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This and that - open thread

by: Pam Spaulding

Wed Dec 12, 2007 at 13:30:00 PM EST


A few items for you to comment about...


* Papa Ratzi: "Gays and lesbians marrying is an obstacle to world peace." We are a powerful lot,  huh? Yet another bleat of the week from the Vatican (h/t Towleroad):

Presenting the nuclear family as the "first and indispensable teacher of peace" and the "primary agency of peace," the 15-page document links sexual and medical ethics to international relations.

"Everything that serves to weaken the family based on the marriage of a man and woman, everything that directly or indirectly stands in the way of its openness to the responsible acceptance of new life ... constitutes an objective obstacle on the road to peace," Benedict writes.

* Chris Matthews calls for marriage equality. The host of MSNBC's Hardball normally gets my ire up on quite a few topics, but this is a pleasant surprise. PageOneQ has video.

* The author of one of my favorite books, Coming Out Under Fire: The History of Gay Men and Women in World War II, gay historian Allan Berube, has died. The tome was a fantastic work. A statement by his close friend Wayne Hoffman is below the fold.

Pam Spaulding :: This and that - open thread
Berube was, for decades, an independent historian and community activist. He first came to progressive political activism in opposition to the Vietnam war, working with the American Friends Service Committee in Boston in the late 1960s, after dropping out of the University of Chicago. After coming out in 1969, he joined a "gay liberation collective household," and later moved to San Francisco to join a gay commune for craftspeople. He remained in San Francisco for many years, and was one of the founders of the San Francisco Lesbian and Gay History Project in 1978. His slide shows about women who dressed and passed as men -- and married other women -- were welcomed by enthusiastic audiences around the country.

Berube is best remembered for his groundbreaking work of gay history, published in 1990: Coming Out Under Fire: The History of Gay Men and Women in World War II. The Lambda Literary Award-winning book, which was later adapted by Arthur Dong into a Peabody Award-winning documentary, was often cited in Senate hearings on the military's anti-gay policies in 1993.

For the past several years, Berube lived in Liberty, N.Y., in the Catskills. There, he owned a bed & breakfast, and operated Intelligent Design, a store selling mid-century modern collectibles. Berube's partner, John Nelson, said, "Allan just loved it when people walked into the Liberty store, looked around, and were happy." In addition to Nelson, Berube is also survived by his mother and three sisters.

* Click over to an interesting article on being black and gay, from the Worcester Telegram & Gazette, A minority within a minority:  African-American gays report existence is comfortable, somewhat invisible. Reporter Mark Melady drops the ball semantically by using the terms "gay marriage" and "sexual preference" in the piece, and one interviewee, Rodney Glasgow, director of diversity at Worcester Academy (and the first fully out faculty member at the school) has this to say, which should stimulate discussion.
African Americans' unease with homosexuality has its roots in the emasculation of black men during slavery, Mr. Glasgow said. "A gay black male evokes that dynamic in the black culture," he said. "And a lot of the avoidance of the issue of black homosexuality has to do with the decline of the black family. A black gay male is seen as adding to that decline."

The gay community is as racist as the population at large, Mr. Glasgow said, maybe even more so because male homosexual racial attitudes are often interwoven with sexual stereotypes and fetishism. "My friends are shocked when I say this, but I feel most out of place in gay places," Mr. Glasgow said, referring primarily to gay clubs.

Too many white gay men view black gay men through the prism of sexual desire based on racist typecasting, Mr. Glasgow said. "They want the hypersexual black male or the finger-snapping black diva," he said. Racism among gays is part of the reason Mr. Glasgow does not believe gay rights should be linked to the civil rights movement.

"Gays want to jump on the civil rights wagon, but they are not doing any anti-racism work," he said. "I'm also uncomfortable with a connection to the civil rights movement because that's still in progress."

* Also, Ben Hinzel of OutFront Blog points to a piece by Laura Nguyen on being gay and Asian and one by Ivette Lopez, on being gay and Hispanic.
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Joey-Ratz

His street thug name is Joey-Ratz, and he wouldn't have the first clue about peace. Peace comes from Justice, Love, and Compassion for all human beings and other living creatures.

This is a man who has persistently declared war on all LGBT people, people of other faiths, people of no faith, women, and anyone else who doesn't fall in line with his twisted world view. He is a street thug with too much power and a funny hat.

What could he possibly know about peace? 



"The right most treasured by civilized men is the right to be let alone."--Justice Louis Brandeis

Isn't being a thug

a requirement for being head of the Holy Inquistion?

That man just looks like the epitome of the evil villian, very...Darth Sidious (Post-Mace Windu fight).



[ Parent ]
Quote:
Presenting the nuclear family as the "first and indispensable teacher of peace" and the "primary agency of peace," the 15-page document links sexual and medical ethics to international relations.

