obama; this once in a generation gifted orator who said he was a fierce advocate for the LGBT community-and yet, since his historical election, his growing silence on the question of DADT is stunning, dismissive even. He left the dirty business of informing the public about how DADT's legal status will remain unchanged for some time to come by his secretary of defense, who made an off-handed and casual remark to reporters indicating that while the president had made his desires known that he wanted to change the law, it would nonetheless take at least five years to do so [because we are in the middle of two wars].

His soaring words from the past have fallen flat, deflating our hearts.  Since President Obama took the oath of office, 262 service members have been discharged for being gay or lesbian, according to the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network.  Several stellar young officers have come out to tell their stories to the American people about this heinous policy - 1Lt. Dan Choi, National Guard infantry officer, Arabic linguist and West Point graduate with combat experience, is an illustrative case in point of the law's ludicrous and destructive outcomes for not only the soldiers, but also for our country's national security.  Choi's discharge hearing has been scheduled for June 30th, despite personal support from his platoon mates and unit.  2Lt. Sandy Tsao, also of the U.S. Army came out in January, was discharged, but after writing a letter to Obama, received a personal note from him indicating he intends to change the policy, but cannot until Congress revokes the law.

Inside the Beltway, the politicos and pundits pontificate as they sit around their "power" tables and say to us that Obama has so much to do:  Bring the economy back; fight two wars; manage foreign policy snafus and reform health care.  We must wait, we are told. We must wait perhaps even for a second term!  The administration must deal with big things-civil rights for LGBT people are considered 'not a big thing' unless it is your life; your career that may be threatened with an investigation and you are given less than a honorable discharge; your family, who may be split apart because of a court decision or a deportation because your relationship, even if you are married, is not federally recognized; the job you may lose because you have no protection against discrimination; your children, who could be taken away from you by a homophobic judge, or perhaps you may not able to adopt because an enlightened state legislature deemed fit to determine gay people are unfit to be parents.

Tanya continues below the fold.
Pam Spaulding :: Obama's moral test on the most pressing civil rights issue of our age
In the recent days since the Justice department's filed its deeply offensive DOMA legal brief, I have been in a rage-an absolute rage.  I ruminate that if this is how the Department of Justice views our relationships, can you only imagine how they view us over in the Department of Defense as soldiers?  And yet, Obama and other policymakers lag far behind the public in accepting and supporting LGBT people, particularly on the issue of the military.  According to Gallup's most recent poll reported earlier this month, 69 percent of Americans (up six points since 2005) support allowing openly lesbian and gay Americans to serve in the military.

In fact, I will even go further and say that the LGBT organizations are also lagging behind the public on the question of reversing DADT (with the exception of SLDN obviously). While the Human Rights Campaign has kept the issue visible on its website, NGLTF has dropped the issue altogether from its website; indeed, it is a shame, since the Task Force was the leader on this issue in the late 1980s and early 1990s when no one else bothered to care.  I have watched and been inspired as journalist after journalist, from Rachel Maddow, to Anne Marie Cox, to Pam Spaulding and Michael Signorile, hammer the administration and its representatives on this issue that ultimately shamed Joe Solmonese, leader of the Human Rights Campaign, to begrudgingly utter his support during an interview with MSNBC's Chris Matthews, for a stop loss policy suspending all discharges on the basis of sexual orientation.  Finally, 77 members of Congress have agreed, sending a letter to President Obama today urging him to "direct the Armed Services not to initiate investigation of service personnel based upon their sexual orientation...and to disregard third party accusations (I am happy to not for the record that my representative Eliot Engel (D-NY) was on the letter)."

SLDN has announced it will picket the Democratic National Committee's LGBT Leadership dinner on Thursday night and I hope many other organizations will join with them. . Once the check book closed on the DNC, led by HRC surprisingly enough, the White House and the party began to react.  On this occasion, I choose to remain outside.  I stand with all those who can not speak for themselves, because it's against the law. The organization leaders should not attend on Thursday night and for those who plan to not attend and send a check anyway, you are fools.  I will be thinking of all those who go to bed every night in Iraq or Afghanistan, afraid someone will turn them in for an inadvertent comment that could tip-off someone that they might be gay.

We are on the right side of history and the American people are with us on the question of DADT.  So when Obama takes measure of his accomplishments, will he include us in his self- assessment?  I say we must not give any other choice. We must pressure and force him to consider and remember us at every turn.  We must be relentless and we must not be patient; we must organize; we must tell our personal stories; we must march; we must demand and know that the long march of history is on our side.  President Obama, come join us in seeking our dream that is deeply rooted in the American dream.  Remember?  You promised and we are going to hold you to it.

