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2010 panic: kiss our issues goodbye now...

by: Pam Spaulding

Thu Nov 05, 2009 at 07:41:34 AM EST


Over at The Hill, our window of opportunity is, after election 2009 shivers, apparenly chasing our legislative allies up for re-election in Red/Purple states back into the closet.

In the run-up to the 2010 midterm elections, they don’t want to be forced to vote on climate change, immigration reform and gays in the military, which they say should be set aside so Congress can focus on jobs and the economy.

...Senate Majority Whip Dick Durbin (D-Ill.) said he was not certain whether repealing “Don’t ask, don’t tell” would be on next year’s agenda.

...One Democratic senator facing reelection in a Republican-leaning state said he does not want to see the issue of gays in the military, immigration reform or even climate change on next year’s agenda.

This was so predictable that, in fact, I just mentioned it yesterday, there's always going to be an excuse for deny, delay...

We're definitely not on the same page, that's for sure. Otherwise we wouldn't hear the variations on "just wait until ___ occurs (midterm elections, Obama's [presumed] re-election, pick some BS of the day), we'll come back for you." That's counter-productive action in the name of "strategy" that hurts civil equality progress rather than helps. You have to wonder whether the word "ally" (or "fierce advocate") need a redefinition.

Our window of opportunity is closing and there will always be an excuse to say "not yet" for civil rights legislation. That's why we have to make the calls, visit the offices and march, if necessary, because the spineless and fence sitters are keen to beg for political homophobia slack. The go-slow, glad-handing, stay quiet approach doesn't work when pending legislation is constantly a liability for the same reasons over and over.

What's wrong with go-slow? Our political cycles and windows of opportunity are much smaller now, because of the politically divided nature of this country. We've got about 25% on the far left, 25% on the far right, and the 50% persuadables who are wooed by both sides. So with Congressional elections every two years, you've got those pols in Red/Purple states running scared and raising funds on a constant basis. That means staying away from a controversial issues, or a party switch may occur.

Harry Reid says he wants to get DADT repeal done. Well, if he has enough of these soiled-knickers Senators (one of whom doesn't even want to be named in the article) begging him not to "rock the boat," what do you think is going to happen.

That's why banking on a 2017 fantasy seems laughably naive. These spinless pols looking to save their jobs are not going to step up to call out the right wing noise machine once as it gears into full "destroy Obama mode" running up to 2012.

"We'll come back for you..."

***

UPDATE: David Mixner's piece this AM dovetails quite nicely, calling for the shutdown of the gAyTM, ignoring the political timeline that these spineless pols operate from, and embracing new tactics ourselves to effect change. A snippet below the fold...

Pam Spaulding :: 2010 panic: kiss our issues goodbye now...

How can we have any dignity, honor or pride in ourselves if we validate this continued process of ballot box terrorism? How can we stand tall next to each other if we explain away another's cowardliness? How can we allow people to dehumanize our relationships and our very integrity if we give people passes to sit out the battle for our very freedom? No longer are political timelines a reason for delay, no longer are incremental approaches acceptable and no longer can the political process expect us to be patient and wait our turn. Our turn came long ago and there will be no more waiting.

...As so many others have said, "The Gay ATM Machine is closed." Not one penny more for those who are fair weather friends, who ask us to delay and who insist patience is a virtue in the face of injustice. I was astounded a few weeks ago in Washington when all my liberal friends were urging me to support the Democrat Owen in upstate New York who won election on Tuesday. When I responded that he was strongly against marriage equality and opined that they shouldn't be supporting him, it was quickly pointed out to me that the Human Rights Campaign was supporting him. Well, you know what? I don't care. If we support people who are against full equality, how can we expect others to do differently? No more excuses. Stop it. Close the checkbooks to those who are not fully on our side.

...New tactics must be embraced and honored. Civil disobedience must now be on the table and it is time for a long discussion about how it is to take place in the community. Perhaps we have to fill the jails, block military bases, sit in Congressional offices, block marriage bureaus, etc in order for them to know that business as usual has stopped. Careful and thoughtful consideration must be given now to this option.

