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Blend Exclusive: LGBT Liaison & WH Deputy Director for the Office of Public Engagement Brian Bond

by: Pam Spaulding

Mon Nov 16, 2009 at 12:30:00 PM EST


I had a chance to sit down with Deputy Director of the White House Office of Public Engagement (aka the LGBT liaison) Brian Bond at the ENC Conference on Saturday, before his keynote address before attendees. In the White House food chain Bond reports to Valerie Jarrett, the senior advisor and assistant to the president for Public Engagement and Intergovernmental Affairs.

Bond has been in contact with me several times over the last year to set up a meeting, but given my lack of proximity to DC and my schedule, it just hasn't happened until now.

Brian has been an elusive "get," by the way, when it comes to LGBT media, but Matt Hill Comer of Q-Notes published a Q&A with Bond (via email) on policy questions you should click over to read. There are some standard talking points there, but here's a summary of what was covered by Matt...

  • Bond says the administration "will not waiver in their support for equal rights"
  • Asked about a timeline for a DADT repeal, Bond said the policy "will be repealed sooner than people think," that Obama has already begun to talk to the military and Congress, "but Congress will need to actually repeal it and we are committed to working with both the House and Senate."
  • On DADT, Bond says he "would hope people will take the president at his word and give him the time to do this right."
  • Bond said the administration has been working on a host of non-legislative issues, including pro-LGBT changes and initiatives in several agencies and departments.
  • Bond says, "...it took over a decade to get hate crimes done, I don't think it will take near that long to accomplish the repeal of DADT, and passage of ENDA"

So read the Q-Notes piece, my interview and watch the video of the keynote and assess for yourself if there's anything to read into his comments.

The Pam's House Blend interview.

(transcript below the fold.)

With that in mind on Saturday, I decided to take a different tack with Brian Bond. The interview I conducted focused on the strained relationship between new media/bloggers/advocacy journalists (I'm being charitable here), and the total disconnect between the Obama campaign's new media competence and the Obama White House's blindness, gaffes and outright unhelpful alliances that have potential to really damage progress for our movement.

What is puzzling is that Brian Bond didn't think he was going to be asked to go on the record with me, but I wasn't having that. Since I knew there would be talking point regugitated to obvious question I chose to ask him more philosophical questions about how this White House relates to new media, the lack of trust in engaging a large slice of the online LGBT community) and why more than one-way, highly massaged communication isn't working, and isn't believable when compared to this admin's actions.

During the course of the interview, Bond offered this definition of his role as White House Deputy Director for the Office of Public Engagement/LGBT liaison:

1) To advocate within the building, and 2) Let the people know where the President stands on LGBT issues and the work we are doing for equality under the law.

Well, given #2 is part of his job description, Bond has been invisible and inaccessible prior to now. His demeanor and openness about the schism, suggests the administration is under pressure to address these communication issues/problems of the White House's own making, but that no one is quite sure how to deal with it, thus this meeting and visibility of Brian Bond.

***

Brian Bond Keynote and Q&A from the 2009 Equality NC Conference

(No transcript yet). The breaking news here is his response to a question about transgender appointments to the admin in the first term. Bond said it will be "sooner than you think." (30:07) There is also a question and challenge (47:50) to the President for accepting the honorary title of Chair of the Boy Scouts, which kicks gays out of its organization .

NOTE: At some point during his Q&A, Bond steps off camera (which was on a tripod unmonitored) to answer questions, so you'll see only the empty podium; eventually he returns so he can be heard and seen via mic. Apologies.

This was chock full of talking points we've heard in the past, he told the attendees at the conference about accomplishments and promises, including:

* Hate Crimes Bill
* Ryan White HIV Funding reauthorization
* A fully-inclusive ENDA
* DADT: it will be repealed (no timeline, of course). Bond said it "cannot be addressed with the stroke of a pen."
* Domestic Partners Benefits and Obligations Act
* DOMA: Didn't mentions likelihood of passage other than "It will take a lot to get this done." Bond said in his opinion that a repeal of DOMA will need to have an inclusive ENDA passed and made into law. That, I also believe, makes strategic sense - but that doesn't preclude a vote to see where pols stand.
* Health Care Reform. Issue of portability and pre-existing conditions are paramount and it's clearly relevant to LGBTs

He emphasized the type of leader Barack Obama is -- he means what he says and will hold true to his promises. He acknowledges that much needs to be done, but that there needs to be patience because the POTUS has only been in office 10 months.

