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Working for LGBT rights here in flyover country...

by: Pam Spaulding

Wed Oct 03, 2007 at 17:30:00 PM EDT


We've been doing a lot of blogging about LGBT issues at the national level, specifically ENDA and all the political schisms erupting, but it's good to remind ourselves that the rubber often hits the road at the local level, where our advocacy organizations do a lot with not a lot of resources.

During our Pride last weekend here in NC (my post here), and the good folks at EqualityNC had a table up all day. People were enthusiastically signing the  Safe Schools Petition -- 900 folks in support of it. We have an LGBT-inclusive School Violence Prevention Act making its way through the State Senate. Since there was a lot of buzz there about ENDA, as well as other issues, ENC took an informal poll on what most concerned LGBT Tar Heels:
Over half the respondents thought preventing the anti-gay marriage amendment was top priority. North Carolina remains the only Southern state to legislatively stop a constitutional amendment to reduce gay folks to second-class citizens who cannot marry.

A close second was preventing anti-gay bullying in our schools (something Equality NC is working hard to do next session with our Safe School legislation). Many people also expressed concern that the trans community isn't included often enough in pro-LGBT legislation -- a particularly relevant issue given the recent attempts to remove trans-inclusion from the federal Employment Nondiscrimination Act, efforts which ENC strongly opposes.

Employment nondiscrimination, both statewide and national (including repeal of the military's Don't Ask Don't Tell policy), was also cited.
Just a few weeks ago, I was in Birmingham speaking at  Alabama's Day of Equality and Gala (put on by Equality Alabama), where hundreds of grassroots activists (LGB and T) came together to attend workshops and support the local advocacy organization.

On November 3, LGBT North Carolinians get their opportunity to come together, share stories and strategize how to advance our rights in our state with the 2007 Equality Conference & Gala. It will held at the Duke University School of Law,  and will feature workshops that bring together movement leaders, grassroots advocates, and LGBT citizens from across the state for a day of networking, skills-building, and learning. In the evening there will be a gala held at the Nasher Museum of Art in Durham.

I serve on the conference committee, and was pleased as all get-out to confirm that Alabama Representative Patricia Todd is going to join us to speak about her journey to become the first openly gay elected official in that state; and Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) President Neil Guiliano will also bring his perspective to attendees. What's exciting is that we will have several member of the North Carolina General Assembly there. Remember, in this state, being an open advocate of LGBT rights can be no small feat in some circles, and we look forward to educating more elected officials about moving forward in support of equality. In fact, the first Equality North Carolina Award for Legislative Leadership will be given to Representative Rick Glazier for his strong work on the School Violence Prevention Act.

I'll moderate a panel that should be extremely lively, "Still Crossing Those Bridges: Facing Racial and Ethnic Barriers," featuring  Mandy Carter, Co-Founder, Southerners on New Ground, Durham, Reverend Roger E. Hayes, Pastor, Church of the Holy Spirit Fellowship, Inc., Winston-Salem, Alba Onofrio, Executive Director, El Centro Hispano, Durham, and Allan Taziri, Member, Fayetteville Bayard Rustin Commemorative Alliance.

  See some of the other workshops after the jump, including one with the pastor who made news at the Dem YouTube debate with a question on marriage equality.
Pam Spaulding :: Working for LGBT rights here in flyover country...
Also on a panel will be Rev. Reggie Longcrier, pastor of Exodus Missionary Outreach Church in Hickory, N.C. He is the minister who asked John Edwards the spot-on, perfectly constructed question about marriage equality at the YouTube debate:

Sen. Edwards has said his opposition to gay marriage has been influenced by his Southern Baptist background. We know religion was once used to justify slavery, segregation and women not being allowed to vote, all of which today are recognized as unconstitutional and socially and morally wrong. So why is it still acceptable to use religion to justify denying gay and lesbian American their full and equal rights.

He will be on the panel "Keeping the Faith: Working In and With Religious Groups." [Read more about ending religion-based bigotry at Faith in America.]

 

Session One (11:30-12:45)

OutLaw: Making Sense of the Legal Landscape
Sponsored by Haas McNeil & Associates

Keeping the Faith: Working In and With Religious Groups
Sponsored by Mitchell Gold + Bob Williams

Building Healthy Communities: Grappling with Health Policy

  • Moderated by Jami Taylor, visiting Assistant Professor in Political Science, Ohio University, and Board Member, Equality North Carolina, Raleigh
  • Zeek Christopoulos, Director of Transmasculine Initiatives, Southern Comfort Conference and Executive Director, Robert Eads Memorial Health Project, Asheville
  • Brian Lewis, Executive Director, Covenant with North Carolina's Children, Raleigh

Campus Catalysts for Change: Strengthening College Organizing in North Carolina
Sponsored by the Freeman Foundation

  • Moderated by Matt Hill Comer, Owner and Editor, InterstateQ, Greensboro

Session Two (2:15-3:30)