Watching the coverage on Maine and the results tells me the press doesn't really take us seriously as a civil rights movement. If that initiative had said people of different faiths could not marry does anyone really believe that it would be a sidebar story this week?

The only quibble I have with this is the hardline on a candidate or elected official about being 100% on our issues before handing over a dime. That's easy to say in a deep Blue state, and almost impossible to fathom in a Red or Purple state. It has to be a judgment call when you have a Dem who is 50% on our issues versus a Republican who is 100% against our issues. We more often than not have no choice that meets the hardline criteria. However, we do have candidates who may be persuadable. 

What we can hold these candidates to is "not one dime unless you publicly discuss our issues" or that they speak to the LGBT press. Discussion and making inroads with them can move them closer to 100% on our issues.

 

 

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Once more
The only way is to run for office ourselves.

That's it.

http://www.dyssonance.com  Breaking all the rules...


How do we do that, exactly?
The Two Party has made it impossible for anyone to run in a partisan election without full backing of the party machinery. At best, we become "spoilers;" at worst, irrelevant "issues candidates." We might be able to win non-partisan races, but there are none at the federal level and very few at the state level.

So how do we run with any hope whatsoever of winning?

Plus ça change, plus c'est la même merde.


[ Parent ]
What makes you think we have no hope of winning?
That there are "only" two parties?

Are the issues and concerns we, as citizens, face really all that entirely different from the rest of the public?

Are we that much of a burden -- is the world that out to get us?

If that's the case, then why even try for any sense of justice?

http://www.dyssonance.com  Breaking all the rules...


[ Parent ]
For all intents and purposes, there are only two parties in the United States
Democrats and Republicans, and for nearly 20 years now, they have acted as two wings of the same Corporate Party. Thus, my use of the expression "Two Party."

The way US politics is set up at the state and federal level, and very often at the local level as well, is that you simply cannot win political office unless you are 1) either a Democrat or Republican, and 2) have the backing of the party machine.

Yes, there are exceptions. But such exceptions are vanishingly small when you look at the number of attempts by other minor party and independent candidates to run for the presidency, Congress, governorships and state legislatures. And even those few exceptions must work within a system designed to run with no more than two parties.

Plus ça change, plus c'est la même merde.


[ Parent ]
So LGBT can't get the backing?
of the machine, that is?

They can't do any of this without having to sacrifice their principles?

Strange, that.  Then again, maybe the under siege set of laws here in AZ called "Fair Elections" aren't the greatest -- but they let people run without that backing.

I will be running as a democrat, myself.  A rather Blue Dog style, though, given my general fiscal conservative/social progressive approach.

Perhaps the fears you suggest here yourself are why our opponenets started out 40 years ago as a minor and uninfluential part of the Rep party -- and then took it over.

On a fairly narrow platform...

http://www.dyssonance.com  Breaking all the rules...


[ Parent ]
It never gets better...
We have control of all three branches of government, a filibuster-proof majority (without cannibalizing ourselves, that is) and a President who was elected openly supporting us (on most levels) and all of the progressive causes the country has yearned for (including healthcare). And we still can't get results. There is NO doubt we will lose seats in the House and Senate and have even less power in 2010. Then it will be time for Obama's re-election and, assuming he can get re-elected (which I highly doubt after alienating virtually EVERYONE), we'll lose even more seats in Congress. Who are they kidding with this "we'll get to you" crap?

"We"?
I think you mean "they."

I am not interested in picking up crumbs of compassion thrown from the table of someone who considers himself my master. I want the full menu of rights.  -Archbishop Desmond Tutu


[ Parent ]
the power of bitterness
obama is still a good president overall but certainly on this issue he is not what he said he was.  i think obama and the rest of the democrats need to be taught the lesson of accountablility.  there is nothing worse than getting people's hopes up and then dashing them on the rocks.  the power of bitterness will make people irrational and even if you are otherwise good they will work overtime to make you pay for hurting them.  we must work for candidates that use the ethical 'equality for all' approach to get elected.  also, we should direct our time and energy in the meantime to work for equal rights for all.  instead of wooing washington we need to be wooing voters, everyday people.  gangs of gays need to be showing up at soup kitchens, habitat houses, animal shelters, mentoring and reading programs, african american/latino/indian and more rights marches and fund raisers.  we will have to wait out obama's tenure but in the meantime if national gay groups start working for everyone's rights then we will have the votes when the next vote comes.  it is perhaps cheaper and smarter in the long run to woo the people instead of the politicians.  we also need to work for publically funded elections or this will only get worse.  its always about money and power in the end.