"Everything that serves to weaken the family based on the marriage of a man and woman, everything that directly or indirectly stands in the way of its openness to the responsible acceptance of new life ... constitutes an objective obstacle on the road to peace,"

Okay, then why doesn't he marry?  Doesn't he care about world peace?

And since folks have been marrying for millinnea and also killing and raping and since most killers and rapists were raised in families, he's wrong.

For an alleged intellectual, his assertion is "a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing."



Most families are the first teachers of war....
Just attend any large Thanksgiving or Christmas family dinner/ reunion!

[ Parent ]
Too many people...
...and not enough resources to go around is, I would say, the objective obstacle to peace, and has been throughout history.

"Our Liberties We Prize and Our Rights We Will Maintain" -- Iowa state motto

[ Parent ]
Furthermore

all my European gay friends state categorically that Nazinger is homosexual (I hesitate to use the word gay) and there are pictures of his boyfriend being passed around on e-mails.  I hope he gets outed by some radical, no bathroom indiscretion necessary.

This guy has for years, even while his equally despicable predecessor was in power and he was head of some preservation of the dogma office, interfered in American politics.  He told American bishops what to say about our political candidates who support choice and LGBT rights, and I'm sure he got Bush to appoint Opus Dei types to the Supreme Court in exchange for the % increase in the Catholic vote that went Republican in the recent elections.



Interesting

While I have not heard that, it would not surprise me. It seems all too many of the most vocal and visible homophobes are fighting and internal battle. They inevitably turn some of their self hatred outward to the gay community at large. I don't doubt that Daddy Dobson fights homosexual urges, and we know LaBarbera and Hartline are gay. Teddy Haggard, Larry Craig, Bob Allen, Mark Foey.......how many do I really need to name??

I know LOTS of straight people. I hang out with tons of straight men. Always have. Real straight guys are not homophobes for the most part. They are comfortable with their own sexuality, and don't waste time obsessing about someone else being gay. They also understand that I am a lesbian, and are totally OK with me as I am.

The people that are making an issue with it have something internal driving it. Sometimes it is a religious fanaticism. Other times it is self hatred due to their own sexual confusions. Sometimes, I'm sure it is a combination of the two, with other cultural factors. But the ones who just blow on and on. Those screwballs are closet cases. It would not surprise me if Joey-Ratz is just another Teddy Haggard in a goofy hat.



"The right most treasured by civilized men is the right to be let alone."--Justice Louis Brandeis

[ Parent ]
I think you are so...
   right on the mark. The more someone denies, the more they are in denial, and in the male dominated industry I worked in, they have been realizing this too. The sad part is that if someone takes up for you or likes you just for being you, that person is castigated for it and/or suspected of being gay themselves. This is how the male fraternity works, (mostly of whom I have worked with)that keeps destroying our support base for maintaining our jobs we perform so well. They're an evil lot. They will do hateful things behind your back promote others before you after transfering them or you, stating fabricated reasons. Then when challenged they will say your just angry you wern't promoted. The are an evil lot.

I'd rather be a lion for one day, than a sheep for my entire life.


[ Parent ]
It was all just a little too...convienent
he was head of some preservation of the dogma office

The Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, previously called The Holy Inquisition.

And he looks like he has headed the Inquisition since the Dark Ages...and he definitely wants to lead the Catholic Church back into the Dark Ages.

While JP II had room for improvement, he was much better than this heathen (with apologies to all the heathens out there)...plus I don't think JP was much more than a figurehead during his last several years as the Parkinson's took over. Compared to Ratzinger, JP was a progressive liberal.

Ratizinger was probably courting the curia for years and was nominal head of the RCC by the time of JP's death. His election seemed to come just a little too quickly (as I remember, even the Italian media seemed surprised). Since they knew JP was dying, I believe they had already pretty much determined the curial hierarchy. I certainly don't believe Ratzinger was hoping to "quietly retire" and he definitely isn't just "a simple, humble labourer in the vineyard of the Lord."



[ Parent ]
Mike Signorile and others protested him at an ACT-UP...
action at St. Patrick's in NYC ages ago (late 1980s, after R. as head inquisitor released a policy statements on LGBT as disordered persons).

[ Parent ]
Whatever

"Too many white gay men view black gay men through the prism of sexual desire based on racist typecasting, Mr. Glasgow said. "They want the hypersexual black male or the finger-snapping black diva," he said".

Whatever.  Keith Boykin said the same thing years ago.

There's just as many black men strictly into white men, as there are white men into black men (if it's a fetish or attraction, so what?).  Go onto any gay personals website and you'll find half of the black men's ads say "white men only", or "white & hispanic only".  

Sounds to me that HE's a bit racist.  



