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NBC's The Listener: Taking on Trans Youth

by: waymonhudson

Mon Jul 13, 2009 at 14:57:18 PM EDT


I've been watching a show on NBC that I haven't heard too much buzz about.  The Listener is about a paramedic who can read people's thoughts and uses it to help others.  Think "Heroes" without the giant cast and a little more believable (if mind-reading can be believable).  

6a00d83451c17f69e201156fcae7e9970c-300wi.jpgIt also doesn't hurt that the lead is easy on the eyes, but that's neither here nor there.

I was catching up on some episodes on the TiVo and was pleasantly shocked at last week's show called "Lisa Says."   This particular episode deals with the heavy issues facing trans youth: homelessness, not accepting parents, and lack of medical help.  In fact it revolves around a young female to male trans youth, something else that has been rather unheard of on prime-time TV.

I think it was of the most positive and realistic depictions of the issues surrounding trans kids I have seen on a fictional TV show...

Video and more after the jump...
waymonhudson :: NBC's The Listener: Taking on Trans Youth
Of course it is dramatized and heightened a bit.  But some of the back and forth between the trans kid and his mother was spot on and quite telling.  The mother panics about her child, throwing out church, therapy, and a long list of "fixes."  All of it fails to move her son, who simply tells her:
You've already lost your daughter. You're going to lose me as well.
Not only that, but the young kid repeatedly talks about how he's known since he was 6 that he needed to transition.

There is, of course, the typical straight guy response represented by the main character's paramedic partner- who doesn't understand how someone can "choose" to change their gender.  This only serves as a set-up for the main character to really drive home the point about making your outside match your insides and giving a really good speech on acceptance.

I was even more surprised that they didn't put a neat little bow on the end of the episode, with the mother coming around and simply accepting her son.  The young man decides he can't live with his mother until she gets help to accept him.  

So I'm curious to see what the rest of you think, especially our trans readers.  Do you see it as a step forward in the coverage of trans kids on TV or something negative?  

You can check out the full episode online here.

Here's the teaser for the episode:

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I watch this show - since day 1!!!!!!!!!
As a superhero fan on a time budget, I pick and choose which sci-fi/hero shows to watch. I took the bait with this one...and have enjoyed being the fish.

Have been watching since day 1, but NEVER expected a trans-youth episode (or any gay issues at all). I guess the theme of fighting for one's identity is getting too, too common to exclude the gay/trans experience - which is the human freedom story for my growing national generation.

The struggle of trans youth, gay youth, is something ALL of us can take inspiration from...including this heterosexual South Asian whose mother thought I was too young to choose my own girlfriend (at age 28, just last Christmas. First grilfriend ever).

As fate would have it, my mother was watching this with me. I tried to explain trans gender identity. She just walked off saying I watch "scary" shows, "it's a scary world we live in".

Praying and working each day to make progress and see it. I start a Masters this Fall. Just registered for classes.

But feel free to ignore this digression. Please get back to the topic of this great episode.



Nice
I usually don't watch network TV (mainly because the plots are so hackneyed and pathetic), but I was glad to see this being raised.

NBC's raised transyouth before with Law & Order: SVU, which had an episode which was adapted from the David Reimer case, which had the doctor murdered by one of the kids.

From what I can read of the synopsis thanks to Waymon, it sounds like the writers talked to GLAAD or NCTE, or one of the other groups to get the scenes right. Good for them!

Listen to "TransTalk" every Thursday at 4-5pm ET on http://www.falconradio.org


I liked the lack of "neat bow"
"I was even more surprised that they didn't put a neat little bow on the end of the episode, with the mother coming around and simply accepting her son.  The young man decides he can't live with his mother until she gets help to accept him."

This is the reality we live in. Parents don't magically change after 30 minutes or even an hour-long show. Not even if a part of them wants to, and they try to say they can "deal with it" (main character was listening to her thoughts).

The truth is that biases and prejudices create physical indents in our brain, and are stickier in the adult brain. A parent of a teen might be 40-50 something years old. 40-50 years of living a worldview does not reverse in any livable period of time, if at all.

Of course, anecdotes are there of people changing in their 40s, but how often, and how long? How long can a teen wait for the acceptance he desperately needs?

I want to believe that not everybody thinks that it's the teen's job to reverse their parent's 40-50 years of upbringing, bias, worldview.    


It was a good show
I liked that the mindreader got the female image by reading the mother's mind and got nothing about it from the boy.

And you're right about the main character being easy on the eyes.

When you look for the bad in mankind, expecting to find it, you surely will.

- Abraham Lincoln.


Canadian dramas
I wonder if it being a Canadian production is a factor in the episode not having a neat "Hollywood" happy ending? I have often noticed that Canadian shows are usually much more comfortable with ambiguity. DaVinci's Inquest and Intelligence are good examples of this.

(For those who haven't seen it yet, the show is set and filmed in Toronto, with the CN Tower prominently visible in the background of many shots.)

I got hooked on this show from the beginning during its Canadian broadcast run in the spring. Although I usually prefer to watch shows commercial free on the internet, since I currently have a Nielson Ratings box on my TV, I made sure to have it on during The Listener to give it a ratings boost.


well done
I don't watch TV, nor this type of show, however I thought they handled trans issues respectfully.

I think it HAD " a neat bow around it"
 You wrote " The young man decides he can't live with his mother until she gets help to accept him."

This pro LGB/Trans-positive straight girl thinks ending the ep with " a Mom who cannot accept her child - as that child is- is a Mom who needs therapy"  was  a HUGE shiny bright pink bow on top of sparkly gift wrap.  Yay for NBC!  


That's the kid from United States of Tara
He's amazing on that show, the best thing about it. He plays a gay character on it and it's by far the best gay character on tv. Beautifully written and beautifully acted.

I'll have to give this episode a shot. Maybe I'll even like the show?


most allowed to live (gay) character - yes!
read that the directors/writers specifically wanted his being gay to have nothing to do with how the rest of the characters interacted with him - not even a "non-issue".

that scene from when his dad comes home and passes The Boy out front o the house all the way to the end of the maybe five lines of dialogue between him and his dad after he comes inside?

cried.  
totally. cried.
lol

wonderful.
off to have a look at The Listener.


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