Tanya Domi and her partner Deborah live in New York City; Tanya works for Columbia University in the Office of Communications and is an Adjunct Professor in the School of International and Public Affairs.
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Enough blame to Go Around
I agree: Obama gets an "F" when it comes to delivering on the promises he made during the primary and the campaign to the LGBT community.

But, I have become increasingly angry at our alleged friends in the Congress as well.

Where are the Democrats who claim they support the repeal of DADT and DOMA? Yeah, we finally saw a letter with the names of 77 House members (roughly 21% of the House) denouncing DADT go to the president but one letter just doesn't cut it. In fact, I don't see much Congressional support for Mr. Obama's legislative agenda on Capitol Hill.

What I do see is the usual and customary Democratic calls to "reach across the aisle to our friends on the other side." Can you even imagine Republicans uttering such nonsense?

People ask, "How have you guys managed to stay so long?" I tell them, "Don't sweat the small stuff." It's mostly small stuff.


Amen!

This iron is hot and we must not allow it to be unplugged.

Not only is DADT the gay rights issue that the public already supports the most, it is the one which can best be conflated with nongay self-interest in the form of national security...if gay groups would try harder and spend some money for TV and mainstream print ads.

Call the White House at 202-456-1414 or e-mail the President at www.whitehouse.gov/contact/ and tell him to stop listening to the dinosaurs in the Jurassic Park of the Pentagon. To recall what he himself said in 2007: "America is ready to get rid of Don't Ask, Don't Tell policy. All that is required is leadership." To remember his own better angels and freeze discharges immediately. And, then, for him to become a "drum major for justice," leading Congress to fully repeal Don't Ask, Don't Tell.


Striking when the iron is hot
I think that refers to working a forge.

Be that as it may, I like your idea of quoting the candidate's words to the President.

And I think we need to start using the term "gay apartheid" everywhere.  That will make people think.

"In order to maintain an untenable position, you have to be actively ignorant."  The Colbert Report


[ Parent ]
I disagree
"apartheid" will, in my opinion, turn as many people off as it would persaude. Surely you have witnessed all the flame wars associated with drawing parallels between black's struggle for civil rights, and our own. While parallels can sure be drawn, they were contentious.

Describing what we're going through as "apartheid" strikes me as unnecessarily hyperbolic. You might read up on apartheid. We haven't had our voting rights stripped away, we haven't been geographically segregated, they haven't codified employment discrimination into law, they aren't issuing ID cards identifying us as "LGBT." The list goes on.

I understand the need to be provocative in our rhetoric and wake people up. But hyperbole like that is, imo, counterproductive and disrespectful to those who endured--I'm sorry to introduce a hierarchy on suffering--much, much worse.

Any sane person would choose being gay in America in 2009 over being black in South Africa in 1950.


[ Parent ]
Well.
Describing what we're going through as "apartheid" strikes me as unnecessarily hyperbolic. You might read up on apartheid. We haven't had our voting rights stripped away, we haven't been geographically segregated, they haven't codified employment discrimination into law, they aren't issuing ID cards identifying us as "LGBT." The list goes on.

I disagree with some of this, particularly as it pertains to employment discriminationsand even geographic segregation to an extent (in our case it's often a self-segregation but homophobia is the reason for that, by and large).

While apartheid is loaded language that I would not use, we have not been allowed to even use the term "civil rights" for fear of pissing off the African American community I suppose. And really all it is is hetero supremacy.

And I'm African American, by the the way.


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Well, I won't be using "apartheid"
we have lots and lots of reasonable arguments and rhetorical tactics in our hands. Using "apartheid" comparisons, imo, makes us sound as "reality based" as Fundies who insist that Gay Marriage is ruining straight marriage. Reality fail.

[ Parent ]
neither will i - as T at Republic of T said ..

regarding Slavery , Slavery is slavery , apartheid is apartheid -  not the same thing...now continue with your regularly scheduled thread , but lets not conflate or appropriate - history or words. TYVM.  

[ Parent ]
LOL
I do think I stated that I wouldn't use apartheid language myself.