By what measure?
He's a pretty piss-poor President.  His "leadership" style has been to hand over more and more power to Republicans and then complain that they won't work with him.  Duh.  We have a moderate Republican with a "D" after his name as President.

I'm working for the progressive challenger to Bennet in Colorado.  If Bennet is on the ballot, then I don't go to the polls.

I'm looking for a progressive challenger to DeGette, who eventually seems to get on board after enough threats are thrown at her, and won't be voting for her, either.

# Duty, duty -- honor is, is --
Honor, Creideiki -- alertly
# Shared, is -- Honor #


[ Parent ]
If you don't go to the polls
then you don't influence anything, and you waste your effort.

http://www.dyssonance.com  Breaking all the rules...

[ Parent ]
So should I vote for the guy who opposes us or the guy who opposes us?
Sorry.

Unless you're saying I should go to the polls and vote for abolishing affirmative action (I opposed that last time because affirmative action is necessary to level the playing field for people who will then turn around and vote against my rights based on their "strong religious convictions" or some such tripe.

I could vote against personhood amendments that would prevent rape victims the right to get an abortion rather than carry the child to term.  

I could vote against the unions' ability to exist.

Okay, I get it.  I now go to the polls and vote like a conservative.  Or I stay home and watch something fun on tv.

# Duty, duty -- honor is, is --
Honor, Creideiki -- alertly
# Shared, is -- Honor #


[ Parent ]
How many Democrats won their seats because of the LGBT community?
What happens if we do not support them because they refuse to support us?  

Other minorities assume that we will be there for them and they do not need to reciprocate.  American politics is about coalition building before the elections.  The Democrats assume that we will be there for them--and we always are.  What would happen if we just stopped being there for them?  Could a Democrat win Colorado if they lost 5% to their vote totals?

People are suggesting that the NJ governor went to the Republicans because the younger and black Obama voters didn't bother to vote.  You'd better believe that politicians running are going to be looking to re-engage that part of the base.  We need to be in that formula.  If we continue to reward them for taking us for granted, then it's hard to blame them for continuing to take us for granted.

# Duty, duty -- honor is, is --
Honor, Creideiki -- alertly
# Shared, is -- Honor #


[ Parent ]
Eh
Corzine lost because he was hated. If the Dems wanted to retain the governorship, they should pick a better candidate. No amount of trying to reengage voters to come out and vote will get a politician that people do not want to vote for (re)elected.

[ Parent ]
That's how I feel
about Bennet and Obama.  I doubt I'll vote for DeGette, either right now, as she seems to be playing some strange game I can't identify.  Actually, I can identify it, but I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt and just say that she doesn't care about the largest gay community between Chicago and the West Coast.

# Duty, duty -- honor is, is --
Honor, Creideiki -- alertly
# Shared, is -- Honor #


[ Parent ]
You should vote for the guy who promises to ignore us at every turn
Because, after all, he's not the guy promising to break our legs and leave us to the wolves.

That really is what the choice between Democrat and Republican has become for us.

Plus ça change, plus c'est la même merde.


[ Parent ]
This
Is fairly close to what I feel. Thank you, TechBear.

"Success is not the result of spontaneous combustion, you must set yourself on fire!"

[ Parent ]
Inform anyone you have donated money to
that you will not give them one thin dime until the president uses his executive power--just like Bill Clinton did to !@#$ us all with DADT and DOMA--to reverse these federal discriminatory laws.

Screw the state strategy.  

We are pouring millions into fruitless legal endeavors instead of drawing attention to the Democratic legislation that put us in this sinking boat.


Actually, no
It's simply not one dime until they do something about our issues.