Hmmm... so in abusive households...

...peace is learned by dad slapping mom around, or vice-versa.

 

Now I understand the neocon "Peace through invading sovereign nations" concept. 






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Yep.

War is peace.

And a hard slap upside mom's head is the seed of world peace.



[ Parent ]
It's a good point

You know, I've often wondered why the nuclear family (mom, dad, kids) is hailed as the pinnacle of civilization. My family of origin is perhaps a classic example. Two severely alcoholic parents, one of which beat the living hell out of the children, while the other crawled inside a bottle and did nothing to stop it. One of them died indirectly from alcohol, the other committed suicide. The kids ended up all hating the parents, and hating one another. One of them committed suicide, the rest scattered to the four winds, never to speak to one another again. Yea.....really worked out well for this nice Catholic family. And yes, we attended mass every Sunday, like good Catholics are supposed to do. Lot of good it did. 

I guess in my eyes, two gay parents who love their children and treat them with respect and kindness is a FAR greater pillar for society to build on. A single mom who struggles like hell, but LOVES her children is a far greater pillar to build a society on. With love, good things happen, regardless of the gender of the parents, or their sexual orientation. Two gay people can parent just as well as anyone else, and a damn sight better than my straight parents ever dreamed of parenting.  



"The right most treasured by civilized men is the right to be let alone."--Justice Louis Brandeis

[ Parent ]
Another gem from the Pope
Love the title.  Fair and balanced, British-style.  

By the way, is Jodie Foster out-out or did she just peek out of the closet and everyone took it as an ok to write about it?  I can't find anything about the speech other than she thanked her partner.

My America includes LGBT families.


She didn't blurt out "I'm gay"

But I think she came out in a much classier (and calculated) way. Instead of a rather cold, impersonal announcement, she came out without a huge fanfare. Although it was a major concession on her part since she's obsessive about keeping her private life private, by simply thanking her "beautiful Cydney" for sticking by her through thick and thin, she made a much stronger statment.

She showed that her life with her spouse was no different than any other person's, straight or gay. She MADE herself equal, head held high, without getting on a soapbox.

I try to do the same thing. I don't announce it, but I don't hide that I'm married to another man. When I've been asked about my ring, I tell people I'm in a committed relationship. When they find out it's with another guy, there's usually a moment of silence before they say "That's great" then proceed to ask me about him in a whisper or ask questions in a round about way. It's really annoying, but I just let them work through their own discomfort by showing myself to be their equal.



[ Parent ]
Very true.
She does seem to always handle herself well, which may be why she is the only former child star who has won awards and is still working in the forefront of her profession.  She also was able to handle the Hinkley shooting with dignity, I would think that someone shooting a sitting president because they were inspired her character in a movie would have been quite a lot to deal with at such an early age.  
Please keep up with working through the discomfort of your coworkers!  You are right-the relationships are equal and no amount of bleating from The Peter, the presidunce, or everyone on Fox "news" can stop people who are actually talking to each other from discovering that they have a lot in common.  

My America includes LGBT families.

[ Parent ]
Speaking of race...

Jessica Hoffmann of the Bilerico Project points to a Human Rights Watch's report on the US Department of Homeland Security's treating of detainees with HIV/AIDS.

The HRW initiated their report after the death of Victoria Arellano -- the Latina transwoman with HIV who died in custody this past July.  She was being denied adequate medical care at the San Pedro, California immigration detention facility for men (since closed "for maintenance") where she was being held.  

She's one of the transgender dead listed here for this past Transgender Day Of Remembrance -- even the cleaned up description of her death is gruesome.

-----
~~Autumn~~

As if there were safety in stupidity alone.
--Henry David Thoreau


In a "two degrees of separation" thing...

...my Dad, Jack Sandeen, was one of the costumers on "Escape To Witch Mountain."  

That film starred then child actress Jodie Foster.  Chuck Keene was the listed as the male Costume and Wardrobe Supervisor in the credits -- Mr. Keene actually was the Wardrobe Department Head for Disney Studios when the film was made, while my Dad was the actual male Costume Supervisor on that film.

Btw, my Dad thought Jodie Foster was a great child actress.  :)

-----
~~Autumn~~

As if there were safety in stupidity alone.
--Henry David Thoreau


She's also one of the few...
that successfully transitioned from child star to adult star. Loved her in Contact (although the scenes from the VLA in New Mexico make me homesick...).

[ Parent ]
In Response to Benedict
I posted this reaction on my blog in response to this post... I wanted to share it with the rest of you.

