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The Christian Civic League of Maine's Mike Hein calls Pam's House Blend:
"a leading source of radical homosexual propaganda, anti-Christian bigotry, and radical transgender advocacy."

He is "praying that Pam Spaulding will "turn away from her wicked and sinful promotion of homosexual behavior." (CCLM's web site, 10/15/07)


Ex-gay "Christian" activist James Hartline on Pam:
"I have been mocked over and over again by ungodly and unprincipled anti-christian lesbians."
(from "Six Years In Sodom: From The Journal Of James Hartline," 9/4/2006, written from the "homosexual stronghold" of Hillcrest in San Diego).

"Pam is a 'twisted lesbian sister' and an 'embittered lesbian' of the 'self-imposed gutteral experiences of the gay ghetto.'" -- 9/5/2008



Peter LaBarbera of Americans for Truth Against Homosexuality heartily endorses the Blend, calling Pam:

A "vicious anti-Christian lesbian activist."
(Concerned Women for America's radio show [9:15], 1/25/07)

"A nutty lesbian blogger."
(MassResistance radio show [16:25], 2/3/07)


Pam's House Blend always seems to find these sick f*cks. The area of the country she is in? The home state of her wife? I know, they are everywhere. Pam just does such a great job of bringing them out into the light.
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--"Joe"

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Saturday this and that

by: Pam Spaulding

Sat Jan 13, 2007 at 20:00:00 PM EST


Feel free to blogwhore and post news in the comments...

* You have to visit Kevin Kaatz's pad for his scoop and research on this outrage -- Americans for Truth, Americans for Truth about Homosexuality -- yes, Porno Pete's organization -- is listed as a gay advocacy non-profit.

I didn't realize that the actual name for Americans for Truth is Americans for Truth about Homosexuality. I suppose that is what AFTAH stands for, but why don't they put their full title in their website? I think when this group is mentioned the full legal title should be used. What also really made me angry is that when I looked this organization up in GuideStar (a source of information about non-profit organizations), their 'National Taxonomy of Exempt Entities,' code is R26--Lesbian/Gay Rights.  These NTEE codes are used to help people search for non-profit organizations.  And get this--this code of R26 is used for "R20 Civil Rights, Advocacy for Specific Groups"! So Americans for Truth about Homosexuality claim to be a civil rights group for lesbians and gays!
Guidestar and Center on Nonprofits and Philanthropy responded to Kevin, saying that "The codes are selected by either the organizations themselves or by the IRS." How can LaBarbera maintain his organization's tax-exempt status in this manner? Go read the rest.

* Northern Mexican state of Coahuila approves law recognizing gay unions. More positive movement south of the border. Coahuila Gov. Humberto Moreira, is expected to sign the bill into law. This follows Mexico City assembly's passage of a similar measure -- the first in the country to do so. Needless to say, the Catholic bishops there are losing their cookies. (H/t, Richard)

* The Dem alphabet soup caves: DNC, DSCC, DCCC, DGA add their non-discrimination policies to their web sites, after Mike Rogers turned up the heat on them. The Democratic National Committee, Democratic Senatorial Campaign Committee, Democratic Congressional Campaign Committee, and the Democratic Governor's Association were forced to stop hiding and do the right thing. Look at the delusional behavior by the DNC. Mike:

Not only did the party appear to be hiding its non-discrimination clause from the public, but also an individual calling the DNC about applying for a job was refused a copy of the policy. "Unbelievable," I thought.

"We do not post any personnel policies on our website," I was told back in April and again this week. "This is not a personnel policy, it's a public statement," I explained to each person at the DNC I spoke with. Non-discrimination statements not only serve to educate perspective employees, but also are an important signal to other political organizations and companies.

Mike kept up the pressure, asking whose decision it was to omit the policy. Only a day or so later, the policy was online. Thanks, Mike. :)

More this and that after the flip..

Pam Spaulding :: Saturday this and that
* Yesterday I had lunch with EqualityNC's Executive Director Ian Palmquist and Director of Development Kay Flaminio. The statewide advocacy organization accomplished a lot in the Tar Heel state last year, which included lobbying with our legislators in the Democrat-controlled legislature to kill an marriage amendment bill in committee for the third straight year. They are looking forward to the next General Assembly session to hopefully make some headway on proactive issues, particularly to get a law on the books to protect state workers from discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity or expression. It's not going to be easy, by any stretch of the imagination, but we've seen continual progress all around the state. It's important, particularly in Red and Red-Purple state to support your local equality organizations because we can't count on the national ones to fight the fight for us.