Living Out Loud: Creating Change in Your Community

  • Moderated by Gary Palmer, Assistant Vice President of Community Affairs, Replacements, Ltd., Greensboro
  • J. Michael Clawson, President, PFLAG Salisbury
  • Bo Dean, Founder, OutWilmington Community Center, Wilmington
  • Judy McCord, Community Activist for Transgender Equality, Louisburg
  • Phil Wells, MeckPAC, Charlotte
  • Sherri Zann Rosenthal, Assistant District Attorney, Durham City Attorney’s Office

Working It Out: Creating Change in Your Workplace

Sponsored by Food Lion

  • Moderated by Ronna Dornsife, Triangle Representative for Out and Equal, Durham 
  • Pete Bonneau, Vice President of Efficiency and Productivity, Food Lion, Salisbury
  • Madeline Goss, Transgender Community Activist, Raleigh
  • Donna Oldham, Senior Communications Manager, Dell Inc., Winston-Salem
  • Marty St. Clair, Member, GlaxoSmithKline LGBT Employee Group, Raleigh


Still Crossing Those Bridges: Facing Racial and Ethnic Barriers

 

Speak Out, Speak Up: Educating Elected Officials About LGBT Equality
Sponsored by Liberty Education Forum

  We're really looking forward to this wide-ranging event. If you're anywhere in the area on November 3, join us in making a difference in the Tar Heel state.  Register now.
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Wow, you truly are a LGB and T activist! LOVE IT!

I'm really amazed and truly appreciative of people like yourself who are out there making a better place for people on this planet.  The fact that you are doing this in a "flyover state" makes your efforts even more impressive.  THANK YOU for all you do.  You are very inspiring.

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 Namaste!

 



As an openly gay high school teacher in NC...

I am proud of NC for not amending our state constitution to include discrimination. As a teacher, though, we need the anti-bullying law. For once, as a society, we need to make everyone in the public schools, from the superintendents through the principals on down to the teachers aware of just what anti-gay bullying does to our youth (gay or not) and their performance in the classroom. Oftentimes, I have seen administrators dealing with the issue who have no clue on what to do. They have no idea where to begin. These are the leaders of the school itself - it is time the General Assembly passes this legislation and DPI formulates staff development for teachers and principals on how to deal with the issue in a professional way. Kids are coming out earlier and earlier these days and I applaud them for being able to. But the conflicts that arise need to be dealt with more appropriately by the staff. I will never forget hearing colleagues refer to students as fags or dykes while I sat nearby. They were so clueless as to what being gay in today's world means that they never even had a clue that I would be. How odd.

 We are the adults on campus and we must lead in every situation at the school with a calm demeanor about ourselves. To see a principal sweating when an openly gay student sits in front of him discussing an issue always made me nauseous. As teachers, it is our job to take them all, love them all, and teach them all. As teachers, we need to be ready to facilitate discussions on these types of issues, even if it makes someone uncomfortable. No child deserves to be bullied at school, and if our state is as serious about education as it claims to be, it will pass this legislation.



"I like your Christ, but do not like your Christians. They are so unlike your Christ." ~Gandhi


Pam that is Great news and you bet the rubber hits the road locally

 

 

 Thank you i needed that after the reading the thread over at a certain blog...thank you , you lifted my spirits. You are an inspiration. And we love you darlin !  So consistent , so tireless, so on target , informed, inclusive, did i say tireless....now you take good care of yourself. You are a treasure !

 

 fondly - PP 



Hugs to Mandy Carter
I first met her in Asheville, way back when Harvey Gantt was running for Senate.  We gay activists were told to shut up because Jesse Helms would use our support against Harvey.  How times have changed.  Mandy is a real veteran for our civil rights, and should be in leadership of HRC or NGLTF.  What a great dynamo. 

Make alot of noise. Life is short.

Pam, please
if you can, keep us posted on what these workshops are like.  I'm especially interested in the workplace one.  Partly because of ENDA, but moreso to hear what someone from a large company like GSK has to say.  Also, it would be very interesting to hear about differences in equality strategies between companies from different industries.

It's been my experience that even well-meaning higher ups in a company can be completely oblivious to homo/transphobia in their companies.  The decision makers who have power over protection and diversity policies (and their enforcement) are often insulated, sometimes by overprotective HR people, from day to day workplace goings on.

Electricity's for light bulbs!


All politics are local
One of the things that has pissed me during this ENDA debacle is that certain segments of the GLBT establishment, no names here though one has the inititials CC and the other has the initials JA, say that America isn't ready for transgender protections.  Like Pam, I live in "flyover America" and if we can do what we have done here, well, I don't see why it can't happen nationwide.  I admit that for a southern city in a pretty red state, Louisville is a pretty liberal and progressive place, but it's still Kentucky and you know what, we have three cities that provide protections to the entire GLBT community.  

We were the first, adopting our Fairness Ordinance in 1999 and soon Lexington and Covington followed suit.  I assure you that Lexington and especially Covington will never be confused with San Fran or NYC and yet they have managed to do what these cowards say can't be done nationwide.  Those of us out in the hinterlands, at least that's the way people who live inside the Beltway and on the coast think of us, are leading the way on this and there is a lot that can be learned from those of us who are out there in Middle America fighting each and everyday to make things better.




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