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Today Is TransAction Day - Focus On The Family and Exodus International Comment

by: Autumn Sandeen

Fri Feb 27, 2009 at 03:30:00 AM EST



If you didn't already know it, today (Friday, February 27, 2009) is TransAction Day in the nation's schools. The Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN) TransAction Dayhas sponsored the day, in conjunction with their annual Day Of Silence website. From the webpage on TransAction Day:

Did you know?

The 2007 National School Climate Survey, a national study of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) found:

• 85.1% of transgender students reported being verbally harassed based on their sexual orientation and gender/gender expression
•  96.1% of students heard negative comments related to students' gender expression
• 38.4% of students reported feeling unsafe at school because of their gender expression.
• Transgender students reported experiencing higher levels of harassment and assault related to various personal characteristics than other students.

It seems pretty wonderful to me that GLSEN has set aside a day for students to think about the school experiences of transyouth.

TransAction Day, of course, has been noticed by conservative "Christians." CitizenLink (a Focus On The Family subsidiary) and Exodus International have paid attention to this day:

We have to be completely vigilant about what our children are being taught in schools. Parents need to pay attention and raise concerns with their school districts as well as teach their children healthy, biblical role-modeling of their gender.

Gender is not a social construct. It's a biological fact. We have men and women and that's been the case since the beginning of Creation.

--Randy Thomas, executive vice president of Exodus International

File this under know what your enemies are saying -- CitizenLink/Focus On The Family (FOTF) has a article up today entitled GLSEN's TransAction Day Pushes Transgenderism in Schools; 'There is a very radical, extreme agenda at play here.' From the CitizenLink article (emphasis added):

Autumn Sandeen :: Today Is TransAction Day - Focus On The Family and Exodus International Comment
...For TransAction Day, GLSEN makes available curriculum that includes workshops exploring the use of gender-neutral language and terminology. Students are instructed to use pronouns such as "zie" and "hir" instead of "he" or "she" and "his" or "hers." TransAction Day materials also discuss new definitions and concepts, like sexual reassignment surgery and what it means to be a drag queen.

In addition, students are encouraged to advocate for transgender issues in their schools and communities. They are urged to launch campaigns for gender-neutral or multi-gendered bathrooms, and are advised to challenge school policies, such as male-female couples at prom and gender-based colors for graduation gowns. They are also taught how to make their student clubs transgender inclusive.

Candi Cushman, education analyst for Focus on the Family Action, said GLSEN's agenda has no place whatsoever in taxpayer-funded schools that simply need to focus on the academic basics.

"Gay-activist groups like GLSEN repeatedly claim that these schoolwide events are just about making schools safe," she said. "But, if you look at the materials GLSEN is making available to students and teachers celebrating this event, you see there is a very radical, extreme agenda at play here." ...

Lesbian, gay, and bisexual (LGB) civil rights issues -- and in schools, bulling issues -- are very linked to and entwined with transgender (T) civil rights issues. When conservative "Christian" organizations argue against creating moral laws that treat their neighbors as themselves, use terms like gender confusion not only to describe T people, but also to describe LGB people as well.

Here's how Randy Thomas has talked about T in relationship to LGB and ex-gay in his blog entry The Transgender Double Standard:

It's always astounded me how willing some in the gay activist community are to celebrate someone surgically altering their body to "become" who they perceive to be internally. Yet when I determine I want to reorient my sexual orientation, which does not require drastic surgery or body altering drugs, according to those same activists, I am the one doing damage to myself and others by simply holding to a particular worldview that brings me contentment and sexual reorientation. The transgendered are applauded for radically altering their bodies while I am scolded for holding the belief that I would be happier living out who I truly am regardless of my past life as a gay identified man. It's ok for someone to ignore what they were obviously born as but for people like me ... we are told being "gay" is genetic and should be embraced because we have no other option.

Gay activists, who truly don't represent most who would identify as "gay," celebrate someone discovering their true identity ... well unless it involves spiritual or moral reasons that are contrary to gay fundamentalism. Their moral opposition to my reality is the difference here. For the most part, the transgender person does not call into question the morality of gay activist sexuality and identity in the context of a biblical sexual ethic. My existence, just by being around and talking about it, does challenge those issues. Therefore, since most "transfolk" as others have called them, tow the gay fundamentalist line... they are celebrated as "the new gay."

A little jealousy, perhaps, of LGB people in the LGBT activist community accepting trans people as being rooted in reality, and ex-gay people as being not rooted in reality? Ah, well, that's just a sideshow comment for all of us to ponder.

But on the serious side, that Focus On The Family has used the Executive Vice President of Exodus International to make its final point about trans people and gender in its piece on TransAction Day (Exodus International being perceived by many people as an ex-gay organization) says something about how FOTF connects lesbian, gay, and bisexual people with the specific issues of trans people. In these conservative "Christian" people's minds (as well as my mind), LGB and T issues are all part of the broader LGBT community's issues -- they'd just likely identify the issues as being part of an extreme, Homosexual Agenda®.

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I am cracking up
This is too funny,
We have to be completely vigilant about what our children are being taught in schools. Parents need to pay attention and raise concerns with their school districts as well as teach their children healthy, biblical role-modeling of their gender

The y might not want to send their children to school with my kids.  My children have been taught with an open mind when it comes to LGBT issues.  I keep my 17 year old daughter up to speed on what the relgious reich has to say.  You want to see a woman go off on a school board, have them try to tell me that what I am teaching my daughters is against the rules.  A few weeks ago, someone decided to say a prayer.  My youngest belted out the lyrics to, 'I kissed a girl and I liked it' a few of her classmates chimed in as well.