He urged those in the audience to "push us and work with us." If change was easy, he said, we wouldn't need all of the advocacy groups we have -- he mentioned the NBJC, Servicemembers United, and several others, but notably, not HRC.  

Pam Spaulding :: Blend Exclusive: LGBT Liaison & WH Deputy Director for the Office of Public Engagement Brian Bond
Transcript of the PHB interview with Brian Bond. It was tough sell to get Brian Bond to commit to an on-camera interview right on site, but the powers that be cleared the way and, as I said, I was more interested in how this White House thinks about new media and the Netroots, and how that will affect policy rollout.

So submitted without comment, here's the transcript:

Brian Bond: Makeup...?

Pam Spaulding: No makeup needed. (Laughs) Introduce yourself.

BB: I'm Brian Bond, Deputy Director of the White House Office of Public Engagement in the Obama administration.

PS: Mr. Bond is here today at the Equality NC conference and PHB readers, I'm sure you have lots of questions...just to let you all know, Matt Comer of Q-Notes has done an interview with Brian that is up at Q-Notes.com.

PS: What do you see is the role of the blogosphere, particularly the LGBT blogosphere in engaging with the White House and either helping to report accurately the goals of the administration versus the spin or the coverage that the MSM provides? how do they fit into that universe?

BB: That's a good question, Pam. I think it's still being defined, quite frankly. The LGBT bloggers have an important role to play both in disseminating information that's going on out there, and also to, quite frankly provide us with information that is going on at the grassroots level. For me, I think there's also still a case of how we figure out how to work together as best we can to achieve what we all want, which is equality under the law.

PS: In terms of building trust in an environment where you have citizen journalists, advocacy journalists participating, [how do you] make that trust well-placed considering there have been several or numerous incidents where it could be perceived that the Obama administration has either dragged its feet upon acting or appears to be disinterested in equality goals?

BB: This one's a little frustrating for me...I don't see this administration, I certainly don't see my boss, the President of the United States, backtracking on any of his commitments to our community. I think some are issues of timing, clearly when we got in here there were a lot of issues that needed to be addressed, including fixing the economy, but that did not mean that LGBT issues went put on the back burner. I think just the recent final passage after over a decade of hate crimes shows that some things don't move as fast as they should. But we're getting there. I think a little bit here is going to have to be a leap of faith.

Again, this president has not backtracked on any of his commitments; and at some point the bloggers and the readers there I hope they will trust this president and work with him, work with us to achieve true equality. We're working on Don't Ask, Don't Tell...we're working on ENDA; you're going to see mark up in the House next week on ENDA. These are important pieces of equality legislation for our community. I would go back to hate crimes -- it took over a decade to get this done. This is the first gender identity-inclusive [federal] piece of legislation in the country. It makes it a little easier now to get ENDA.

I'm sitting here in NC...I'm from rural Missouri, my goal and part of the reason I work for and value working for this President, is I know where we're going to end up. Some of this is going to have to be a little bit of a leap of faith. At the same time, I own some of this and maybe I should be doing a better job of communicating some of the issues and how we're tackling certain issues out there and I will certainly work on that.

PS: Do you have any plans or thoughts about how to bridge that communication gap? Because I think a lot of the blogosphere knows that the administration has good intentions but that there's a lack of information and certainly counter information [that develops because of the lack of information]...having had this discussion about these things with several people, do you have a sense of what might be a good way to bridge that communication gap?

BB: I think the blogger world is going to have to take little bit of a leap of faith. But I think I need to go back and figure out a plan of how we communicate more strongly, more "out there" if you will, no pun intended, on what we're doing, how we're doing it, how we expect it to be done. The reality is, in some situations there are going to be times when you're going to have to trust us because there are some things that you can't necessarily put the specific timeline out there. Again, this is a president that means what he says and does what he says. So, I think there could be any combinations of discussions, dialogues, conversations [with LGBT media/bloggers] where some of the information would be public and some of it is a plan in procress.  

PS: What is important about speaking here in NC; what made the decision for you to want to participate?