* Yet another Colorado minister falls from grace -- only this is about as far as you can fall -- this youth minister was found dead in his home Tuesday, after an arrest the day before on allegations that he sexually assaulted two girls. (H/t KT)

* While on the matter of church leaders on the wrong side of the law, HDBiker passed on this story about an Ohio church youth leader sentenced to nine years in the clink for sexually abusing a 12-year-old girl.

* In NYC tomorrow, at the Brooklyn Museum, there's going to be panel discussion sponsored by WNYC, Looking for Martin: Are Dr. King and His 'Dream' Still Relevant? The three hour event (4-7PM) also promises an afternoon of conversation, poetry and song exploring how Dr. King's message translates to people of all ages and races -- and the LGBT community -- today.

* And this is at the edge of sanity -- I'll let Blender Laurel share it.

Just wondering if you were aware of this org http://www.eggandsperm.org/. They are concerned that lesbian couples are going to mix genes and procreate *wthout* sperm.  Can't you feel the author's dick just shrivel?  His name is John Howard, and he's got some weird notions about how SSM gives license to lesbians to procreate this way.  His comments are all over BMG, rarely in an appropriate diary, and never making sense. He contradicts himself so frequently and has so many incorrect assumptions that it is difficult to construct a reply (I shouldn;t encourage him by replying, but couldn't resist seeing what he'd say).  Really, Pete LaBarbera is a amateur profit hound compared to this true blue wingnut.
This ridiculous person has turned up on the John Edwards blog and on Blue Mass Group. I guess we should expect gay space alien theories next.
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WOW!
Coahuilta ... that the state of my mom's birth.

I really am amazed and VERY happy the state voted this in.  This is MAJOR news ... FANTASTIC news.

Very cool!


And of course you realize...
that Coahuila borders Texas.

Porno Pete's organization -- is listed as a gay advocacy non-profit.
Does he also list Pam as a white Stepford wife?

Oh, I think we should shout about Pete's status
on every unhinged wingnut web site. . .before we get outraged, let all his little contributors know that he's really just a cover organization by those devious homosexuals who wants to secure all of our rights.

Hell, we can create reality just like they can. Why not point out that perhaps LaBabs deliberately botched up the "protect marriage amendment" signature petitions so that they'd never pass muster? And shoot. . .just like the wingnuts, we can post pics of Pete in his leather chaps cavorting around gay leather festivals and bath houses on his "research" missions. . .and dig up that guy who claims he saw Pete's big gay porn collection. ..

hmm...what a golden opportunity to use their own strategy against them?


More parenting horrors
But he went to church every Sunday, how can this be?!?!?

My America includes LGBT families.

Porno Pete responds...
...to G-A-Y

"It's a mistake, obviously. We had nothing to do with it, and don't know how it happened. -pl"

Allow my bullsh*t flag to go up.

"I would rather be exposed to the inconveniences attending too much liberty than to those attending too small a degree of it." -- Thomas Jefferson


Advocacy for Specific Groups
Bigots are a specific group.  They need someone to advocate for their special rights.

Recently I followed a link from Digby to VDARE's plea for tax deductible donations.  I wonder what sort a tax exemption they have.  No result on first search at Guidestar, need to do some research.

I just started download of IRS pulication 78, list of tax exempt organizations. http://www.irs.gov/c... for more.


The N Word
Pam, and other Blenders, I think you'll want to read this post by Field Negro.

On The Subject Of Words
I read the Field Negro posting and what struck me most (the basic arguments of the piece being old news) was the repeated use of the phrase "African American." As a white man I really don't care what people of a color different than my pasty one call themselves but I have always felt that "African American" was almost as pejorative as the N word inasmuch as not all "black" Americans are not of African descent and the constant use of the term "African American" is dismissive in that it is night impossible to divorce the African roots of those who are of African descent from their history as slaves. In addition, most "African Americans" are so biologically removed from their ethnic beginnings due to nothing more than the passage of time, it seems we should be ready for a different term.

