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The Christian Civic League of Maine's Mike Hein calls Pam's House Blend:
"a leading source of radical homosexual propaganda, anti-Christian bigotry, and radical transgender advocacy."

He is "praying that Pam Spaulding will "turn away from her wicked and sinful promotion of homosexual behavior." (CCLM's web site, 10/15/07)


Ex-gay "Christian" activist James Hartline on Pam:
"I have been mocked over and over again by ungodly and unprincipled anti-christian lesbians."
(from "Six Years In Sodom: From The Journal Of James Hartline," 9/4/2006, written from the "homosexual stronghold" of Hillcrest in San Diego).

"Pam is a 'twisted lesbian sister' and an 'embittered lesbian' of the 'self-imposed gutteral experiences of the gay ghetto.'" -- 9/5/2008



Peter LaBarbera of Americans for Truth Against Homosexuality heartily endorses the Blend, calling Pam:

A "vicious anti-Christian lesbian activist."
(Concerned Women for America's radio show [9:15], 1/25/07)

"A nutty lesbian blogger."
(MassResistance radio show [16:25], 2/3/07)


Pam's House Blend always seems to find these sick f*cks. The area of the country she is in? The home state of her wife? I know, they are everywhere. Pam just does such a great job of bringing them out into the light.
--Impeach Bush


who monitors yours Bevis ?? Just thought I would drop you a line,so the rest of your life is not wasted.
--"Joe"

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LGB - T = ENDA, Pt. 1

by: TerranceDC

Thu Nov 08, 2007 at 19:45:54 PM EST


I haven't commented yet, at least not on this blog, about the House vote on the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) yesterday, or the controversy over the fact that version of the bill passed by the House did not include gender identity and thus does not -- as previous versions of the bill did -- protect transgender persons from employment discrimination.

 

The ENDA CelebrationThe House on Wednesday approved a bill granting broad protections against discrimination in the workplace for gay men, lesbians and bisexuals, a measure that supporters praised as the most important civil rights legislation since the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990 but that opponents said would result in unnecessary lawsuits.

The bill, the Employment Nondiscrimination Act, is the latest version of legislation that Democrats have pursued since 1974. Representatives Edward I. Koch and Bella Abzug of New York then sought to protect gay men and lesbians with a measure they introduced on the fifth anniversary of the Stonewall Rebellion, the brawl between gay men and police officers at a bar in Greenwich Village that is widely viewed as the start of the American gay rights movement.

"On this proud day of the 110th Congress, we will chart a new direction for civil rights," said Representative Kathy Castor, a Florida Democrat and a gay rights advocate, in a speech before the vote. "On this proud day, the Congress will act to ensure that all Americans are granted equal rights in the work place."

I remember, and blogged about the last time a house of Congress voted on ENDA, a moment that was at once historic and disappointing, just as this moment is. For slightly different reasons, though.

TerranceDC :: LGB - T = ENDA, Pt. 1
The twist this year is that the measure has emerged as an example of Speaker Nancy Pelosi's pragmatism in trying to make headway on leading issues by granting concessions, even at the risk of angering her party's base.

To ensure passage of the bill, Ms. Pelosi and other Democrats, including Representative Barney Frank of Massachusetts, who is openly gay, removed language granting protections to transsexual and transgender individuals by barring discrimination based on sexual identity, a move that infuriated gay rights groups.

The Democrats also carved out a blanket exemption for religious groups, drawing the ire of civil liberties advocates who argued that church-run hospitals, for instance, should not be permitted to discriminate against gay employees. The civil liberties groups wanted a narrow exemption for religious employers.

Much ink, bandwidth, and hot air have been employed about they whys and why nots of a anti-discrimination bill that essentially takes the "T" out of "LGBT." Accusations, recriminations, adulations and explanations have filled the air, and I've hesitated to publicly add my voice. Until now, that is, because I've tried to understand the reasons people on both sides took their positions. But I've found it impossible not to take a side.

As a black, gay man, I find it hard to find anything to celebrate in a moment that essentially puts someone else's equality on hold at a time when I've been asked to put my own on hold. In both cases, the reasoning is that some of us have to be back-burnered for the greater good. It's a curious this, this .

 

I understand the "win what we can win now" approach, because it's nothing new. It's the same gradualism that's a part of ever civil rights debate. And, as in every other civil rights debate, the implication of gradualism is that some people will have to continue to endure injustice without remedy.

Its one thing to be an incrementalist and at least be honest about that last sentence. It's quite another to declare that it is the right thing to do to ask others to continue to suffer injustice without remedy, that they ought to be glad to do it, and that they are wrong for objecting to it.

That's what's asked of of gay folks by progressives on the marriage issue. And now that's what gay folks are asking of transgender folks on employment discrimination, which for some transgender people is literally a matter of life and death.

And for movements that are supposed to be about progress and equality, it's a matter of of a certain degree of concession to the opposite of both.