Not merely speak about them -- and, sorry, but absolutely not just because they speak to the LGBT press.

http://www.dyssonance.com  Breaking all the rules...


The WINDOW is not closing, it is already closed.
The President has dragged his feet on our issues and now it may be too late. Our window of possibility of equality legislation was always due to close January 1, 2010, politicians just never stick their necks out for us especially in an election year. The question is, why do we continue to support those who do not support us? Are we all suffering from battered wife syndrome? The least of two evils to justify supporting democrats is exactly what they count on. What the hell do we do now? Just be patient until 2011 and hope the democrats still have the majorities they have now and decide at the same time to support equality?

Take note of the comments below the article (reference above), they are 99% right wing comments. I tried to post a comment but it never appeared. Guess bigots are monitoring the sight.


The entire Democratic Party, really
not simply the President.

We should only be supporting those democrats that support us.


[ Parent ]
And we should be supporting Republicans who support us as well.


____________________________________
Cuius testiculos habes, habeas cardia et cerebellum.


[ Parent ]
Indeed
And they should be supported BEFORE it comes to elections. They should be supported at primaries. Only support anyone who supports full equality at the primaries. No compromising.

[ Parent ]
Ummm No.
We should not support ANYONE. PERIOD!

What part of the GayTM is closed don't you understand? Pressure is pressure and with out it being on everyone then there is no sense in doing it. The DNC will just shift the funds where they need to to accomplish what ever immediate goal they are seeking and then they'll deal with the consequences of legalities and how to mask them after the fact.

You people desperately need to get your priorities, agenda and tactics together and now!

I say f*ck the next voting. MAKE THEM PAY for their deceptions. Will we suffer? YES! Are we suffering now? I think that a very strong argument can be made to that effect.

Enough is enough!

P.S. Why the hell is the HRC still in business? Why are we still giving to a seriously underperforming institution?

Ask your friends if they support HRC or not and if they do...

Ostracize them! Are you telling me that you don't have any other friends who don't support this money-changer? That's a pretty sad life that you lead.


[ Parent ]
Oh, every part...
A politician that supports me and my issues I will vote for him or her everytime regardless of party. You saying that I should not support Alex Giannoulis for Senate? He supports marriage equality?

(By the way, I am all for sitting at home).

Now about HRC, we agree there for the most part.  


[ Parent ]
Even if Dems had swept the election we still
would have had a hard time getting attention. For the most part we are the embarassing uncle locked in the Democratic Party's attic until election time rolls around.

IMHO one major problem are the masochist fools who want to go back to the ballot in CA or anywhere else for that matter. We need to exert maximum pressure for them to back off. Never again. These are sure fire losers that give Obama cover to ignore ENDA and DADT. The media only focuses on our continual marriage losses so Obama and the WH can frame it as " oh gays lose every time it's not worth our fight".

That means NJ and NY too and OR. Oh yeah Maine was supposed to be "different" right? Nope, we lost again. I am now opposed to lame duck passage of gay marriage in NJ. The Catholic Church is very powerful in the state. Christie would use all his new popularity to get it on the ballot and we would LOSE AGAIN for the 32nd time! It's not worth the risk anymore. How many times do we need to lose to realize this fact? Any sports team or company would have fired their leadership by now.

Fight on but differently, we are only hurting ourselves regarding ENDA,DADT and more and helping the enemy with our current strategy.


Focusing our resources Federally
I agree with the poster above, the state strategy is a losing battle. We are wasting millions on all these state issues that even if passed grant only limited rights. We will continue to lose at the ballot box.

DOMA and ENDA is the key we should be focused on. Forget the states and winning hearts and minds, that strategy will take years and years.


Having Chellie Pingree as my Representative
makes the nationwide discussion so damned frustrating... both she and Mike Michaud (of "the other Maine") are ENDA co-sponsors.  

We need many, many more people like Chellie.

"It goes on one at a time, it starts when you care to act, it starts when you do it again after they said no, it starts when you say We and know who you mean, and each day you mean one more."


I've asked this before...
but no one want's to address the issue. How does hurting the people that are open to your issues help your cause?