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Clark might want to read
Merriam-Webster:

"apartheid. 1: racial segregation ; specifically : a former policy of segregation and political and economic discrimination against non-European groups in the Republic of South Africa
2: separation, segregation [e.g.] "cultural apartheid" "gender apartheid""

My only issue with the word in this context is that teh average American has far less of "gut feeling" about it than they do racial segregation and bigotry in the United States which predates the discussion of African Apartheid.

In any case, we should choose the words which best help us to communicate the situation that we're talking about. Surrendering OUR right to use any words we want in this context by submitting to the loudest demagogues who wish to "own" oppression has only hurt us.

And I say, ENOUGH!


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That's why I am so pissed off
at the unwillingness to use the term "civil rights."

In a sense, the term "human rights" (as my congresscritter used) can be used as distancing language and is a denial of the fact that we are American, really ( as if we are those yucky aliens!)

Use of the term "civil rights" carries by implication the fact that we are American citizens.


[ Parent ]
This is why I use "Constitutional rights"
They're still civil rights, but by not using the term "civil rights" I avoid having people like Jasmyne Cannick screaming in my face about oppressive, ignorant white gays co-opting her struggle. And I can ALWAYS point to the 14th Amendment and yell, "EQUAL PROTECTION AND DUE PROCESS!!!" without playing oppression olympics.

God save ornery old queens! - kevinchi

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Then allow Miss Jasmyne to scream at me
My larger point, though (pertaining to the Jan Schakowsky letter) is that it forces the Democratic Party to address the homophobia in their coalition.

Personally, I think the use of the term "civil rights" something the gay community should demand of our "allies" in the Democratic Party for the reasons I stated in the post that you responded to.

Plus folks can find out that this is about more than marriage equality for the gay community. Heck, we are already allied to an extent with labor.


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Mrs. Betty Slocombe and I...

...are "unanimous in that!"

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I don't need to read up on apartheid, thank you!
Please don't assume ignorance on  the part of people posting here. I had relatives living in South Africa, studied it extensively, have seen films about the country and read novels by S. African writers--as well as following the system in the news for decades.  Some of us do read you know, some of us are literate.

I use the term in the same way that a United Nations High Commmisioner recently used it in decrying laws that restrict the rights of gay citizens around the world.  Since DOMA does that, it is perfectly appropriate to use the term.  if some people don't like it, too bad.  You're certainly free not to use it.

"In order to maintain an untenable position, you have to be actively ignorant."  The Colbert Report


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I won't. It sounds toy ears no different than the GOP
Likening themselves to Iranian opposition and likely to reinforce an impression we have lost perspective and are unreasonable and hysterical.  

[ Parent ]
Hyberbolic?
So I suppose that the suicide rate among young white gays is four times higher than their peers because they're insane. To get to the point, there's no diminishing the horror of being gay and being surrounded by family - your own mother and father - that regards homosexuality as an utter abomination and a refutation of all that's good. Getting a little sick of African Americans on their civil rights high horse who don't seem to understand this white gay reality and their condescending attitude toward the gay civil rights movement as a result. Your community ultimately, in one way or another, makes space for its GLBT people - Not so among whites where gays and lesbians are often cast utterly adrift.

[ Parent ]
That's straight African Americans, Dieter
and the African American community turns it's gays into "house faggots" as a price for inclusion into the community or else we're cast adrift also. I know that, because it's what's happened to me and it continues.

We're in the same boat, there bud, back up a bit.


[ Parent ]
Praise Jesus!

I am so happy to learn that Jasmyne and Donna What's Her Name aren't gay.

KIDDING!

:- )

MB
President, Ornery Old Queens LLP


[ Parent ]
And what was Miss Donna "What's Her Name"
doing in the Oval Office when the President signed his memo? Given her previous thoughts on the gay use of the term "civil rights," i was a bit bothered by that.

[ Parent ]
Behind Kameny?

...I believe that was Lorilyn 'Candy' Holmes, "a lesbian career federal employee."

Still, everybody sing!

"Well we're movin on up...
We finally got a piece of the pie."

Me bad!


[ Parent ]
Thank you, Lev...

for the clarification re the source of the expression which I should have realized myself. I'm embarrassed by my error and you've saved me from repeating it.

Your reward? Some classic Emily Litellanisms:

"What is all this fuss I hear about the Supreme Court decision on a 'deaf' penalty? It's terrible! Deaf people have enough problems as it is!"

"What is all this fuss about Saving Soviet Jewelry ... Endangered Feces ...Violins on Television ... Presidential Erections ... Flea Elections in China... Conserving our Natural Racehorses ... Youth in Asia ... Sax on Television... and Making Puerto Rico a Steak? Next thing you know, they'll want a baked potato with sour cream!"