BB: I have two roles as LGBT liaison -- 1) To advocate within the building, and the other is, of course, let the people know where the President stands on LGBT issues and the work we are doing for equality under the law. NC reminds me a lot,quite frankly, of my home state of Missouri, and the incredible job that Equality NC is doing at the state level is important. These are the places where if I can help at all I want to be helpful because I value and appreciate the work that what I consider Equality NC to be -- which is a partner in our struggle for equality.

PS: Do you think the President truly understands what it's like for people in the Red states who don't have advocacy in their state legislatures, and are living under the threat of losing their jobs and losing custody of their children; that it's a reality for many of us that we can't all pick up and move to a Blue state?

BB: That's a really good question...I do. Part of what...there's a couple of lines in my speech today and I think I can repeat it here pretty easily. I'm an HIV-positive gay guy that grew up rural Missouri who has a partner with a 16-year-old daughter. I'm fortunate that I live in DC right now where clearly it's not the same as where I grew up.

I believe from the bottom of my heart that this President gets it; I believe from the bottom of my heart that this President will get these issues down, when I mean these issues I mean repealing DADT, passing an inclusive ENDA, we've already done hate crimes, Ryan White Reauthorization...but there's even more to be done.

It's important to say that I know the President of the United States gets it for a couple of reasons. 1) it's not just where he stands on the issues, it's the kind of people he has brought into the administration, both gay and straight. We're just now really staffed up at the departments and agencies, and the announcements that were just made at HUD on how to deal with housing issues, LGBT inclusion in housing issues; a sweeping survey on discrimination against sexual orientation and gender identity in housing -- that speaks to the President's vision and who the President is. And I think you'll see more flowing from this administration on a constant level, of trying to make life a little bit fairer and a little bit better for people both in the Red states and the Blue states. I firmly believe he gets it.

PS:  Then I would hope that he (the President) plans to give speeches and advocacy for ENDA, or DADT repeal and DOMA before audiences that were not gay. I think that was one of the things that impressed everyone during the campaign, was that he spoke about these issues before groups that  really didn't want to hear them. I think this is a time where he should try that again, what do you think?

BB: I totally agree with that, and a good example of that -- the National Black Justice Coalition has been doing an incredible amount of work with the NAACP and as they were gearing up for their centennial convention in New York this summer. They made a specific ask of us --they asked for the President to talk about LGBT rights. I wasn't fortunate enough to be at that convention, but I was watching it on TV when the President spoke to a very large audience about the need to embrace and celebrate and look out for the rights for our gay brothers and sisters --  the room erupted [the President's remarks here]. And it's not something he had to do, it was something he wanted to do. As you said, it's something he did during the campaign.

There's not a meeting that happens in the White House of substance where there is not an LGBT presence; whether it's something as symbolic as a Father's Day event where we had gay fathers there speaking to and about their experiences. Whether it's a business-related activity, economic recovery activity where you have people from the gay Chamber [of Commerce] there speaking and talking to individuals.

Even something as simple as a reception can help shift the paradigm, if you will. We've had a couple of receptions where we made sure that people from the LGBT community there, who in their constituencies, from their the straight constituencies, were somewhat ignoring them. But because the President of the United States had invited them to be at theis reception all of a sudden it was like "Wow, oh." So a dialogue would start.

So I think it's a very good point, Pam. I think something that is part of the character of this President, I think you'll see more of it as we gear up for DADT and ENDA. You will definitely see more of it.

What I read into this, looking for an overarching theme, is that the White House knows it's in the dog house with a segment of the LGBT community -- the grassroots -- and is seeking ways to bypass the traditional communications structures and directly to us.

The difficulty of achieving this is considerable quite frankly; it means breaking new ground that acknowledges the shift in the delicate balance of the traditional information chain with not just LGBTs, but all constituency groups that have developed a strong online community presence has changed. These political venues are not enveloped and run by traditional advocacy organizations.

I actually feel for all involved in this wave of change because it does upset the apple cart in a way that leaves all parties on unsure footing with one another. But rather than gripe and moan or run to protect "turf," it's time to check egos at the door and find a better way to operate that will get legislation passed. And that has to be based on trust, and it's clear it needs to be rebuilt.

What happens next is your guess.
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Words, words, words.
But when are they going to actually DO something ?

Not holing MY breath.

= equality isn't free =


They've ALREADY
done something. Did you miss Sheperd/Byrd, Ryan White reauthorization, the lifting of HIV travel ban, policy changes at HUD/HHS?