It also seems to me that this constant reminder that their people were once slaves is somehow self-dismissive as well as passive-aggressive in rubbing this fact into honky faces which can't be helpful in race relations.

I don't wish to offend anyone but that's what the posting made me think. Anyone care to enlighten me with another point of view?


[ Parent ]
African American
The term doesn't bother me and yet at the same time I agree it isn't applicable in many ways.  I think too much is made out of such terminology.  Using the same logic I should call myself a European-American but that doesn't seem right.  Technically, I'm a native American since I was born here, and that certainly doesn't seem right either. 


[ Parent ]
I don't use A-A
As I've said before on the blog, the term is some sort of PC nonsense that is inaccurate in many ways, after all, Charlize Theron (a white actress from South Africa) would be considered African American. If someone is from the Caribbean, are they Caribbean American or black? Are blacks who have lived in Great Britain for generations who migrate here European, or African American?

It becomes ridiculous at some point because are people referring to a) culture, b) physical characteristics, or c) place of current or historical origin when they are talking about race?

Most often references to black people (either A-A or black) refer to physical characteristics common to the "race" -- level of melanin, kinky hair texture, facial features. This, of course, is confounded when the person is either mixed race (e.g. Jennifer Beals) or the product of two light-skinned, but self-identified black parents who could pass for something else.

In the case of Barack Obama, I think all of the talk about him being "Halfrican" or "not black enough" is ludicrous. He clearly looks black even though he is biracial, and most certainly would have been strung up by the KKK back in the day, and suffered under Jim Crow because he doesn't look white. In this country, that's all it takes to be "black" -- if he had claimed to be white (after all he is half white), I can only imagine the conversations that would have been taking place on the talk shows and right wing blogs.


[ Parent ]
Pam, I feel like...
...I am expected to use A-A, at least sometimes...

I don't want to get caught up in one of these language traps - any suggestions?...

Thanks!

:)


[ Parent ]
when would you be expected to use it?
I have yet to be in a setting where I was chided for using black instead of A-A, but then I'm not white, so you'd have to fill me in on this one. What circumstances would you imagine being placed in the situation of feeling forced to use A-A -- with blacks, white liberals, etc.? If you felt the need to explain the use of black in lieu of A-A, I'd cite the explanation I gave above (Charlize Theron, for example), though I think that you're more likely to then engage in a political discussion over it.

[ Parent ]
Thanks To All Responders
Thanks everyone. It's empowering to know that some of the odder stuff that goes on in my mind is stuff that other people have also thought about. That's why while still a newbie I love being a blender. Always interesting discussions and people willing to reply.

[ Parent ]
when expected
I know that when the term became preferred by black friends and classmates in MI, we whites switched to it to.  It was mainly a matter of politeness - it was unspoken rule that minorities should choose the terms they wanted to be referred to by (PC rule?).  And although I never felt any especial pressure to use A-A, most whites did switch to it for the above reason, as well as for the same reason you keep up with any of the latest terminology - you know, trying not to be a total dweebe.  "Black" was still a perfectly acceptable term, but using it would mark you as kinda a beat behind the times.  Like someone saying "groovy" past 1976.  My sense is it was ok to use the previously favored term, but if you used terms too antiquated, you might be suspected of having antiquated ideas about the people you were talking about too.  Therefore, "negro" was out of the question.  This was in the 80s sometime, but cant remember when exactly.

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forgot about the present
I forgot to mention that now, living in WA, I still feel no particular pressure to use 'black' or 'A-A' or any other term.  People always have personal preferences, but the folks I hang around with are more concerned with getting throught life than debates over terminology.  Maybe its an age thing?  Maybe it's just not a sore point now, here in WA?  As the lovely fictional Frances Urquardt famously said, "I couldn't possibly comment"!

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[ Parent ]
AFTAH
I thought I would let everyone know that I have edited my blog a bit.  I had copied an email I sent to GuideStar about the AFTAH code.  I then pasted this email into my blog.  I have taken this information out of my original posting. I haven't heard from GuideStar, and doubt I will since the information is free to anyone, so anyone can look at the information that AFTAH gave to the IRS (or any other fundamentalist hate sites that claim tax-exempt status).  Just go to www.guidestar.org and do a simple search.

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