More importantly, how does making an ally unelectable in any way useful?

The issue that must be confronted is the fact that politicians that are too out in front of voters on LGBT issues DO NOT GET RE-ELECTED.

The sounds you are hearing from Congress are not the sounds of people that oppose pro-LGBT legislation. They are the concerns of people who know (with good reason) that they stand a good chance of losing everything by being to big a supporter.

Face it, if the Democrats did not think that it would hurt them politically they would pass the legislation and move on. Unlike the Republicans, they do not have an ideological opposition to these issues.

The only way to make progress with the Democrats is to show candidates that they have nothing to lose by supporting your issues.

As it stands, all of the "solutions" listed here have the net benefit of reducing the chance of allies getting into office. Withholding funds does not hurt anti-gay conservatives. Sitting out elections does not hurt conservatives.

Just ask yourselves, does it really help you to empower your enemies and hurt your allies?


How do you know?
Sorry, I'm let down by Maine but still evidence-based.

politicians that are too out in front of voters on LGBT issues DO NOT GET RE-ELECTED

Who, when and where has this been tested?

Do you have a state legislature, a city council, a Congressional race to back up that statement?

I can't think of one. I'm open to being corrected, but we're not thinking clearly if we use the fears of elected officials as a substitute for facts.

But wait, there's more!


[ Parent ]
A candidate with pro-LGBT positions who got elected?
Hmmm...let's see.  Um...it's so hard to think of one.  It would have to be someone really obscure, right?  Um...er...oh, yes: Barack Obama.  The fact that he hasn't done a damn thing for us since the election doesn't change the fact that he got elected while making a large number of promises to our community and promising to be our fierce advocate.  The fact that Sci-fi Geek's own patron saint is now residing in the White House proves that what he's saying is pure hogwash.  It's just such a pity that Obama turned out to be a bald-faced liar.

I am not interested in picking up crumbs of compassion thrown from the table of someone who considers himself my master. I want the full menu of rights.  -Archbishop Desmond Tutu


[ Parent ]
Nope. An elected official who got thrown out
primarily because s/he supported us.

I know that's what they're afraid of, but if it's never happened, that's a source of work for a team of therapists, not campaign managers.

But wait, there's more!


[ Parent ]
Except of course
as you like to constantly remind us...he OPENLY OPPOSED GAY MARRIAGE and made it clear that he was willing to work with all sides on these issues. That is NOT the blanket support that people here are demanding.

You want a candidate that is publically fully supportive of all the points on the LGBT agenda and is willing to push those issues publically and frequently. Obama may have been supportive, but he was not as supportive as some of you are demanding. As it stands, you think he was not sufficiently supportive and have actively attacked him for his marriage position, which quite frankly was never in any way questionable.

Face it, you want a poltician that IS unelectable because you want one who will come out and support a position for which you know the electorate has a strong aversion.

Until you find a way to get a majority of congress and 60 senators elected that can take these stances without losing their seats, you will face an uphill battle. Its as simple as that. No matter how supportive the President, if Congress will not pass supportive laws, and if parties will not put their ability to govern at risk, you will always lose.


[ Parent ]
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I am not interested in picking up crumbs of compassion thrown from the table of someone who considers himself my master. I want the full menu of rights.  -Archbishop Desmond Tutu


[ Parent ]
So basically...
you have no answers, no strategy, and are unwilling to consider the consequences of what you're asking for.

Typical.


[ Parent ]
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I am not interested in picking up crumbs of compassion thrown from the table of someone who considers himself my master. I want the full menu of rights.  -Archbishop Desmond Tutu


[ Parent ]
Again, you're avoiding the real issue
How do they know that supporting us is a risk?

Who, where and when are the examples?

If they don't exist, this is about anxieties that need to be confronted.

For many years we had no supporters in politics because we had a social expectation that only LGBT people would work on our issues.

That's no longer true.

Is there a straight politician who has paid a price for helping us because it's the right thing to do? I don't know of one.

i know only cowards who know what's right but quake in their boots when asked to do it, and those who don't see our rights as vital to fulfilling the promise of our Constitution.