They've actually done quiite a bit. Unfortunately they don't have a magic wand and have other issues that they would also like to get passed.

As with everything, it takes time.


[ Parent ]
Just words, yes but...
I like the specificity of this interview, Pam.

In terms of political rhetoric (and never let it be said that rhetoric isn't important...it needs to be followed up by action) be a fierce advocate.

And, other than a few of the gay blogs who may or may not pick this up, who is going to read this interview?

You are dead on about that Pam.

I think that was one of the things that impressed everyone during the campaign, was that he spoke about these issues before groups that  really didn't want to hear them. I think this is a time where he should try that again, what do you think?

Thing is, NBJC and the NAACP are quite pro-gay (other than the marriage equality issue for the NAACP).

Obama wasn't closeted as far as his support of LGBT issues in the campaign, no need to be closeted now.  


The leap of faith
That Bond is asking for.

Chill with the triangulating, double-talking billshit that comes from this Administration, and then we can talk about that!


Do you not get...
that these are politicians and you are talking about POLITICS? Triangulation is part of the game, and the best people at it are the ones who win the day.


[ Parent ]
Sure, I get that
that's why I have little or no faith in politicians (Paul Simon was an exception to this)...I don't care what party or what race the person is...

[ Parent ]
We aren't in the mood for a leap of faith
I'd like to get your sense of the man, did you believe him, or think you were being told all what we want to hear, patted on the head and dismissed?

The thought of the same game Karl Rove would do to the bat sh*t crazy fundies, tell them pretty promises  pat them on the head, and laugh at what naive buffoons they were, after they left?

"race, taste. and History finally overcome....and you ain't there"
by Tony Kushner


Thank you, petey
it's exactly the same game that Rove used to play.

[ Parent ]
Personally...
one would think that you would be happy about that. Gods help us all if they had actually DONE more than what they tried to do.

[ Parent ]
They did PLENTY
Or did you miss FAGGOT rove and FAGGOT mehlman sticking 13 anti gay amendments on battleground states to incite HATRED of us, and give us 4 more motherf*cking years of Cheney gutting our constitution, and killing the economy?

"race, taste. and History finally overcome....and you ain't there"
by Tony Kushner


[ Parent ]
Not to mention the black Bush voters in Ohio
that voted for Bush seemingly because of the marriage amendment, in part.

That plus Ken Blackwood's voting machines...


[ Parent ]
Kenneth Blackwell RIGGED that election against poor and African American voters
Shorting their precincts of voting machines with NO PAPER TRAIL, and caused 8 G*D DAMN hour waits to vote, who has 8 hours to stand waiting to vote?

"race, taste. and History finally overcome....and you ain't there"
by Tony Kushner


[ Parent ]
Thanks for the name correction
granted the black Bush-vote in Ohio wasn't large by any means (which means that the Bush team did their homework as far as voting patterns) but that plus those damn voting machines.

Oh, hell, I could go back to 2000 with this one...


[ Parent ]
IMMIGRATION???
Why is it that immigration rights for bi-national LGBT couples are ALWAYS left off the discussion list? Not only do administration officals never bring it up, neither do the (presumably LGBT) interviewers! Are we that invisible? Frankly, we, the thousands and thousands of couples who are suffering the full weight of the US government in opposition to our lives and relations, are sick and tired of being treated as the poor cousin of the LGBT civil rights movement. Pam, I am deeply disappointed that our plight didn't even make it onto your radar screen for this 'elusive' get. It's always DOMA, DADT, ENDA and a host of other issues, but couples deported or self-exiled...not so important.

"Money is the only thing they respond to, the only thing they understand. The vision of the Founding Fathers is dead. The Constitution is dead. Only bribery remains." -RW Givens


To be perfectly honest...
immigration is hardly the most important issue. Its even less important once you realise that the real obstacle to immigration is DOMA.

Expect UAFA to come up during the debates on comprehensive immigration reform. Until the US addresses its larger immigration problems, you should not expect this to get much attention. It only impacts an electorally microscopic group of people and in truth is merely one aspect of the immigration quetion.


[ Parent ]
Immigration will MATTER plenty, if you ever want another Latin@ vote
Do you work for REPIGS...huh geek?

