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Will Rev. Bernice King's bully pulpit at SCLC bash gays?

by: Pam Spaulding

Thu Nov 05, 2009 at 08:00:00 AM EST



Guest post by Rev. Irene Monroe

Rev. Bernice King has been bestowed the honor to be the eighth president and first women to head the Southern Christian Leadership Conference (SCLC).

Co-founded by her father, Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., the Rev. Bernice King may be a legacy pick for SCLC, but unfortunately she will not be carrying on his legacy.

As a matter-of-fact, given the homophobic vitriol Rev. Bernice King has spewed out over the years the LGBTQ community is bracing to see what next she'll say and do given the bully pulpit she now has.

Because Rev. Bernice King has been rumored for years to be a lesbian, her track record concerning LGBTQ civil rights has been less than humane and antithetical to both legacies of her parents.

For example, Rev. Bernice King's most audacious sign of desecrating her father's legacy was the December 2004 march titled "Stop the Silence, " promoting an anti-gay agenda.

Beginning the protest march by lighting a torch at her father's grave site and then passing it on to her spiritual mentor and the march organizer, Bishop Eddie Long of New Birth Missionary Baptist Church who proudly carried the lit torch in a two-mile march through Atlanta with thousands of followers, Rev. Bernice King adamantly stated that the march was not against LGBTQ people. It's a "need for God's People to stop being silent" and being " about God's business of speaking up for the Kingdom of God," King told Associated Press.

However, contrary to her claims, the first goal of the march listed on the church's website promoted a constitutional amendment to protect marriage "between one man and one woman."

On speculating about her father's viewpoint on marriage equality let us not forgot one of Rev. Bernice King's sanctimonious moments of ranting and railing against it when she stated that "I know in my sanctified soul that he (Dr. King) did not take a bullet for same-sex marriage."

Bernice dishonored her mother's civil rights legacy by holding the funeral at Bishop Long's church, which Julian Bond, the national NAACP chairman, didn't attend.

"Mrs. King was a strong supporter of gay and lesbian rights. Her husband was a strong believer in helping the poor and preached a theology of contempt for seekers of material goods -- and lived his life that way. The pastor of the church where she was funeralized led an anti-gay march through Atlanta -- sadly, Mrs. King's youngest daughter, an elder in his church, accompanied him. We cannot know what Mrs. King's wishes were for a funeral -- she probably had no choice about church or minister -- but I did have a choice -- and while I have an abiding respect for my former neighbor and friend, I chose not to be in that church" Bond told AP.

SCLC has an outstanding legacy of championing the civil rights of African Americans. But it has not expanded its reach beyond racial discrimination. And attempts to do so have been admonished by SCLC's national board.

For example, Reverend Eric P. Lee, president of the Los Angeles chapter of the SCLC and the author of the book, "Marriage Equality: Proposition 8, The California Divide" was called on the carpet by SCLC's national board last year for his advocacy in favor of LGBTQ marriage equality during California's heated Proposition 8 controversy.

Comprised mostly of conservative clergymen and some churchwomen, SCLC remains in an intentional time warp. With its refusal to speak on present-day issues not only plaguing the African American community but plaguing all Americans, SCLC exists as a visiting museum tethered to the 1960's civil rights era rather than exist as an organization faced toward the challenges of today. For example, King's oldest son, Martin Luther King III, was president of SCLC from 1997-2004. He failed to join the national fight against HIV/AIDS, ravaging African American communities, because he "felt uncomfortable talking about condoms," L.A. times reported in 2001.

SCLC's religious rhetoric against LGBTQ citizens chokes progress, hinders equality, and allows religion-based bigotry to flourish.

"The SCLC cloaks its support for inequality in religious rhetoric. I often hear the argument that religious African Americans are somehow required to be homophobic and to oppose marriage equality because of their deep commitment to Christian doctrine, practice, and belief. But this ignores that the primary distinguishing characteristic of African American Christianity is its rejection of oppressive biblical interpretation in favor of embracing a liberating and loving God," Melissa Harris-Lacewell, professor at Princeton, wrote on the blog, "The Notion."

While many in the LGBTQ community now gasp at the reality of Rev. Bernice King being at the helm of SCLC, I gasp at SCLC's audacity to still call itself a civil rights organization.

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i think you know what to expect from ms king.  however, we can only control our own behavior.  if you want someone else to change then you need to change how you react.  what if she was met with forgiveness?  she is clearly acting out of some psychological disorder, neurosis, maybe a personality disorder and i would treat it that way.  what if she was your sister and 'acted out' publicly?  how would you explain it to your friends or her 'victims'?  perhaps you would say that ms king is so hyerfocused on homosexuals, in an out of proportion way to say the poor or homeless or world hunger, that she is irrational and isn't that sad.  'we' know that she should get some help so that she can lead a more balanced life rather than one so focused on a minority of the population.  i would not argue with her or debate her because she draws energy from that.  give her no energy to draw from when she makes her speeches.  give her the 'real' christian response and set the example.  at most, meet her with 'glad' text like pollianna did in the movie.  i am not christian or even religious but i wish you well in that battle.  i've been so damaged by the judgement and hypocrasy that i have to work to stay focused on the positive religious people so i don't fall victim to hate.  there are some good ones but i can't hear their voices over the loud and cruel.  i don't want to hate anyone.  negative emotions are as addictive as drugs and drag you down.

