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"a leading source of radical homosexual propaganda, anti-Christian bigotry, and radical transgender advocacy."

He is "praying that Pam Spaulding will "turn away from her wicked and sinful promotion of homosexual behavior." (CCLM's web site, 10/15/07)


Ex-gay "Christian" activist James Hartline on Pam:
"I have been mocked over and over again by ungodly and unprincipled anti-christian lesbians."
(from "Six Years In Sodom: From The Journal Of James Hartline," 9/4/2006, written from the "homosexual stronghold" of Hillcrest in San Diego).

"Pam is a 'twisted lesbian sister' and an 'embittered lesbian' of the 'self-imposed gutteral experiences of the gay ghetto.'" -- 9/5/2008



Peter LaBarbera of Americans for Truth Against Homosexuality heartily endorses the Blend, calling Pam:

A "vicious anti-Christian lesbian activist."
(Concerned Women for America's radio show [9:15], 1/25/07)

"A nutty lesbian blogger."
(MassResistance radio show [16:25], 2/3/07)


Pam's House Blend always seems to find these sick f*cks. The area of the country she is in? The home state of her wife? I know, they are everywhere. Pam just does such a great job of bringing them out into the light.
--Impeach Bush


who monitors yours Bevis ?? Just thought I would drop you a line,so the rest of your life is not wasted.
--"Joe"

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Blogmistress on the mend: thanks, everyone

by: Pam Spaulding

Mon Dec 31, 2007 at 11:11:51 AM EST


I've been online for about a total of 10 minutes since my gall bladder surgery (Cholecystectomy) last Thursday. I'm doing as well as can be expected -- very sore, sometimes nauseous, very sleepy because of pain meds, etc. -- but looking forward to feeling better in a little while. For once, I'm actually staying in bed like I'm supposed to, and getting up and walking as required, rather than doing something insane like getting in the car and driving because I'm stir crazy.

I am slowly but surely healing, I wanted to thank all of you who sent me emails of support and advice, tips in the tip jar and well-wishes in Facebook before and after the surgery. I was really shocked on Saturday when a package arrived from Mike Rogers of BlogActive and PageOneQ. He apparently put out a call to folks on a couple of listservs I'm on, and they signed onto a sweet get well card and gift. Kate can testify that I was genuinely touched and shocked that folks out there cared enough to do that -- after all, I just bloviate across your screens each day, I'm not saving the world or anything.

Thank you, Blender contributors and diarists, for posting during the holidays.

OK. Do you want to see the gall bladder? Of course you do. For the squeamish, I took the liberty of placing the pic (and the description of surgery) below the fold...

Pam Spaulding :: Blogmistress on the mend: thanks, everyone
So, as I did with my kidney stone diaries, I'm putting down my recollections. Not that they're all that interesting to folks out there, but I just do these things to entertain myself. Here's an appealing shot of the gall bladder being removed:

So, my surgeon filled my abdomen with gas (CO2), in order to insert the tools used to see and remove the GB.

*  General anesthesia is utilized, so the patient is asleep throughout the procedure.
   * An incision that is approximately half an inch is made around the umbilicus ( belly button), three other quarter to half inch incisions are made for a total of four incisions. Four narrow tubes called laparoscopic ports are placed through the tiny incisions for the laparoscopic camera and instruments.
   * A laparoscope (which is a long thin round instrument with a video lens at its tip) is inserted through the belly button port and connected to a special camera. The laparoscope provides the surgeon with a magnified view of the patient's internal organs on a television screen.
   * Long specially designed instruments are inserted through the other three ports that allow your surgeon to delicately separate the gallbladder from its attachments to the liver and the bile duct and then remove it through one of the ports from the abdomen.
   * Your surgeon may occasionally perform an X-ray, called a cholangiogram, to exam for stones in the bile duct.
   * After the gallbladder is removed from the abdomen then the small incisions are closed
The gall bladder was twisted around the liver and the surgeon had a tough time pulling  it out and it was polluted with sludge and stones (nice!). All my incisions were glued shut, no stitches. I wasn't cleared to shower until Saturday, and even then, I can't scrub those areas for a while.

***

After surgery, I was pretty much out of it when they wheeled me to the post-op room where I stayed and was monitored overnight. I had some difficulty keeping my oxygen levels up and staying hydrated, so I was on oxygen and fluids by IV most of the time. That wasn't a surprise to me since the last time I had minor drive-through surgery (that involved general anesthesia)  I ended up back in the ER for those two specific problems; it's why I insisted on staying overnight after this surgery.