"race, taste. and History finally overcome....and you ain't there"
by Tony Kushner


[ Parent ]
not the most important?
Maybe to you...but try not being able to reside in the same country as your loved one and see how you like it. Sure marriage and employment issues are important, and we shall all benefit by equality in those issues, but when you have the entire US government standing between you and the one you love, to the point where you cannot even be together, it gets pretty damn important fast. Actually, it not so clear that the repeal of DOMA will automatically make immigration issues easier for bi-national LGBT couples. Right now, a het couple can apply for a K-1 visa, which allows the immigrant member to enter the US simply by stating their intention to be married. With the institutionalized homophobia of the US government, ask yourself how easy it would be for you to convince an immigration officer that you really are getting married..sometime in the next two years? Are you prepared to walk into an immigration office to do that? How much in lawyer's fees do you think you'd need to pull that one off in the absence of a specific law allowing gay immigration? And the DOMA solution would only apply to those who get married. What about the many couples who can't or don't want to get married, for whatever reason? Do we just write them off too? Your attitude, that its just not that important, is exactly the problem I was writing about. The immigration equality issue gets scant attention from the LGBT community at large. If we can't get acceptance and support from our own population, how can you expect that we'll be able to be included in the resolution of the larger issue? Like I said, we're tired of being the poor cousin of the LGBT rights movement, we're tired of always being left out of the conversation. Our lives cannot and should not be so easily dismissed. Your attitude is not helping. And what is this "it only impacts a electorally microscopic group" b.s? I guess for you, equality is only important when yours is assured.  

"Money is the only thing they respond to, the only thing they understand. The vision of the Founding Fathers is dead. The Constitution is dead. Only bribery remains." -RW Givens


[ Parent ]
Canoebum, I think its more an issue of language
Although I can't speak for SciFi Geek, I will try to rephrase the statement. (And if you choose not to read what I writing here, read my next post as it could help you).

Remove "important" and replace it with "does not have the base of support that other issues have." The UAFA is at this point a weak idea. It does not have a lot of organizational support and it hings on other issues passing beforehand. Federal law at this time prevents recognition of marriage, even in those states where it is legal (as you know). Until DOMA is removed it is impossible for UAFA to see the light of day. It also requires modifications to immigration policy.

But the larger issue is UAFA does not have political, financial or constituent support. One of the many reasons marriage, DADT, etc. are primary issues we work on in our community is that we have been lobbying for these issues for a long time. Grassroots efforts are important, but on a national issue, you need a lobbying group these days. And we have HRC (although I know HRC is the group to hate and I might catch flak for what I'm about to say.) and HRC did a good job in this regard. They did a number of things, first brought our issues to the attention of political and media groups, launched campaigns to make our support visible (do you really think those Equality bumper stickers are about supporting HRC?), and talked with everybody they could.

Grassroots groups do not have this power. They have have their own role in the battle. But you need the access too, its a double barrel approach. (I could go on about HRC right now, but decided to make this shorter).  

nothing new at this time.....


[ Parent ]
How you can help get UAFA passed
(This is just a quick run through, if you want a more in depth plan email me and I can give you a more comprehensive strategy.)

Step 1: Start a grassroots group, the internet of course makes this easier. Gather as many supporters of UAFA together. But also work to gather individuals not directly affected by the passage of this act, i.e. Allies. (But this needs to be an actual group and not just a Facebook page type deal. Arrange for actual physical meetings, phone and mail. Tax status is a deeper issue and one that would need to be discussed.)

Step 2: You may want to talk about funding sources at this point.

Step 3: Armed with your membership list, approach the national groups. Go to Creating Change, the Task Force's training and social gathering. (The Task Force also can provide a lot of training and other resources, especially later in the campaign). You can make contacts and also approach the leadership of the Task Force. Also talk to HRC, I would start with your regional rep. The regional HRC member can get you in contact with others in the HRC leadership. Pressure HRC to, but not in a nasty way. Make HRC aware of your group and also try to get a feeling of where individual members stand.  

Step 4: Select positions within your group, media contact, etc.

There is more, but I need to get back to other projects now. But this will give you a starting point, since you seem to be so passionate about the issue.

nothing new at this time.....