And the few who work on our issues decade after decade, yet somehow the feared result of losing the office never happens to them. Why is that?

But wait, there's more!


[ Parent ]
Geek can't come up with any because there aren't any
SciFi Geek is, as usual, full of shit. He's parroting the DNC talking points of, "Oh, you can't actually expect us to advocate for your full citizenship rights! Then we'll LOSE! To REPUBLICANS! Ooga booga ooga booga!"

HORSESHIT

I showed this study to my state legislators, and got another five on board to support civil unions this past cycle. Thanks to that signature Democratic spinelessness, it didn't happen, but knowing that they wouldn't suffer for it went a long way.

God save ornery old queens! - kevinchi


[ Parent ]
When you define "open to our issues" as
"Little talk and less action," then I fail to see how us hurting or not hurting them makes any damned difference. What are they going to if we hurt their feelings? Become even less fierce advocates?  

Plus ça change, plus c'est la même merde.

[ Parent ]
Hurting them...
means them not getting into office which leads to their opponents, who are hostile to your issues, gaining power.

Progress is only ever going to be made if you have people willing to hear you out in positions where they can do something (even if it means waiting until the right time).

For instance, for all of the bluster about Obama and the Democrats, had they not been in power Sheppard/Byrd would not currently be the law. If not for Democrats in legislatures across the North East, marriage would not be legal anywhere in the country.

No matter how much you complain about allies that only "talk" if your actions leave only the people that hate you in power, you go from slow change to NO change.

This is exactly what is happening to the GOP right now. They are demanding ideological purity. Anyone not willing to tow their strict conservative line will be kicked to the curb. As a result, their support in the country is extremely soft, and their base is shrinking.

So by all means, demand ideological purity. Only support candidates that will promise you everything you want right now. Hell, form an LGBT party who's only interest is gay rights. But don't act surprised if they fail to gain traction beyond your narrow constituency.


[ Parent ]
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I am not interested in picking up crumbs of compassion thrown from the table of someone who considers himself my master. I want the full menu of rights.  -Archbishop Desmond Tutu


[ Parent ]
A quote you might appreciate
Or is that appropriate.  Either way, from President Adams’ character in Amistad:
Had I thought your remarks worthy of riposte, Representative Pinckney, be assured you'd have heard from me…hours ago!


[ Parent ]
Fuck the Democrats, and fuck the partisan cheerleaders
I have been in psychologically abusive relationships, and the Democratic Party has become an abuser, battering us around and then, when we walk out, turns all lovey-dovey with flowers and apologies and promises of real change, only to revert back to form once we have stupidly bought the lies yet again.

Continue to be a victim if you want. I refuse.

Plus ça change, plus c'est la même merde.


[ Parent ]
LBGT supporters don't get elected? Bunch o' crap...
Just here in Republican Wisconsin:

Tammy Baldwin, Senator, out dyke and major LBGT supporter, won in a landslide victory
Russ Feingold, Senator, straight, major supporter of Gay Marriage, DADT, won 74% of vote in 2008
Gwen Moore, African-American Representative, straight, re-elected by a landslide, is a co-sponsor of ENDA


[ Parent ]
I see what you're saying, Geek but...
politicians want power more than anything else, not to address our issues, per se. You sound more like the vote for Dems cause I'm scared of the Republicans contingent.

I get that but...the Dems are doing it to themselves.


[ Parent ]
Did someone say something?
broken record

God save ornery old queens! - kevinchi

[ Parent ]
WAKE UP, everyone... it's not kiss our issues goodbye now, it's FOREVER...

...and that should be ISSUE, not issues.  The ISSUE, as those of you who wrote the DALLAS Principles know, is EQUALITY, in all laws, in all states, for all time. I believe it is in the Fourtheenth Amendment somewhere right?

OBAMA, the DEMS, the mod REPUBLICANS, GAY INC., all want us to accept JIM CROW LAWS. Remember them? If not study!

The cost is simple. Surrender your state civil marriage licences. " After all, " they argue, " it's only a word." "It belongs to a man and a woman....the heterosexists.
Reasonable persons will give you perpetual inferiority if you agree, despite the rantings of the theocratic hard right."