Every four hours or so, the nurse came in to check my vitals and to help me get up to go to the bathroom. THAT was an ordeal. Getting out of the bed, even on morphine and whatever else they were pumping into me, hurt like hell. I had visions of Alien with the beast bursting out of my abdomen, tearing me open and making that ghastly sound. Alas, no alien came out of my bloated belly. The gas they inflated me with to scope around has to dissipate on its own, so I looked pregnant from the swelling. Oh, and getting back in the bed was even worse. The nurse had lowered the bed flat and when I laid down, it was like someone stretched my abs and jumped on them. Fun fun fun!

Needless to say, more pain meds were shot into the IV, and I passed out. By the morning, I was exhausted from being awakened so often and those excruciating trips to the bathroom. I was thankful, though, for the fine care by the nurses there, and for their equally fine care shown to Kate, who stayed in the room with me all night on a recliner next to the bed.

I managed to eat a few packs of saltines and drink Sprite Zero without nausea at various points during the stay, but I really didn't want anything more. Around 9:30 AM, Kate helped me get dressed and they wheeled me out to the parking deck and I folded myself into the Subaru  with a pillow strapped to my abdomen, and we went home.

Once home, we had the bed all ready with extra pillows to prop me up, and I went to sleep, and started the ritual of sleeping, getting up and taking my temp, blood sugar levels, eating a small snack in order to take meds, drinking fluids and back to bed every 4 hours or so. In the evening on Friday I got incredibly cold, as in my teeth were actually chattering and my body was shaking. I took my temp and it was 101.8. I took a bunch of Tylenol and went to bed, Kate covered me with 3 double folded blankets. Eventually it went down (between 100-101) before it finally returned to normal sometime on Saturday. Thankfully that hasn't happened again.

On Sunday, things were uneventful; I continued my ritual, adding graham crackers with light cream cheese, along with some applesauce for breakfast. So far nothing has made me feel like hurling, a common issue post-surgery. I do still feel bloated and a bit dehydrated despite a large fluid intake, and thankfully, the pain meds have not, so far, caused the nasty side effect of my digestive system slowing down.

Pain level: well, I'm always testing myself on that front, so if I go without meds for 6 hours or so, it's about a 7 out of 10 (10 being kidney stone-level pain). With pain meds about a 3-4. I expect that to get better in a couple of days; and I'm going to just try going with Tylenol during the day and the hard stuff at night so I can sleep. Let's put it this way -- it took quite a while for me to type this entry up.

I'm slated for my follow up visit with the surgeon on January 8th to check on the incisions, and at that time she'll clear me to drive if all looks good.

As far as blogging goes, I'm probably going to steer clear for a few more days or else I know I'll get myself into trouble, staying up all night padding away while not particularly lucid, leading to some entertaining but embarrassing posts. I just wanted to blog this to let folks know that I'm ok, and that I'm glad to be back, even if a bit sliced and diced. At least the nasty GB is gone. 2008 will definitely be better than 2007!

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The picture wasn't so bad...

but reading all of this was painful enough!!  So glad "everything came out" OK and hopefully we'll have a few slow news days ahead of us so you won't feel compelled to blog!!

We shall see.  Take care of yourself!  And BIG HUGS to Kate as well.



Welcome Home!

I'm glad to hear that everything came out OK (pun intended).  Sending cyber hugs you way.  I hope that you have an ultra fast recovery!

"I'll get myself into trouble, staying up all night padding away while not particularly lucid, leading to some entertaining but embarrassing posts.
 

 But those are the kinds of post we love best!



Good news!
I'm so glad you're home and doing (reasonably) well.  Take good care of yourself -- and don't skimp on the pain meds!  My best to Kate.

"If the apocalypse comes... beep me." -- Buffy Summers

Welcome Back!

Oh Pam...

I recently passed some kidney stones myself - in two rounds. I was out of commission almost completely for about 2 weeks of excruciating pain. So when you made the pain scale analogy (10 = Kidney Stones) I could totally relate. Some say only childbirth is worse, but it doesn't last for days on end.

A couple of years ago, my sister had the same operation that you just had. Since then, she needs to watch what she eats because her body can not properly process some foods without the gallblatter. Is it fats or starches, what, I don't remember.

Well. Welcome back anyway. I hope you're feeling better and have a great new year.



Foods you'll have trouble with
I just spoke with my sister who had her gallblatter removed. She says she has trouble with fats So beware of the excess butter... and, for some reason,  you will nwver enjoy lettuce again.  

[ Parent ]
Just in time for the New Year!
Welcome back Pam!  We missed you!  Gentle Hugs (borrowed from Holly), and I'm snapping my fingers for you!

Get some rest!


There's no place like home...
And here's to a healthier and happy 2008 for you and Kate.  Big gentle hug from me too!

My America includes LGBT families.

best wishes from brooklyn

hey pam - get well soon, but remember that pain meds are your friends.  americans are generally too treatment averse where pain is concerned.

 

happy and healthy new year too! 



"Good News Everyone" ...