[ Parent ]
I think that the sad part about all of this...
is that the ridiculous level of hostility toward Obama from many in the LGBT community (and many of those here) has very little to do with anything that Obama has or has not done. So much of it is derrived from bitterness caused by past administrations. Thus they see EVERYTHING this administration does though a lense of hostility and betrayal despite the fact that they've done no such thing.

Kerry Eleveld has a good piece on this over that The Advocate (http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2009/11/15/View_from_Washington_No_Accident/)which notes the obvious disconnect between the anger and what's actually been done. She notes that ACTUALLY, on LGBT issues, the Democrats are pretty much on schedule with the timeline that they talkabout at the begining of the year: Fall 2009 Hate Crimes/Enda 2010:DADT with UAFA as part of comprehensive immigration reform.

UNFORTUNATELY, some people have been so determined to be angry that they ignored that timeline. In their minds, if it was not done NOW, then Obama is betraying your community. If he's not talking about LGBT folks at every stop, then he palns to reneg on his promises. That was always silly and divorced from the actual reality of what's been happening. No the administration has not done much on same sex marriage...but then of course they came into office being in opposition to that particular aspect of LGBT advocacy.

The attacks and criticisms of Obama have been at times shockingly unfair and the man has been held to an IMPOSSIBLE standard. There is a reason why the community has this nasty public image as being a bunch of crying spoiled brats bitching about what they don't have while the rest of the country was/is in serious trouble.


Sure as shit
SciFi Geek is here.

has very little to do with anything that Obama has or has not done. So much of it is derrived from bitterness caused by past administrations.

I actually agree with this, as you can tell from my comment above. But neither the Democrats nor Obama (remember, Obama injected his personal religious beliefs into the whole marriage thing) have done anything to deserve that leap of faith. The community took a leap of faith with Bill Clinton, remember?


[ Parent ]
And what happened to Bill Clinton
for his efforts? Apparently, you know what he tried to do came at no cost to him or his presidency right?

There is a reason why your community cannot muster public support to your cause...you spend the bulk of your time attacking your frieds and allies for their lack of perfection.


[ Parent ]
Oh, DADT came at some cost of political capital to
Clinton did a little of the heavy lifting on that...I'll be the first to say that. Not enough, mind you, given his majorities, but some.

That was a generation ago. Times have changed.

Lack of perfection is one thing, Geek.

Triangulating using anti-gay politics to appeal to other members of said coalition ("god in the mix", Donnie Mcclurkin, Rick Warren, the DOMA brief), dissing of the grassroots by the "A-gays") is another. Injecting you personal religious beliefs into a civic discussion...why should I take a leap of faith?


[ Parent ]
Oh honestly, what parallel univrse are we making up this story from??
We all took that leap of faith with Obama during the campaign and continued to believe during his first few months in office. We sat as doe-eyed and unprovocking as any other aspect of his support base and threw money at the democrats who both then and now have shown themselves to be more two-faced and back stabbing as the majority party then they where as the minority party. And we even accepted his religios convictions because he was upfront about them and continued to be supportive of our causes.

Obama had no stains from past administrations on him until his administration, which seemed to have forgotten all the lessons they learned from the campaign on how to energize their base, began to act like past administrations. Remember that DOJ brief in support of DOMA that managed to read far worse than anything the Bush administration had managed to put out? Or how about their inaction on DADT that left those who would stand up for their own honor and that of our military, bereft of any sort of support--WHile they went on and on with a huge campaign to thank and support our veterans--except of course the gay ones. We would see more people being dismissed under his watch than under Clinton or Bush if we had allowed things to continue uncontested.

Now I love me some Obama. But until he learns to follow his own heart and stop listening to that cocky young administration of his who is so willing to pretend like we just showed up at the frontdoor of the White House baning in the windows and looking for a handout, I am still going to be angry.

I blame an administration that expected us to just go away after the election. Instead of acknowledging us as the asset of support we had been in this past election, much less the great deal of support they will need for this next election, they act like we are asking for things we just made up yesterday. Instead of looking to them for leadership that they came to us and volunteered to supply all through the election.

I am too grown and too old not to know what it was like to have no administrative support. However, I am not asking for anything more than the support that was promised by an administration that volunteered to provide it long before they entered office, and if we are a little harder on them than we have been on past administrations, we have good reason to be. Yet, to be fair they have also made more promises and promised more leadership than administrations of the past. So let's just keep the story straight--no pun intended!    