OBAMA has always said that is what he is a 'fierce advocate' of. NOT EQUALITY, you have never heard him mention the 14th Amendment! Have You?

Back to the DALLAS PRINCIPLES folks... or just sit there and eat your Jim Crow willingly. " Ya' suh...and just where do you want me to lick your shoes suh?"

See, http://tinyurl.com/y9e95gu, for more. If you can stomach it. Then think and feel what you are doing to yourselves, you are accepting second-class status.

It's the Hammer of JUSTICE,
It's the Bell of FREEDOM,
It's the Song about LOVE between,
my Brothers and my Sisters
...All over this Land.


Canada is looking mighty fine
When Huckabee/Pawlenty take office in 2012, it WILL become an "It Can't Happen Here" kleptocracy in Jesus's name.  There WILL be a Federal Marriage Amendment.

What happened in Germany happened even though Berlin was the gay and cultural capital of the world--even with numerous left-thinking allies--the police-state and propaganda apparatus ensured rightward social policy.  

We are always under the threat of omni-surveillance, which will allow the media to pre-spin any "act of civil disobedience" by combining law enforcement agencies with intelligence agencies under the expanded Patriot Act.

The military-industrial complex, which is now mostly privatized, is helmed by theocrats.  As long as they profit from war-mongering, they will back the candidate fighting the neo-Crusade against Muslims.

We have over one-hundred Liberty University (Jerry Falwell) grads in the DOJ that Obama has inherited from Bush.

We have no economy, which means that any legal or public political action has a permanent internet footprint that will threaten our employment in an all-conform corporate society.  ENDA is worthless if you don't have a job, and employers are savvy enough to make excuses to fire you that don't involve your orientation.

Intelligent discourse is marginalized and segmented, no longer mainstream.  Very few college students are critical thinkers.  Their guiding principle is what is cool or uncool on Facebook.  As Obama gamed Facebook, so can Huckabee.

Disenfranchising "Gay Laws" and "Gay Taxes" will only deteriorate under the current SCOTUS.  Lawrence v. Texas can be overturned just as easily as other legal decisions, especially since Roberts completely ignores precedent in his rulings.  All the "window" talk is dead-on.  Even if we replaced Ginsburg with Perez Hilton, SCOTUS will be 5-4 crazy conservative for the foreseeable future.  

Call me paranoid, but remember that Huckabee is on record for suggesting that AIDS patients be quarantined in concentration camps and that the ex-gay movement he endorses uses the same "re-education" techniques as the worst totalitarian regimes.  


This assumes if only queers and straight allies had won in Maine
the Democrats Nationally would be falling all over themselves to pass ENDA and repeal DADT and DOMA.

yeah the loss in Maine only gives the spineless Dems cover, to be MORE spineless.

I'm reverting to only backing openly LGBT candidates, at least they have to live under the same laws the rest of us have to live under.

What have you done today, to make ya feel PROUD?


~Heather Small


Justification for withholding support for those 100% with us
If you continue to support people that are not 100% on board with equality the result in congress will be the same, nothing will happen.  There are enough allies in the Senate from strong blue states that will Filibuster any negative movement on Gay rights.  The message has to be sent to conservitive democrats they can't get elected without the support of GLBT voters and it might mean a larger presence in congress of Republicans in the short term.

If they don't have to fear you not voting for them then they don't really have to care about your issues. DOMA will never get repealed by Blue Dogs until Blue Dogs learn they can not get elected without gay support.  I am prepared to have Micheal Bennett in Colorado get replaced by Republican, plain an simple is not for Full Equality and therefore he won't get a dime or a vote.

My partner is only hear on a working Visa I can't afford to support those that do nothing to correct the injustice we suffer every day as a couple.


We are hardly a 'movement' unless we are focused
Achieving equal rights for our community will not happen until the three following things occur.

1. "Come Out" aka "The Snowball Effect".