Pam is healing!

Please continue getting better!

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~~Autumn~~

As if there were safety in stupidity alone.
--Henry David Thoreau


Pam, I'm so glad that you're on the mend!
and also that you're taking it easy.  my shoulder surgery went well. it is a slow & painful recovery, but recovery is happening.  i have little patience for 1-handed typing tho! :)  here's to a strong and healthy '08 for all!  and here's to loving spouses and friends that see us through!

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It's so great
to come to the blend and see that you're well enough to post and to learn that you're getting the rest you need.  Hope you recoup quickly!

Electricity's for light bulbs!

Get well soon

Get well soon Pam! And get plenty of rest. The internet addiction might be pulling you strong... RESIST! RESIST!

Ah hell... I'd never listen to my own advice on that. Who am I to say anything? lol jk

Take care; you're in my thoughts.



"Without progress the world stays static and when the world stays static, the wrongs of the past live on to the present." Notes on a culture in progress Nov. 14 2006

Be well!
Secular blessings on you and your newly resected abdomen!

Yay for Pam -gall bladder!
Now you'll be able to eat real food again! Glad you're okay, and best wishes for a speedy recovery.

went out today for first time
I went out today for the first time since surgery, just for a short bit, and walking for longer than 50-75 yards was surprisingly tiring, as in I was having a rough time breathing in/taking in air because of how the surgery affected my diaphragm — the two incisions at the navel and breastbone. And it's uncomfortable to wear even loose, elastic waist pants right now. Sigh. I came home and slept some more.

Way to go Pam!
Glad you are recovering with only minor problems. It's good to see you on the blog. We love you.  

Welcome back!

I missed my favorite Blogmistress! 

I didn't get morphine.  I think the good Franciscan Sisters had a sadistic streak.  The nurse came in and told me all the gorey deatails of her surgery (non-laproscopic) at 2 a.m. - just what I wanted to hear before she gave me my Demerol.  I got to eat whatever I wanted (but I didn't want anything).

One thing:  I had a hematoma (sp?) which started out the size of a nickel on my abdomen.  Three days later, it was from the right nipple to the right knee (completely black - and everything - I mean everything! - in between).  It freaked me out.

 



Medicine has improved

In 1980, I had my gallbladder out. Just keep clear of fatty foods if you want to avoid many trips to the bathroom, Pam.

I find having a small bit of fatty food - a teaspoon of icecream, or even a slice of bread with butter or margerine on - before a meal gets the bile production going.

You don't store it any more, so all you have is what the liver produces.

I had 32 staples , and an incision from breastbone to below the navel. I'm glad things are better now. Even then, that kind of incision wasn't normal. That kind of thing happened to Intersexed people though, bits got cut out and we weren't  told about it. The records are lost too.


I was discharged and walked out of the ward carrying my suitcases a week later. That was par for the course in those days too. They're more civilised now, thank goodness.

 



There is no situation so complex it can't get even worse

Only problem I have

Is a lot of greasy food (like Wendy's or Chinese) on an empty stomach.  About an hour later, I'm doing the 50 yard dash.  Eggs don't bother me, but my mom and another friend can't touch them.  Everyone's digestive system is a little different.  You need to learn what bothers you and when it's going to bother you.

The one thing I still can't look at is beef stroganoff.  It's what triggered the first gall bladder attack, and to this day the sight of it makes me quesy.



[ Parent ]
Hope you feel better soon

I know you'll be up in no time. A friend of mine had it done and a week later we had her out and full of fajitas and margs.

Take it easy on the belly laughs, they can sting a bit



I hate to advocate drugs, alcohol, violence, or insanity to anyone, but they've always worked for me. Hunter S.

Lost a few pounds ?
Congrats.  If the drawings are correct, the great thing about surgery is means about 30 pounds lost.  Love the new brown locks.

believe it or not
Not enough to look like the avatar (that's the Yahoo Plus Size avatar, btw -- how sick is that; the "regular" one is skeletal), but I've lost about 10 lbs since the operation.

[ Parent ]
sounds like everyone
who's anyone has had their gallbladder out! Thank goodness that I seem to be in the "in" crowd! Had mine out 4 years ago and two drug OD's while in the hospital. Damn - I should have sued.  

Just joined the group!
Hello Pam, just joined the group, and see that you're on the mend...had that surgery a couple of years ago. Unbelievable how such small holes they make can hurt so much for so long! Your surgery seemed much more involved. I hope you are back posting soon. This is a great place to hang out. I have a tech question...I just set up my profile page and can't get my email or home page (blog page) to show up right. I'm on a mac and lots of times that seems to be a problem browser-wise.
Here's what I'm trying to get on the page.

homepage: http://thehostess.wordpress.com/

email: outskirt.hostess@gmail.com

Thanks for the help...


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