 

That's the difference between gradual vs. immediate social change, I guess. The former always means that those who are denied justice have to suffer injustice for a longer time, but the majority can comfortably take its time about changing a status quo that currently works in its favor. The latter almost always means that the aggrieved receive justice sooner than it might have been delivered to them at the acquiescence of the majority, but at the cost of upsetting the status quo.

...It feels like saying that Frederick Douglas was wrong when he said this.

"Power concedes nothing without a demand. It never did and it never will. Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them, and these will continue till they are resisted with either words or blows, or with both. The limits of tyrants are prescribed by the endurance of those whom they oppress."

Or at the very least it feels like paraphrasing Douglas to read, "Power concedes nothing, unless you ask it nicely enough and long enough."

How nicely and how long remains to be seen. Who wants to find out?

Power concedes nothing without demand, indeed. But what do we concede.

Crossposted from The Republic of T.

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After some hesitation

I decided to crosspost this after I noticed someone linked to it in a comment thread. I almost hesitate to enter this debate, but I guess now I have.

Bottom line, I cannot ask of someone else what I hate to have asked of me, and expect them to like it or keep quiet about it any more than I do.  



TerranceDC
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WTF?

"On this proud day of the 110th Congress, we will chart a new direction for civil rights," said Representative Kathy Castor, a Florida Democrat and a gay rights advocate, in a speech before the vote. "On this proud day, the Congress will act to ensure that all Americans are granted equal rights in the work place."

 

WTF? I'm an American and a veteran and I'm not protected like all the rest.



Amen!
AMerican, Veteran, and still without the right to employment based solely on my qualifications.

http://www.dyssonance.com  Breaking all the rules...

[ Parent ]
I just posted my life story on the subject
http://www.pamshouse...

I think it is time that people should start posting their life stories. We need more people to start telling the world we are here. Let them know we are just people trying to live our own lives. Hope others wise come out.


Terrance

I know I'm a fairly new voice, and I'm readily accused of vitriol.

I have, however, been reading you for some time.

I knew, already, that whatever you chose to do, if you ever did comment on this, you'd do so fairly and with reasoned consideration.

I knew, already, that whatever side you came out on, you'd be fair to the other side.

And I thank you for that.

And I thank you for coming out on what I think was the right side.



http://www.dyssonance.com  Breaking all the rules...

gimme a GLB on white bread; hold the "T"

Transgendered people should have been included.  Because it would have been the right thing to do

To me, that seems simple enough:  sadly though, it appears that for many people it wasn't.  Observing all the infighting has been disheartening, putting it mildly.  (In general that is.  I don't mean infighting at PHB specifically.)

I would like to avoid wrangling over GLBT vs. GLB by suggesting queer.  It's simple.  It's inclusive.  And it's not as awkward to say aloud as "GLBT", regardless of whether one chooses to specify what each letter stands for, or not.  (It reminds me of www...in the sense of it being ironic for an abbreviation to be so unpronounceable.)

Hardly a new idea, I know.  Sufficiently established that "queer studies" is easily recognizable among activists and academics.

Or do trans people feel that "queer" (like "gay") doesn't really include them?  Let me know how you feel about this.

BTW, hello...don't know whether I should introduce myself, this being my first post.  I'm a typically atypical white-bread suburban "kid" (of 42 years).  My most significant and longest-lasting love was for a man from Taiwan.  In my somewhat-backward but-trying-to-be-liberal city, the same-gender aspect always seemed to attract more attention than the multi-racial thing.

He's in China now (but we had problems before he left).  I haven't entirely recovered, which I suppose is obvious.  Then there was the patient, loving (but deeply damaged) man who took me by the hand during my stormy coming-out...and who took his own life, ten years ago.  So yes, I suppose one could say I have baggage.

I intended the intro to be short.  Funny how these things turn out.  Interesting how you sometimes find it easier to spill your guts to people who don't know you...



Queer? Not Really

CWM (can I call you CW?), I don't "feel" queer. I'm intersexed, formerly transsexual, but basically just a woman.

And I'm a human being, one who can't help but feel touched that you've opened up to me, to us, to other Human Beings like yourself.

I've never understood men, gay men least of all. But I understand humanity, and compassion, and loneliness, and the need just to talk to someone, anyone. It's alright, it's allowed, and there are people here for you.  People who actually give a damn, if you'll pardon my French.

So please accept a long-distance virtual Hug from Canberra, Australia. One Human Being to another. 



There is no situation so complex it can't get even worse

[ Parent ]
down under

Zoeb:  have you noticed most Americans don't know where Canberra is?  Or have even heard of it?  I mean, it's only the capital city...of a country...which takes up an entire continent...

You can imagine the U.S. media's coverage of the giant tsunami (the one in which Aceh, Indonesia was particularly badly hit).  Let's say, a 48-point headline dedicated to the one American there on holiday who got injured:  while the thousands of dead and millions of people who lost homes didn't merit a mention until the third paragraph.

We're infamous for it, and it's true.  If it doesn't happen inside our borders, or directly affect us, we just don't care.