Always thinking about it...


[ Parent ]
Damn...this is almost right
Although...I wouldn't say that I personally took a leap of faith with Obama as regards all gay issues (personally, I though his promise to repeal DOMA in his first terms was pie-in-the sky). There was a lot of other stuff in the mix regarding Obama (health care being a biggie).

I am skeptical of all politicians by nature...

It's the double-talk regarding GLBT issues that gets nerve wracking to me.

But this is dead on:

But until he learns to follow his own heart and stop listening to that cocky young administration of his who is so willing to pretend like we just showed up at the frontdoor of the White House baning in the windows and looking for a handout, I am still going to be angry.

In other words, quit the billshit.


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Great interview with Brian Bond, a great guy, Pam
I know how busy Brian is, and I'm glad that you two connected.  Brian is an honorable, honest, smart, caring guy who stands strong with and for the LGBT community.  In full disclosure, he's my friend, and I got to know him well and knew him before and, therefore, since his own key appointment in the Administration.

I'm pleased to know him and am proud of how he has worked diligently, often quietly behind the scenes, to keep our issues afloat.  Thanks to Pres. Obama's other LGBT appointments, he's not alone in this effort.  Because of Brian's presence and the respect he's earned across the Administration, others can rest comfortably that they are not alone in this effort, either.

I'm particularly delighted to know that there will be an Administration appointee who is transgender sooner than many think.

One of the comments here at PHB, I noticed, is about immigration and our LGBT couples who are so sadly separated and unable to unite in the U.S. under current restrictions.  

CIR is on the list in Congress, and it's coming, but it's not coming right now.  Support is building, and many organizations -- including Immigration Equality, HRC, NCTE and others -- are doing great work to bring along more fertile support on common ground.  It's hard work, but it's being done.  As an adopted immigrant with parents from different countries, I get it, and I'm grateful for the ongoing hard work they're doing.  

I'm impressed that Brian was able to dedicate so much time to have a great interview with Pam and that he also did the Q&A to which her site links.  Great job, all around. Diego


@Diego
This is a two way street, be grateful Ms. Spaulding could donate this much of HER time and effort to do this interview, and share it on her respected forum.

"race, taste. and History finally overcome....and you ain't there"
by Tony Kushner


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I feel I've been more than even handed towards Obama's administration
I was one of the few who congratulated his increasing HIV/AIDS drug research and development, which is personal since my hubby and I are in our 24 th year living with HIV.
I also supported Obama after the Hate Crime Bill was signed.
There have been times I didn't like Obama at ALL, (McClurkin) and it was my respect for Michelle Obama which caused me to give Obama a second look, and I funded his campaign three times what I gave Clinton's or Kerry's campaigns. Obama's inaugeral including Rick Warren also royally p*ssed us off, at a time prop 8 was already angering many of us to the CORE.

"race, taste. and History finally overcome....and you ain't there"
by Tony Kushner


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What do you expect from a paid propagandist - the truth?
Who dreamed up that list of "accomplishments" and the "to do" list? Did any of them originate with the Obama Administration? What did Obama do about them when he was a Senator? Did he sponsor them or take the lead in promoting them? Why not? Why did he delete any mention of them from the Democrats election platform? Why were they deleted from the WH site?

Why? Why? Why? All those questions have the same answer. ama went after the christian/bigot vote and was elected by them. That's where his allegiances are.

The Obama Administration had nothing to do hate crimes bill other than signing it. It may well improve reporting of hate crimes but has no effective measures to stop them or the hate speech of scum like McClurkin and Warren that produce hate crimes.

The Ryan White HIV Funding reauthorization came from Congress and passed Oct 21, 2009 by a vote of 408-9 in the House. Why is it on this list? Even the huge majority of Republicans voted for it. It's inadequate. We need the same approach as was taken by the Manhattan Project which produced, in record time, nuclear technology.  
Obama had nothing to do with a fully-inclusive ENDA. He didn't say a word when Barney Frank's non-inclusive version was butchered by Democrats and Republicans alike. It also lacks tough implementation and says nothing about housing and access to services.

DADT is a Democrat law, passed when they controlled Congress and signed by Dixiecrat Clinton. Neither the WH nor Congress has any firm plans to repeal it. A surge in causalities in Afghanistan and Iraq may cause them to change their minds. It's us or the draft and ten minutes after a draft is instituted the Democrats will lose the vote of virtually everyone draftable. Count on it.