If we all come out to your friends, family and co-workers, we take the first step in casting off the chains of oppression which we have allowed (by our silence) to be laid upon us.  The benefit from this action is that we find out who our allies and our adversaries are. We can persuade others to come out and assure them that they have a strong peer group to support them.  They, in turn, become empowered to encourage OTHERS to come out.  We are also now in a position to educate our allies on the issues so that they can become our advocates, and together we can potentially turn our adversaries into our allies.

2. Focus Our Assets.

Organizations have sprung up in abundance, in communities across our nation, to ostensibly help us secure our rights.  At the local level, this is credible, although it is not uncommon for an organization to bite off more than it can chew.  My personal example is Basic Rights Oregon who, in 2004, attempted to capitalize on the same-sex marriage frenzy in San Francisco thinking it could capitalize on the phenomenon in Oregon.  Wrong.  It produced a backlash which resulted in "One Man, One Woman" legislation that became the law in Oregon.  To it's credit, and with the benefit of 20/20 hindsight, it is now engaged in winning hearts and minds of ALL Oregonians (or at least a majority of them) to support equal marriage rights for everyone in our state.

Trying to change the national landscape is a huge task.  Fifty, or 100 or 500 state and local organizations whose scopes are limited, whose jurisdictional priorities are unique are generally and almost consistently unable to agree collectively on a singular objective and methodology for achieving that objective.

National organizations like HRC are, unfortunately, also as seemingly uncoordinated in their approach.  They often make better cheerleaders than quarterbacks, especially under the leadership of Joe Solmonese.

In order to accomplish our objectives in a reasonable timeframe (like, maybe...your or my lifetime?) we have to use the local and state organizations to build support at the local and state levels, delivering a singular and unified message to achieve a singular nationwide objective, while taking our cases to state (and ultimately) federal courts.

And what case is that, you say?  It is to convince the elected and appointed officials of the federal government, and judiciaries of the federal government that our constitutional rights and our rights under federal laws are being denied to us.  It is only when we all take to the streets, speak with one voice, and demand one thing, that our fellow citizens will take us seriously, instead of treating us like a herd of cattle, and cutting our numbers out and dividing us into smaller "interest" groups, and thereby allowing them to take away our power.

3.  Carry a big stick.

The organization most experienced and capable of leading the way is the American Civil Liberties Union. Their experience is steeped in protecting the rights of Americans for nearly a century.  They have been at the heart of some of the most significant cases of the 20th century:

- 1925, through ACLU attorney Clarence Darrow, they assisted John Scopes defiance in (ultimately) overturning Tennessee's "anti-evolution" law.

- 1954, they filed a 'friend of the court' brief in "Brown v Board of Education" which led to a ban on racial segregation in America's schools.

- 1967, the ACLU argued successfully against state bans on interracial marriage, in "Loving v Virginia".

- 1974, in "Roe v Wage", where the US Supreme Court ruled that the constitutional right to privacy extended to women who were seeking an abortion.

- 2004, the ACLU, along with Lambda Legal and the National Center for Lesbian Rights, sued the state of California on behalf of 6 same-sex couples who were denied marriage licenses. The California Supreme Court case led to same-sex marriage being available in that state from June 16, 2008 until Proposition 8 was passed on November 4, 2008.

Clearly, there is no single entity more able, capable and effective at representing our rights.  In order to do so, we must support them in voice and with our financial contributions.  Instead of giving to HRC, considering donation to ACLU instead.

It is only when our "movement", as rag-tag and disconnected as it currently is, adopts a national strategy which every member of the GLBT community can stand behind, will we have our best chance to finally have our equal rights validated and enforced by rule of law at the state and federal levels.

Come out of the closet, educate your allies, turn your opponents into supporters, and carry a big legal stick!


The other problem
Not all gays or gays with money will keep their wallets closed to the Dems.

No Support for Candidates Who Legitimise Homophobes
So if a candidate brings along, say, a homophobic gospel singer to campaign for him, he gets no gay money.

Are we willing to do that or will we make excuses again?

I tell you Chica that no greater abomination exists than women denying their spirit of sisterhood and instead becoming the oppressor. -Rebeca, Universidad Complutense de Madrid


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