Well...really now...some of us do care, but it's hard to notice because we don't have much of a voice.  Despite the never-ending downward spiral of criminal thuggery perpetrated by what I hate to dignify with a term such as the "Bush administration," the media continue to grovel before that guy in the White House, and the (supposed opposition party) Democrats continue to cower in fear.

It was particularly mortifying when the a***ole got a second term.  Though if you follow the news closely, you might have noticed there was even more election fraud in 2004 than in 2000.  The media widely reported on election night that Kerry won, then the next morning did the usual congratulatory stories about Bush's re-election...without taking the slightest notice of the discrepancy.  Oddly enough, some of us did notice!!

It's embarrassing for my country when Dubya speaks, and not only because he appears to suffer from aphasia or some other kind of serious language disorder.  What gets to me is how he looks so uncomfortable.  As if he'd rather be doing anything else.  As if he knows he doesn't really belong there.

And nobody mentions it.  And the newspapers clean up his quotes for him.



[ Parent ]
guilty as charged.

My concept of Australia is a giant Sydney and a bunch of smaller cities whose location I am never quite sure of , except for Darwin, which has a memorable name.

I would suppose I see A. the way the famous New Yorker cartoon sees the USA - a giant Manhattan dominating, then other boroughs, then Joisey, then.......blank space.



[ Parent ]
Do I FEEL queer?
Not at all.  I'm as normal as most people.  I just happen to have a little different back story, that's all.  Do I think the term "queer" would be better than "LGBT"?  Yes - if for no other reason than that the term "queer" does not subdivide us all into little categories.  I've got an even better suggestion, though.  How about we just refer to ourselves as "naked"?  We're people just like everyone else but we're still uncovered and unprotected.  Any time you slap a label on anything, you cover up some of what's inside.

And hello to you, too!  It's everybody's first time sometime.  But I think you'll find that folks here - while we can be contentious at times - really do care.  Kind of like a great big but slightly dysfunctional family that underneath it all really do love each other.  (except Josh)


[ Parent ]
thanks to ZoeB & Jami...

...for the greetings; I really appreciate it.   It's nice to feel welcome.

You can call me whatever seems easiest.  The nick is partly a reference to Charles Wallace (Murry), the gifted child in Madeleine L'engle's novel A Wrinkle in Time.  I hated that book when I read it at age twelve but couldn't have told you why.  Maybe I was a bit too literal-minded at that age to get into the fantasy genre.  Mostly I think the Charles Wallace character hit too close to home.  The little brother, the baby of the family:  who people always seem to hate as soon as they meet him, because he talks as if he's reading from an encyclopedia, and doesn't realize the effect he's having on those around him.  (I love the book now, obviously)

I'll have to concur with you, Zoe:  I don't understand men, either.  And I am one!  :-)  I was frightened by my father (stern, cold) and my brother (a bully) as far back as I can remember.  I do distinctly remember--at about the age of five--deciding that if they were what boys and men were like, I was not going to be like that!

From then on:  well, it wasn't the familiar story of playing with dolls and avoiding boys.  Though I did find most boys too rough, and I do closely resemble my mother in many ways (to this day).  No, mostly I retreated into a quiet life of books...and in that environment, learning to be quiet (i.e. inconspicuous) was a good survival strategy :-;

Compared to the gender stereotype I know I appeared to be a sissy...but I couldn't swish if I had to; I think I am somewhat masculine but not in an obvious way, if that makes sense.  My 1st coming out, I hit what seemed to be a culture clash, where I was into Bergman films and the other guys wanted to talk about what happened on "Dynasty" last night.  I knew that behind my back they called me a "closet case" (because I acted "too straight") and a troll.  Physically, I am a classic nerd type, I'll admit.  Though being judged harshly on my demeanor and appearance was a big letdown; I felt like an outcast among outcasts.

Again I withdrew into a mostly solitary life (is this sounding familiar?) and it wasn't until years later after meeting some Radical Faeries that I found a milieu in which I felt accepted.

So Jami, I think I understand where you're coming from.  I don't feel particularly odd, although I always seem to be the odd man out:  too weird among the married with 2.5 kids types, but too reserved and professorial if in the midst of a more unrestrained kind of scene.  Not that I don't ever get unrestrained myself...perhaps that's something I need to work on!



[ Parent ]
I'm queer.

Admittedly so.

In all sorts of meanings and connotations of the word.

All depends on one's perspective.

I defend religion, for example. Even the paulinst hypocrites I so depsise.

THis is for several reasons: for one, my religion requires me to. For two, my background has taught me that religion is an integral part of any society, and serves a valid (albeit often galling) purpose of acting as a brake and a stabilizing force. And, for a thrid, because its been around forever -- I genuinely accept the present hypothesis that religion has some form of valid pourpose since its endemic to the human condition.

 That will, generally speaking, make me pretty queer to a lot of people.

I enjoy being different.  Its in part the remains of a defense mechanism I developed, granted, but its still a part of my makeup.

And, of course, I'm trans -- and I'm part of a group of transfolk who tend to be almost but not quite onthe same level as the standard activist type.

So yeah -- queer works for me in ways that I have zero problem with.



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