There are so many ways to spell hate, so many ways to draw it on paper, in the sand.  There are so many ways to hear hate, through lyrics, bigotrous words, and jokes just above a whisper.  But to hate unconditionally through the guise of God is downright out.  Benedict is no different than Jerry Fallwell, Pat Robertson, Rod Parsley or even the self-hating homo/meth addict paster Ted Haggart.  If God hated me so much, then why did he create me?  He created me in his own image.  I have known no other sexuality other than the one I was given at birth.  I am a homosexual man, and a proud one at that, and I have always known who and how I was on the inside.  But now to insist that my will to marry the man that I want to spend the rest of my life with (figuratively since there are no prospects currently) is a threat to peace and love throughout the world...... it just weighs my heart so.  

Someone like me, who is so anti-drama, anti-hate, anti-violence, and who is very very pro-love, peace and harmony a cord has been struck within me.  I, even though my life's goal is peace, AM a threat to peace.  How is that?  Your Holiness, I believe you have it wrong.  Those whom are a threat to peace, are the one's whose actions ARE violent, that ARE anti-love, and SHOW no peace, and SHOW no harmony.  Actions speak louder sir.


Your Response nicer than mine,
  I am with you that the pope and his followers are a mean spirited bunch, as their actions speak loudly.  

 I have never had any respect for the RCC and their clan.  I have never met one that didn't think they were better than everyone else.  Our neighbors when I grew up were catholics.  And they were snobs.  Thier oldest son got a girl pregnant when he was 15, she was 14, and off to the abortion clinic they went.  All was kept hush hush so they could save face, the truth didn't come out til 4 years later.

 I have yet to meet a catholic that didn't act the same way as them. They all act as if they are superior to everybody else.  So my reply to the pope is F*** You!

 

If I make sense? it was quite by accident.


[ Parent ]
Well !
   I don't hardly think they out do the First Baptists of our great christian south in that regard.  

I'd rather be a lion for one day, than a sheep for my entire life.


[ Parent ]
Pope Poop

Pope Poop

For now, we'll ignore the fact that Pope Benedict previously lead the office of the inquisition and is a very disturbed person who claims to change grape juice and crackers into god. Let's also set aside the fact that a celibate cultist who worships a dead jew on a stick shouldn't be talking about marriage.

He represents an organisation that has killed more people than George Bush and nearly destroyed the scientific and cultural legacy of western civilization but I want to ask just one simple question; If marriage is so fragile that it can be destroyed by a couple of queers, then why should it be saved?

Even better: Through what mechanism does Carol and Alice getting hitched threaten something? Is it the crackers and grape juice magic thing? I really would like to understand this.

He must have had very unusual parents claiming that the family is the "first and indispensable teacher of peace" My experience is that having one man and one woman heading a household was at times more like boot camp or Porkchop Hill than a "Community of Peace."

Equating nuclear weapons with birth control as threats to civilization is sick. A woman having an abortion is not the same as hunger, poverty or damage to the environment. Sorry.

I guess the real question is: why does anyone listen to this clown?

 

http://squarepegz.blogspot.com/2007/12/pope-poop.html 



When boys kiss...
...kittens die!  It's true!

"Our Liberties We Prize and Our Rights We Will Maintain" -- Iowa state motto

Do you watch Torchwood?
Boys kissing in the second to the last episode would make anyone, including kittens, cry.  Especially if they had recently watched the Ken Burns WWII shows.

My America includes LGBT families.

[ Parent ]
I'm not familiar with Torchwood
..which makes it hard for me to appreciate your comment.  It sounds like I must be missing out on something though.  :-)

"Our Liberties We Prize and Our Rights We Will Maintain" -- Iowa state motto

[ Parent ]
That's iffy.
It has its good and its bad points.  It's on BBC America, the first season has ended but they are rerunning it.  It stars John Barrowman whose character is supposed to be bisexual but in real life he's gay.  What I'm liking about it is that he is in no way goofy or used for comedy.  His character is simply a flawed hero, as most of the characters on that show are.  It's refreshing.  
Here's the kiss scene, I don't think that without knowing the back story anyone would understand what all the emotions behind it were but trust me, it's sad.  I just don't want to post spoilers just in case anyone has missed it or has just started watching it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v...

My America includes LGBT families.

[ Parent ]
Pope Says Abortion, Gay Marriage Are 'Obstacles' to World Peace
Presenting the nuclear family as the "first and indispensable teacher of peace" and the "primary agency of peace," the 15-page document links sexual and medical ethics to international relations.

Speaking of "ethics" linked to international relations:
U.S. Says Pope Immune From Molestation Lawsuit

ROME -  The U.S. Justice Department has told a Texas court that a lawsuit accusing Pope Benedict XVI of conspiring to cover up the sexual molestation of three boys by a seminarian should be dismissed because the pontiff enjoys immunity as head of state of the Holy See.


So would conspiring to protect a child rapist be considered sexually, or medically "ethical?"

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