[ Parent ]
"Apartheid?" Oh my.
I hesitate to use any term that causes me to hesitate.

Should I follow the Afrikaans pronunciation? Standard British? US?

By the time I've mentally stumbled over my choices, the perfect moment in which to make my point has passed me by.

YMMV. And that's as it should be.


[ Parent ]
Protest
Thank you so much Tanya for your letter.  The LGBT community needs to stand up for our rights now. We are done with patience.For those who can't be thereon Thursday, don't let that stop you from expressing your anger. Write letters, call your Representatives, and stand in your own city and state.
We will stand until full civil rights are achieved.

protestforhumanrights.com

Time to Stand! ProtestForHumanRighs.com


[ Parent ]
Attention Democrats!
Photobucket

Is that clear enough for you?


ROFL!
I love that image!  :-D

[ Parent ]
excellent image


What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?


~Heather Small


[ Parent ]
not fair . . .
for the life of me I cannot figure out how to post an image or get it to work . .even in my own diary post. . .phooey.

That said, Why can't we get more people like Tanya debating these issues in the MSM? She's Fantastic.


[ Parent ]
ggw59
I'm lousy at HTML language I know you put "image" at the front and back of the code for a picture. What I do is have a free account at Village Photo, and I upload the picture from my files there, then there's a feature to copy the URL and you leave a few blanks before you paste the URL in a post, and it becomes a link.
Any picture you see on google image you just paste the URL as a link, or can right click on the pictutre to save it you your files.
This sounds like the blind leading the helpless, but that's how I do it.

What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?


~Heather Small


[ Parent ]
get yourself a photobucket account
it's free. after you upload a photo of choice, it provides easy copy & paste links for embedding. Choose the one marked for HTML, copy & paste it into a comment or diary. You're done.

[ Parent ]
That's what I use, too
And if a Luddite like ME can use it... well... ;)

"It goes on one at a time, it starts when you care to act, it starts when you do it again after they said no, it starts when you say We and know who you mean, and each day you mean one more."

[ Parent ]
Fantabulous image!

That is a better "=" Equal sign than that of HRC!

[ Parent ]
How can Obama and the Democrats
work on "the most pressing civil rights issue of our age" when Obama and the Democrats can't even acknowledge that it's a civil rights issue?

That's what infuriated me about that letter that my congresscritter Jan Schakowsky sent, she referred to it as our "human rights agenda." And I am taking my time (a little too much time, really) in crafting a response to that.


DUMP DOMA
Sign the petition from people for the American Way here:

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"In order to maintain an untenable position, you have to be actively ignorant."  The Colbert Report


Thank you, Cpt. Domi!
We are on the right side of history and the American people are with us on the question of DADT.  So when Obama takes measure of his accomplishments, will he include us in his self- assessment?  I say we must not give any other choice. We must pressure and force him to consider and remember us at every turn.  We must be relentless and we must not be patient; we must organize; we must tell our personal stories; we must march; we must demand and know that the long march of history is on our side.

Yes, we can't stop. We must keep working, keep going, keep rabble-rousing until DADT is gone. There's no good reason, none whatsoever, to keep firing good soldiers who can't live a lie.

Want to save marriage equality in Maine? Ask me how! ;-)


My Personal Canary
I too agree with the points made above.  I would add to them that historically the majority party in Congress does not act independently of the President if he is of the same party; he has set the agenda for legislation.  I would also like to share my own personal "canary in the mine".  The Hate Crimes Bill continues to be stalled in the Senate despite the claim that it would be added as a rider to some other bill that came up last week.  I think this is the clearest indication of the commitment that the Democratic party has shown to our community.

2 parties
I agree wholeheartedly that the DNC fundraiser should be boycotted and picketed.  However, I understand that the White House is organizing a cocktail party at the end of the month, hosted by the president.  It is important that this event be well-attended, that we not snub the president directly.  Still, our message should be clear.  So every guest at the White House cocktail party should bring a soldier discharged under DADT as their date.


Well, these are our "leaders"
But are they truly representing us. What about that "What do we do about the blogs" question that came out of the 2 pm phone call yesterday? The White House knows that there is unrest at the grassroots but our Vichy queers don't seem to care.

