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My Bed-Stuy

by: Pam Spaulding

Sun Sep 02, 2007 at 12:00:00 PM EDT


Today is family cookout day in Bed-Stuy. Our block won "Greenest Residential Block in Brooklyn" this year, thanks due largely to my relatives. They put in an huge amount of time and effort coordinating the project -- and it shows (see coverage in The Gothamist). A couple of pix are below, and quite a few more of the neighborhood after the jump. It's even more "green" this year; the flowers are crazy, with large barrels of them lining the sidewalks and cascading down staircases of people's brownstones.



My aunt said that, unlike down South, they've had tons of rain up here. (We have never watered our minimal NC lawn -- and it's obviously wasteful to do so during a drought. I know in Raleigh they have been levying fines on homeowners who have been watering their lawns. What is wrong with people?! The flipping grass will grow back.)

I lived on this block in the mid to late 1980s; this part of the neighborhood is a designated historic district called Stuyvesant Heights. All of my late mom's siblings were born in various parts of Bedford-Stuyvesant around the time of the Great Depression (she was one of 14  kids!).

My uncles purchased the house on this block for a song a long time ago, when Bed-Stuy was going through tough times, as was much of the city during the 70s and 80s. One thing that was always consistent, even to this day, is that generations of black families own many of these beautiful, large brownstones, and it's been revitalizing block by block due to hard work of residents. My NY cousins are part of that effort as well; many of them have stayed or chosen to settle here in Bed-Stuy.

More after the jump.

Pam Spaulding :: My Bed-Stuy


My brother, who hasn't been back since about 2002, was marveling at the changes since his last visit; mom-and-pop stores, including coffeeshops (Bread-Stuy, with free wifi!), an indy bookstore and restaurants that are flourishing, there's a farmer's market each Saturday; people stroll the quiet streets late at night, Stuyvesant Park is well-tended and gorgeous, as is the Utica Avenue subway station on the A line, only a few blocks away. We both laugh because we actually see a police presence here -- walking the beat. Back in the day, you rarely saw the NYPD on the street like that, even when you called -- and it wasn't clear whether you were going to be on the receiving end of the nightstick as a mistaken perpetrator, particularly if you were a young black man. 



Our block is somewhat unusual as we have a few free-standing historic houses on large lots as well as brownstones. One is a beautiful, insanely successful bed and breakfast across the street from my relatives' free-standing house -- the Akwaaba Mansion, run by long-time neighbors who now own several B&Bs around the country -- including one in Dupont Circle. Again, these are hard-working people who took a house in need of TLC who saw the potential of both the house and the neighborhood. In fact, Kate and I couldn't even afford to buy a house here now, even a fixer-upper. New York real estate is ridiculous. Anything within reasonable walking distance of a subway line is prized.



Also quite different from the time I lived here is the presence of white residents -- singles and families are moving in. Within the lifetime of my 70-something relatives, Bed-Stuy went from a multi-racial, multi-ethnic community to an all black one. If you've seen the Ric Burns documentary series about NY, it does a good job of covering the practice of redlining (mortgage discrimination in this case) that resulted in the racial balkanization of the outer boroughs -- Bed-Stuy rapidly became all black as a result. It's an interesting irony that re-integration/gentrification is occurring so quickly now, relatively speaking -- because of the inaffordability of housing in New York.

I find New York frustrating and fascinating all at once; city living can be energizing or stressful depending on your constitution (and the size of your wallet).   I sometimes imagine moving back -- hey, NY may fully recognize our Canadian marriage some day soon -- but my Southern roots still draw me back to NC to a slower pace of life.


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lovely
the neighborhood looks beautiful...so glad your folks hung in there...gives me hope.

The flipping grass will grow back
That depends on the grasses of which the lawn is composed.  After a point, blue grass (the generally preferred one) will not and you'll have to reseed.

Having said that, I still agree with you!


I love NY--sometimes

I grew up there and still marvel at beautiful streets of hsitoric houses I never drove by or walked along.  Of course, who could?  The city is so big!  But there were streets almost like that in Washington Heights, which wasn't all apartment buildings, and of course in the Village, where my brother lived with his first wife on Grove Street.

Pam, what did you have for dinner in the Village??? 

And speaking of Washington Heights, a neighborhood that has gorgeous housing stock and has become very gay over recent years, the couple of singers who bought the house next door to us, here in mid-Michigan, lived in Washington Heights for a long time, not far from where I grew up.  Small, small world.

Pam, I know what you mean about pace.  I love the peace and quiet here, and it's why I've been able to publish eighteen books (and write a 19th recently).  New York was and is too frantic, too exciting, and too harsh--for all its pleasures and cultural richness.  My career only took off when I came to Michigan and found a new home.



"In order to maintain an untenable position, you have to be actively ignorant."  The Colbert Report

It always feels good to return home to find the neighborhood in
better condition than when you once lived there. Pam thanks for sharing a good story with us. Enjoy yourself in NY.

Gorgeous!
What an amazing neighborhood.  I see that all of your family diligent in adding to the world around them, like you are.  Pam, thank you for a wonderful blog.

This is a beautiful neighborhood
and I'm impressed!  It's almost enough to make me consider moving there.

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