I got a call from the school as they wanted to inform me of the knd of music my daughter listens to, and to beware, and watch for signs that she may be experimentng with the 'lesbian lfestyle'.  I was like, 'You called me up to tell me this?  Good grief, Isaid, 'I teach my daughters all the facts about sexuality. I said, If one of my daughters comes home a tells me she is in love, and it is love shared with another woman, I will celebrate with her.

OHHH that pissed off that one teacher. I have instructed both my daughters that if you are asked to say a prayer, and you don't feel like it, just sit quietly.  I fsomeone says you must stand during ther prayer, sing one of your favorite songs.  So if Christian Johnny's mommy doesn't want her child neer mine, than remove him from the class. I am raising my daughter to deal with reality and the real world where LGBT people live and love.

Fucking Ass Whiped.

If I make sense? it was quite by accident.


Excellent
I recently got hauled into the principal's office because another parent complained about my daughter's blogsite. They even seized her school laptop, to make sure she wasn't violating any school rules.

A post done COMPLETELY DISCRETELY (no real names or places), ON HER OWN LAPTOP AND IN HER OWN HOME. ON A SITE WHERE I ALSO HAVE AN ID AND VISIT OCCASIONALLY, WHICH MY DAUGHTER KNOWS.

Mary wrote a post about being physically assaulted and sexually harassed by a larger and older classmate. He's been calling her "queer, lesbian, homo" etc all year; 2 weeks ago he shoved her onto the ground after cornering her and grinding his groin into her ass, tearing her jeans and ripping her knee wide open. No suspension for him!

2 of her friends know about the site- it took one second to figure out which parent complained: the SAHM/ Christian mouse, whose younger child was terrified 2 years ago of his parents he is gay.

We've both spoken with the school and Charlie took Mary to file a police report, as the kid 2 days AFTER the attack told her "he was going to GET her for getting him in trouble" and the school did nothing about the ongoing threats to Mary's safety.
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We need to do everything possible to ensure the safety of every child- be it in school or elsewhere. Thank you for this post, Autumn.

"It goes on one at a time, it starts when you care to act, it starts when you do it again after they said no, it starts when you say We and know who you mean, and each day you mean one more."


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Bullying
Bullying was and still is the primary tool of the "religious" right.  Their hearts are dead; they want yours to be dead too.  

Bullying kills a beating, open heart.

Hate stops a beating heart.


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Terrible story
I hope your daughter is and will remain to be okay, Louise.  

Are there any witnesses to the harassment?  Or any way of documenting it at all?  If so, I'd be tempted to hire a lawyer and file suit against the school and the Christian kid and his family.  This sounds like criminal assault, even if it was done in the name of Jesus.  

You also might think about contacting GLSEN or Lambda Legal on this.

I am not interested in picking up crumbs of compassion thrown from the table of someone who considers himself my master. I want the full menu of rights.  -Archbishop Desmond Tutu


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Keeping all options available
All I want is for every child in this school district to be able to get a good education safely. It's now in the principal's hands- either he steps up and keeps his assurances that Mary will not be physically harmed, or Charlie and I go to the media and hire lawyers.

What really pissed me off in retrospect was that the principal was able to haul Mary in and scold her for her profane language on her blog in the first place. She did not threaten this kid, but she did swear like her momma- this was what he was most concerned about and wanted me "to be aware of".

My kid CAN say anything she wants, on her own blog using her own laptop and in her home that SHE WANTS- as long as it's not a criminal threat. I wish I had told the principal off royally... oh well.

"It goes on one at a time, it starts when you care to act, it starts when you do it again after they said no, it starts when you say We and know who you mean, and each day you mean one more."


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Randy is a liar
No one cares about Randy Thomas's personal decision about his own life. It's when he and other professional ex-gays try to undermine the rights of those of us who are happy with our orientation.

If Thomas is truly honest, he wouldn't be so quick to connect himself with the religious right.


Great timing, Autumn...
and another good post from you.

I plan to be at my Texas representative's townhall meeting tomorrow and am working up some things to give him, if possible, regarding unemployment, violence, etc. One of his stated priorities is public schools, so more information on school bullying is helpful.

I have a problem with: "...For TransAction Day, GLSEN makes available curriculum that includes workshops exploring the use of gender-neutral language and terminology. Students are instructed to use pronouns such as "zie" and "hir" instead of "he" or "she" and "his" or "hers."

Obviously, GLSEN knows more about this subject than I, but I am not sure that this is such a good idea. Have we forgotten how many of us (mis)behaved in school? How we could twist, mock, and otherwise abuse our teachers' and school officials' words? I can guarantee that telling bullies, wiseasses, and the like to call some other students "zie" and "hir" -- in accordance with school policy -- will cause even more problems.


I believe they're leaving room for genderqueer students.

There's lots of ways to be transgender...genderqueer people -- people who don't identify as male or female, or identify as both male and female, or identify on a continum between male and female, or fluidly/alternatively express gender with male and female presentations -- also need protecting from bullying and harassment like other students who belong to minority groups.

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~~Autumn~~

As if there were safety in stupidity alone.
--Henry David Thoreau


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