[ Parent ]
Welcome Tanya
Your voice is an asset here, and thanks for BOTH your services, defending the country, and speaking for those service members restrained from speaking out.
I have two lesbian veteran dear friends, who helped me when I had no choice for my own safety, leaving a battering relationship. They gave me a safe place to stay, where no one would look for me, and it is something I'll never be able to repay. I also know a senior woman veteran who was stationed in Occupied Japan, who knew a military completely free of discrimination against women's branches, EVERYONE knew, and nobody cared.

What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?


~Heather Small


When will a straight service member speak out on our behalf?
As always, a straight person speaking up for our fair treatment speaks far far louder than we can. So where are these comrades of gay and lesbian service members who didn't want to see them expelled? One anecdote, one anecdote alone, about, say, how an expelled gay Arabic interpretor, who could talk with friendly locals and saved his battalion from a bomb down the road, could do far more than all our abstract pleas for justice. Where are our straight allies in the military? Supposedly we have quite a few. Can't we find just one, maybe retired, with a compelling story to tell who's willing to speak out?. That's what could really make a difference.

How about a former Joint Chief of Staff?
Clinton's Joint Chief, John M. Shalikashvili, who presided over the initiation of DADT has actually been an outspoken for  its repeal:

http://www.washingtonpost.com/...

He's straight.


[ Parent ]
Too high up
I know. But I mean a someone on the ground who's seeing action now or has seen it recently - not a higher up. That's someone the average heterosexual citizen could relate to. Don't you think?

[ Parent ]
Because they all still have their jobs and are still in uniform
And so they still have to, by regulation, hate gays even though they know and serve with us. And if they admit they know gays in the service and HAVEN'T turned them in, then their jobs will be in jeopardy, too. All it takes is one bigot to assume guilt-by-association and get them kicked out, or that straight ally is denied promotions, or given terrible fitreps/NCOERs, or harassed until they give in and squeal or don't reenlist. Then you have a former ally who is now bitter that they stuck out their neck for a stupid, whiny faggot.

Trust me. I live this. I KNOW how it is.


God save ornery old queens! - kevinchi


[ Parent ]
Trust me - you're an anti-gay troll
"Stupid whiny faggot". I think you've betrayed yourself. It happens so often - toward the end of your posts you just can't keep from letting the homophobic cat out of the bag.

[ Parent ]
Dieter you're acting like the troll now.
BACK UP!

[ Parent ]
Not a chance
armchair warrior.

[ Parent ]
Keori is a Blender
whom I happen to like and we have a great deal in common, actually.

Read those last two sentences  again, slooooowly and in context. She's referring to the state of mind of servicepeople who do stick up for someone whom they know to be gay in the military.


[ Parent ]
I'll butt out now
Yeah, I'm definitely getting the feeling that I've intruded here at this website on a rather private party where independent thought isn't entirely welcome. Good Bye.

[ Parent ]
Don't go away mad....
As someone who blushes with pride at being labeled a troll by certain kinds of people, I have to say that your skin seems a bit thin. But really, don't you think that you should be a member of an online group longer than just a few days before you start branding them trolls?  I mean, how would you know one way or the other?

(signed) Curious in Chicago


[ Parent ]
*giggle*
polly, you are such a troll.

(meant in a good way)

:D :D :D

http://www.dyssonance.com  Breaking all the rules...


[ Parent ]
@Dieter
I can vouch Keori is a Blender with valuable contributions to this site.....not a troll

What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?


~Heather Small


[ Parent ]
LOL, you'd think some research was in order or something
I mean, it's not like you can just click on my name and see my diaries on Hawaii Civil Unions, or DADT, or the legislative roundups that have been front-paged or anything.

Dieter, you fail at the internets. Have a cookie.

God save ornery old queens! - kevinchi


[ Parent ]
he liked the old Steven's tube filled internets


What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?


~Heather Small


[ Parent ]
PS
What nonsense, anyway, that any straight person has been expelled for standinbg up for a gay comrade  - hate to say but half of our sevice members now in Iraq would be home by now if it were that easy. Who are you trying to kid?

[ Parent ]
**looks around**
Has this guy ever actually served? Is he a veteran? Anyone know? Anyone? Anyone...Bueller...Bueller...

God save ornery old queens! - kevinchi

[ Parent ]
take it literally...
It is my opinion that all LGBTQ enlisted members COME OUT - just like millions of civilian LGBTQ folks have already done.  This would force the military to discharge hundreds, perhaps thousands, of service men and women at the same time, during two concurrent wars.  We (the out and proud civilians among us) have already risked much - our careers, families and friends - to come out and live in our truth.  
Perhaps it's time for ALL our gay military to declare their truth, and let's see what happens then with DADT.
Joe

It won't matter
Either the commanders will refuse to prosecute so they keep their billets filled, and the next CO will do so out of hatred, or they'll get kicked out anyway and the services can just lower recruiting standards more. They already allow known PT/weight standards failures, gang members, violent criminals, and white supremacist militia members in, what's a few more?