Domestic Partners Benefits and Obligations Act - has it passed? It'll be a welcome help for our federally employed folks but what does it mean for the 99.99% of us who need all the rights accorded married straight people whether we're partnered, married or single?

Obama's misnamed Health Care Reform is a free ride for HMOs, insurance companies and Big Pharma. We don't need their damn insurance, even insurance with a few tweaks. We need health care - single payer and socialized - and nothing else will do for LGBTs and everyone else.

What they didn't mention.

GLBT folks and everyone else need a real program to solve the crises of economic failure and unemployment.

We need to nationalize banks and insurance companies and get back the hundreds of billions wasted on bonuses, excessive salaries and stockholder revenues that came out of TARP.

We need good housing, an end to foreclosures, federal guarantees of interest free loans for new loans and to replace current mortgages, 30 day vacations at pay, maternity and paternity leave with pay and guaranteed socially paid full educational opportunities.  

GLBT folks and everyone else need an end to the wars and an offer of open asylum to GLBT muslims and others endangered by the US invasions and occupations from Palestine to Pakistan.

We need a Manhattan Project approach to ending the HIV/AIDS plague worldwide.

What we need from Pam is an ongoing BS meter so we can vote on the performances of the WH, Congress and the parties - all the parties - not just the bigots and the panderers in the Democratic and Republican parties.

In essence what we desperately need is fifty state equality in jobs, housing, domestic arrangements and in access to services. We even more desperately need freedom from violence and the hate speech that produces it. Obama and the Democrats and Republicans won't do that because they can't do that. Their owners wouldn't put up with it.

The looter rich much prefer working with Democrats like Obama and the Clintons - they're greedier, they fool more people and they're able to get away with a lot more than Republicans.  


What Bond says is terrific.
It's exactly what we want to hear.  And that's the problem. Everything the Obama administration has said to us has been absolutely dead-on.  They are absolute masters at telling us what we want and need to hear.  

But when they have actually taken action on our issues at all, much more often than not they've done the exact reverse of that they promised.  That's happened so often and so consistently, it can't simply be our imaginations as fueled by past administrations.  Signing the hate crimes law was a good first step (though I remain skeptical how fierce AG "I didn't know about Maine" Holder will be in enforcing it).  But President Constitutional Scholar has told us we have to wait for equality so often, I simply can't get excited about more promises.  He has made it abundantly clear that he doesn't really believe the constitution covers us--and won't till he and "God" are good and ready.

Cynic, n.  A blackguard whose faulty vision sees things as they are, not as they ought to be.  
-Bierce, The Devil's Dictionary


TRUE that it's a double-blessing that Pam also could give her time & UAFA
Heather, I'm glad you pointed out the fact that Pam also gave her time, even as she's been staving off physical burdens.  I am not blind to it, and Pam knows that, which is what matters.  But I'm glad you raised that honorable and thoughtful point.  I'm sure Pam does, too.

I hadn't seen all of the immigration dialogue when I posted, so I just want to say that immigration is VERY important.  

UAFA is coming first, and I hope we work to get that passed.  I don't feel dismissive about comprehensive immigration reform (CIR), but it's down the pike for us, just to be honest.  We have more work to do, and it's not done.  I'm a naturalized U.S. citizen whose parents are bi-national, so I really feel strongly about immigration, especially as it relates to my fellow Latinos and Latinas.

I think that families being separated is heart-breaking, and the path to rectify all parts of this harmful barrier to our own families is always discussed with passion because of the issue's merit.  UAFA will come sooner, and CIR will follow, but the work is not done, and it's up to us to help.

On ENDA, we have a postponement on the House mark-up, but we actually gained a new sponsor today (Tuesday), and momentum and work to make the bill language airtight continues.  

I'm glad to see that our leading groups repeated the request to community members, asking us all to keep reaching our own legislators.  As I believe I wrote in a post on PHB last week to my friend Jill's entry:  Don't worry, and keep working.  

We've got GREAT LGBT groups working with the House Ed & Labor Committee to get the bill polished to perfection.  Everyone else should focus on the direct contact to people we elect, as we've all discussed many times.  This is the time, so focusing forward is where I am, without losing the value of peripheral vision, of course.  


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