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The Christian Civic League of Maine's Mike Hein calls Pam's House Blend:
"a leading source of radical homosexual propaganda, anti-Christian bigotry, and radical transgender advocacy."

He is "praying that Pam Spaulding will "turn away from her wicked and sinful promotion of homosexual behavior." (CCLM's web site, 10/15/07)


Ex-gay "Christian" activist James Hartline on Pam:
"I have been mocked over and over again by ungodly and unprincipled anti-christian lesbians."
(from "Six Years In Sodom: From The Journal Of James Hartline," 9/4/2006, written from the "homosexual stronghold" of Hillcrest in San Diego).

"Pam is a 'twisted lesbian sister' and an 'embittered lesbian' of the 'self-imposed gutteral experiences of the gay ghetto.'" -- 9/5/2008



Peter LaBarbera of Americans for Truth Against Homosexuality heartily endorses the Blend, calling Pam:

A "vicious anti-Christian lesbian activist."
(Concerned Women for America's radio show [9:15], 1/25/07)

"A nutty lesbian blogger."
(MassResistance radio show [16:25], 2/3/07)


Pam's House Blend always seems to find these sick f*cks. The area of the country she is in? The home state of her wife? I know, they are everywhere. Pam just does such a great job of bringing them out into the light.
--Impeach Bush


who monitors yours Bevis ?? Just thought I would drop you a line,so the rest of your life is not wasted.
--"Joe"

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by: Pam Spaulding

Fri Aug 10, 2007 at 12:00:00 PM EDT


[I'm on day-long set of flights back to NC after the HRC/LOGO presidential debate, so play nice and create some nifty, if inaccurate, avatars.]

I was just surfing around before going to bed last night and found Yahoo Avatars and decided to see if I could create something that looked even remotely like me.

Skin tone: You're limited to 5 choices, I selected the middle one, kinda mocha.

Face: the proportion of lips/eyes/nose -- not a lot of selections here to choose from. I picked "Face 9 w/Dark Brown Eyes.

Hairstyle: Something close to my locs, both in style and color, was actually available ("brown braids").

Apparel: Just as it is in the real world, you have a lot more options in clothing if you're thin. I guess I'm supposed to be grateful that Yahoo Avatars even has a "plus-size" option, though as you can see, she's not too large. Then again, the "normal" avatars are ridiculously thin by comparison. So, my avatar is wearing "Teal Print Tunic & Black Leggings."

Accessories: You can pick bags, jewelry, scarves and eyewear. I passed on all of these and just went for the glasses ("Black Narrow Glasses"). There's also a wide variety of fantasy accessories, pets, sports and hobbies that you can overlay on your avatar.

Background: I picked Coffeehouse Chat Background, natch.

The narrow options to represent oneself are a bit disturbing, but the palatte of humanity is hard to replicate online. The selections I made, given the intent was to accurately depict my physical self say quite a bit, though I'm not sure what, about self-image and representation. It also says quite a bit about the constraints the virtual palatte itself. Colors, shapes, sizes -- and fashion sense -- are limited by the imagination and world view of the creators of this particular online world.

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tried it

No avatar which appears 15yo. really is going to fit the ancients (mid fifties). I also didn't find facial hair other than a soul patch. Just scraped the whole thing. renderosity.com

has some advanced sims which others might enjoy, and some pretty talented artist's galleries.



"race, taste. and History finally overcome....and you ain't there"
by Tony Kushner


I give up.
It doesn't like any of my browsers so I ended up with a bald headed female face.  No body, no background, no hair.  Oh well. 
I had the same problem with ethnicity at Weather Pixie.  They have whites and African Americans but no Asian types, which I needed.  They can't be customized so I got as close as possible.  As an aside, my friend Eric's picture waaaay too much like him.  It was scary to see that.  ;^)

My America includes LGBT families.

Aw C'mon

The narrow options to represent oneself are a bit disturbing...

I think I have to file this under "gimme a break"...?

First, I think your avatar looks quite a BIT like your photo, considering the boilerplate nature of it. Second, I think yahoo should be COMMENDED for expanding their avatars from the handful they used to have, and giving us a "Mr/Ms Potato Head" setup where we can pick the features we want, instead of just having to pick avatar A, B, C...Z as given. Yet, apparently, even this is still to be considered "narrow" by some?

 Hmm, I think I'll save adjectives like "disturbing" for real crises such as the situation in Iraq, my lack of domestic partner benefits, global warming, and the health care crisis. Just because I can't get a (free) Yahoo avatar that is indistinguishable from a photograph of myself is not something I'd rank high on my list of worries, YMMV.



Don't keep your powder TOO dry ;-)

I think that it is very positive that you can mix and match to select your own features, rather than choose say, the nerd, the preppy white guy, the black guy, or the asian chick.

But it is also a little disturbing that all of the options look ridiculously young and skinny.  Yeah, those are our cultural ideals, and maybe people would even choose to skew themselves in that direction anyway, but it still says something, doncha think?

We still have lots of other verbal weapons in our arsenal for the biggies. For the issues that you pointed out, I might say "obscene", "sickening", "atrocious", "inhumane", or "devastating".  We do have another year and a half or so of Chimpy, so I am holding back on "apocalyptic", but there have been times...



What the hell was I doing in Oaxaca in 1992, on the eve of the Zapatista revolution?

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I agree

I was annoyed that there were no real beards, no reddish-brown hair choice, but more so by the fact that the men's bodies looked like the MACY's ads that hit my Inbox--every guy skinny, 28-inch waist at the most, flat chest, no shoulders. Aren't there any avatars who work out?  :-)

At first I thought it was fun, then I thought it was a crock, though Pam's came out  much closer to the real her than anything it could offer me would.



"In order to maintain an untenable position, you have to be actively ignorant."  The Colbert Report

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Pam: I think your's is very charming. Perhaps not 100%, but it has a nice, friendly, open, intelligent feel to it.



That's pretty good!
They definately need more options though.  Mine looks enough like me, but it just makes me realize how nondescript I am.  Sigh.

What the hell was I doing in Oaxaca in 1992, on the eve of the Zapatista revolution?

Pam Spaulding As A Simpsons Character



-----
~~Autumn~~

As if there were safety in stupidity alone.
--Henry David Thoreau


LOL!
Now where do I find the blue earrings? :)

[ Parent ]
Umm...
I have no idea. 

-----
~~Autumn~~

As if there were safety in stupidity alone.
--Henry David Thoreau


[ Parent ]
Autumn "Simpson", for comparrison to Pam "Simpson"

Hee-hee!



-----
~~Autumn~~

As if there were safety in stupidity alone.
--Henry David Thoreau


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No life for mommy

 We must have had the same boring night going on last night... I made this one after  my girls went to sleep.

 

 



Paula The Surf Mom

that's cute!
Love the pup! Even got a lighthouse in there.

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fun
:) I needed a fun activity after the week I've had. I love all the avatars.

It isn't surprising that none of the options include realistic bodies, but it is disappointing.  There's an interesting Penn and Teller Bullshit about the weight loss industry, an industry built around telling us that perfect bodies are desirable and healthy.  P&T are crude to be sure, but the episode is definitely thought provoking.

Anyway... Stuart sent me the Simpsonize me last week, I look like a scientist version of Waylon Smithers crossed with Flea. It was a nice distraction on a very insane day.

Stuart's result:

My result:


Electricity's for light bulbs!


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