Yes, I am in fact bitter; why do you ask?

God save ornery old queens! - kevinchi


[ Parent ]
MARCH to the White House!!!
Here's another protest to keep the pressure on! (0.00 / 0)
Knights Out sponsors SLDN's March on the White House Saturday June 27th
If you can't march with Knights Out in San Francisco, please march with SLDN in Washington DC on Saturday June 27th.
Led by the fighting Cook v. Gates plaintiffs (service members discharged under DADT), SLDN and other community organizations, including Knights Out, will be marching to the White House on Saturday, June 27 to call upon President Obama to break his silence on "Don't Ask, Don't Tell." The first 265 marchers will be veterans and service members. This is the number of service members discharged since January 20 when the President took office. In addition, family and friends of service members will be attending to implore the president to lead the way with lawmakers to get repeal done in this Congress and to end discrimination in the military. One doesn't need to be a veteran or on active duty to show up and support our LGBT troops, one only needs to be committed to equality for all.

Together, we have a real opportunity to deliver a powerful message to the White House, Congress, and to the American people, and to let our service members know they have not been forgotten. Sign up at www.sldn.org/265 and represent!

If you don't have one yet, it's not too late to order a Knights Out t-shirt from SpiritCPT@knightsout.org or http://www.knightsout.org/store

Assembly is at Farragut Square at 2:00pm. The group will march to the White House from there.


Come, come, my conservative friend, wipe the dew off your spectacles, and see that the world is moving."
-Elizabeth Cady Stanton


And we trust....

...everyone will be unequivocal in calling for the President to IMMEDIATELY use his executive powers to freeze discharges as well as lead Congress to repeal?

[ Parent ]
welcome, CPT Domi
... and thank you for your activism and good words on this. Some of us have been fighting this a very long time now, and you are a welcome reinforcement indeed.

Ms. Domi is being too modest...

...she was one of the leaders of a cross country speaking tour in 1993 to try to raise public support for overturning the ban, was one of the few gays allowed to testify in the stacked deck Congressional pre-DADT hearings, and was instrumental in the decision of one of our most articulate spokespersons at the time, Navy Top Gun Tracy Thorne, to come out on "Nightline" even before Clinton secured the Party's nomination. Not only was Tracy discharged but one of the members of his squadron who supported him was effectively "red lined" from promotion. Tracy was also one of the few allowed to testify. See a snippet here:

www.youtube.com/watch?v=9PMEXfSqm5k

Unfortunately, they were outgunned and outfunded by the Military Congressional Religious Antigay Industrial Complex.


[ Parent ]
SOrry, I have to say it.
DADT is the most pressing moral issue of our day?

Seriously?!?!

Does anyone realize that DADT doesn't stop the discharges of transfolk?

Does anyone realize that DADT doesn't take the 4 in 10 homeless kids on the streets of Los Angeles who happen to be trans off the street?

I salute Captain Domi.  As a former US Army Ranger, I'd be foolish not to (she outranks this gal, and outserved her, as well).

But I can't help but be reminded just how unimportant I am when I hear "most pressing moral issue of our day".

And I've got a really big freaking ego.  Stings a bit.

DADT is not the most pressing moral issue of the day.  I might consider it close to such if, when calling for its removal, we also removed the psych discharges of transfolk.

Because then it would be about the LGBT (as she says this is about, above).

Otherwise its about LGB and has nothing to do with trans.



http://www.dyssonance.com  Breaking all the rules...


So how does she feel about Mondays WH '40th Stonewall ANNIV' Party?
VERY Private Cocktail/Cocktease Party and the Whitehouse ... just the 'good guys' invited.
Lt.Col FEHRENBACH, who is still on active duty 13 months after revealing his is gay,says he will go. He is certainly a voice for all the SILENT ones! So I kind of am okay  with it.
Not another penny ever to HRC, or NGTLF I guess.

Keep your $$ Talking Everyone... it does.

It's the Hammer of JUSTICE,
It's the Bell of FREEDOM,
It's the Song about LOVE between,
my Brothers and my Sisters
...All over this Land.


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