Let's take the high road again, right?
Unfortunately, that high road leads to straight people like you laughing at gay people like me.

Screw that.

Defund.  

I'm praying an anti-affirmative action referendum comes back to Colorado.  I doubt I'll actively vote against, depends on how much they try to kick me while I'm down, but I'm sure as hell not going to be motivated to vote for their pet pony issue again.

That goes for anti-abortion "personhood" amendments.

That goes for union-saving amendments.

Colorado tends to have ungodly long ballots chock full of ballot initiatives.  Screw that people that won't help us.

At some point, someone no longer is an ally.  We're at that point.  

# Duty, duty -- honor is, is --
Honor, Creideiki -- alertly
# Shared, is -- Honor #


[ Parent ]
We don't refer to ourselves as homosexuals here
I hear the church in you!  We're the LGBT community.  Certainly you realize this as you've been a member of PHB for months.  Words matter.

P.S. I'm not interested in giving Ms. King the "real christian response", I am not part of a religious group. This is seen as weakness by xians anyway.


[ Parent ]
Gaydar
Why does my limited gaydar start pinging every time I see Bernice?

I'm a little heartened...
..to see some of the people here not using the word "Reverend" in reference to Ms. King.  There is nothing that bears reverence about her or any other homophobic bigot. It is a little way to make a point, but we need to start referring to the Pope only as Mr. Ratzinger.  The Bishop of Vermont as Mr. Malone. Stop enabling these people to put themselves on self construted pedestals.  Try it. I started by not referring to Laura Schlesinger as "Dr."  It is very liberating.  I had a friendly exchange with a Priest whom I referred to as "mister."  He said "It's Father" and I replied "I don't belong to your church, so I'll stick with Mr."  We owe courtesy to religious figures, nothing more. They are merely people.  Try it.  You'll like it.

WHAT???
How can any "homosexual" give Ms. King a "real christian response" when folks like Ms. King do not believe any of us can possibly BE christian?

Once again (I think I've said it before) RELIGION is the problem.

Our right-wing media, the corporate state, the need for "enemies" by the "vast right-wing machine" is the problem.

Our lack of anger is the problem.

We are trying too hard to "educate" people who HATE us.  We are trying too hard to show people how "normal" we are, how "solid" we are  ---  that's not it folks.

We are CITIZENS.  We are supposed to be EQUAL.  Voting on another persons right to exist, marry, breathe, is the OPPOSITE of "All Men Are Created Equal".  It doesn't matter if we are "nice", "proper", or not  --  we are Citizens.  We pay taxes, we live in the same places, breathe the same air   -----   the majority does not have the right to declare ANY minority "second class citizens". "Majority rule, minority rights."

The USA is NOT a "christian country"  --  we were founded as a refuge from religious discrimination     -----     of course, the moment those with theocratic impulses gained sway, they began the cycle of discrimination all over again.

Religion and economic inequality are our enemies.  The movement toward Fascism by our right-wing friends is our enemy.

We can either do things that support our secular society or not.  We can act to preserve personal freedom, or not.  

"Playing nice" with people who will hate us no matter what we DO is a losing proposition   ---   they don't care what we DO, it means nothing  --  it's all about who we are.  Our very BEING offends them.

Think about what that means.


Think about this
TWO YEARS ago, "Oscar the Grouch", a "Sesame Street" character was in a skit where they made a comment about "Pox News" (as opposed to "GNN" - the "Grouch News").

Now, some right-wing wing-nuts (doesn't that have a nice ring to it?) are complaining about this shameful behavior.

As far as I'm concerned, this proves these folks are INSANE, CRAZY, BONKERS, and damn near everything else.

They are mentally ill.

Now, how far do you think these insane folks would go to rid themselves of "the gay menace"?  

How far would they go to eliminate a "force" that could "bring down Western Civilization"?

Those of you who live in civilized parts of the country may not quite understand what all the fuss is about.  Those who still feel safe, or who are unaware of the constant, violent, anti-gay rhetoric spewed out from pulpits all over the country may tend to downgrade the potential danger.

Don't.  


true christian response
well, i was replying to a christian so i was trying to recommend something a christian could do.  i totally agree that religion has outlasted its usefullness to society and i would abolish it were i queen.  i am suggesting that we not become as hyperfocused on all our 'enemies' and focus on our supporters.  i think these crazies feed off of the reaction they can provoke in us and i am suggesting we give them none.  i mean, you can't talk to them or change their mind.  they are all about being right.  their whole identity is wrapped up in being what they are.  you can't debate with crazy folks but you don't get mad at them for being crazy either.  i wouldn't go protest them nor pour money into fighting them either.  no energy for them to feed on.  i would do my best to not react to anything they do and instead turn the focus to something else.  certainly we should be focusing our limited money and engery towards something that progresses the rights of all people.  i'd sure like to see our national gay groups giving money to other groups working for their rights too.  i think we should spend money working for pubic funding of elections so politicians don't have to fund raise.  we are going to have to change the nature of the game instead of dealing with the annoying gnats that fundies are.  perhaps we should work to have our taxes reduced to three fifths until we are equal citizens to straight white males.  perhaps we should work to have NO marriage recognized by the government and have it just be a social thing.  pehaps divorce should be outlawed.  i don't know.

AWOL on AIDS because talking about condoms was too icky
openly standing on the throats of gays and lesbians.

Martin and Coretta must be weeping.

What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?


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