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Back to reality - blogmistress this and that

by: Pam Spaulding

Sun Apr 13, 2008 at 21:00:00 PM EDT


Kate and I returned from a quick getaway to the mountains, away from the internets, politics and anything blog-related. Many thanks to PHB contributors and guest posters who kept the coffee and tea flowing. I haven't even caught up with all of my reading; I'm just going through the very-full inbox while in between loads of laundry.

Some tidbits and observations...

* Commercial Prada Papa Ratzi. Pope Benedict arrives in the U.S. on Tuesday. I suppose he's going to do his usual anti-reproductive freedom blasts and gay-bashing, and tell Americans about how sick our consumer culture is. Oh wait, scratch that last one lest I accuse Papa Ratzi of being a hypocrite -- "souvenirs" of his trip are flying off the shelves and some proceeds are going to the church.

Would you like to visit the Archdiocese of Washington's PopeVisit2008.com? On sale: $18 T-shirts ("Property of Pope Benedict XVI"), $2.50 bumper stickers, as well as a T-shirt for Build-a-Bear toys that has a Christ Our Hope logo ($6). Other non-licensed items include: Pope on a Rope soap for $9.99; Pope's Cologne for $25.95; Pope Benedict bobblehead for $12.95.

* The whole Obama "bitter" brouhaha. I mistakenly turned on CNN while away, and there the news bleaters were, talking about this proto-scandal of Obama using the term bitter to describe blue collar voters disillusioned by the turn of the economic tide against them, as finding solace in clinging "to guns or religion or antipathy to people who aren't like them...."

As this was breathlessly reported on at least twice while I had the TV on, I turned to Kate and said -- "is there nothing else to report?" and flipped it off. I was serious -- aside from the predictable reaction that he is being elitist or out of touch, no one with any credibility can say that what Obama said wasn't true. It appears to me, as I was not willing to watch any more news over the weekend while away, that the issue was less about the word "bitter" than Obama's politically blunt truth-telling.

More below the fold...

Pam Spaulding :: Back to reality - blogmistress this and that
For instance, did any reporters do any digging to see whether incidents of hate crimes, discrimination and such increases in these blue-collar towns when joblessness rises? Is there a correlation between economic discomfort and a lashing out at the "other?"  I'm pretty sure this is likely, and I'm sure that Obama was making an observation many do about these situations. His real "crime" -- one not articulated in the reporting I saw -- was the fact that he was calling out the low-information voter demographic, those who are swayed by emotional appeals to the base biases and instincts by Republicans (and of late the Clinton campaign).

Oh, by the way, does Hillary have a problem with Bill's even more blunt statement in 1991:

"You know, he [Bush] wants to divide us over race. I'm from the South. I understand this. This quota deal they're gonna pull in the next election is the same old scam they've been pulling on us for decade after decade after decade. When their economic policies fail, when the country's coming apart rather than coming together, what do they do? They find the most economically insecure white men and scare the living daylights out of them. They know if they can keep us looking at each other across a racial divide, if I can look at Bobby Rush and think, Bobby wants my job, my promotion, then neither of us can look at George Bush and say, 'What happened to everybody's job? What happened to everybody's income? What ... have ... you ... done ... to ... our ... country?'"
Again, she opens the door to race-baiting, without even a hint at any deeper analysis of why blue-collar, economically disenfranchised  white voters might drift toward racial animus and xenophobia as a response?

But back to the present day...what Obama could have done as a PR move (and perhaps he's done it already), is to point the blame for the economic woes on the GOP, which shipped a ton of those blue-collar jobs overseas, and left industrial states to pick up the pieces. Or the foot-dragging Congress, and this President, ready to concoct ways to bail out financial institutions from bad business decision and send out meaningless rebate checks rather than consider extending unemployment benefits.

Of course the GOP is masterful at avoiding blame for the mess that they created and this sense of bitterness/disillusionment in lunch-bucket America. Clinton was happy to capitalize on that because, at this point, she has a lock on the "fear of the black man" vote. No one wants to say that, but that's the bottom line.

* Obama coming to Raleigh on Thursday for a town hall. Just received the 411 on this, and would really like to cover the event for PHB. Trying to see how I can snare press credentials for the event. If there are Obama staffers reading - help a local LGBT citizen blogger out! The Obama HQ in Raleigh registered 1,000 on Friday alone, so the town hall will be packed.

* Energized politics around the state: interestingly, as we drove westward along I-40 in NC on Friday, Kate and I were checking the candidate signs along the way. Saw a few Hillary signs, a ton of Obama bumper stickers (they were everywhere in Asheville), and quite a few Jim Neal signs. No Kay Hagan signs to speak of.

* Speaking of Jim Neal, some news from over the weekend.
- Kay Hagan refuses to appear at a TV debate in Durham on WTVD. Now you'd think that in a race where you've outspent your opponent (Neal) by a boatload and you are still tied at 20%, that you'd want to reach as many undecided voters by going on television to introduce yourself to them and show how you'd be a better senator than Elizabeth Dole (The current poll). Then again, I made the incorrect assumption that she would answer how she would vote on specific legislation that she would face if elected. Big mistake.

- And Howie Klein of Down With Tyranny had this to say:

So far Jim has been holding his own in polls-- and even beat the Republican-lite Hagan in a straw poll, 54-46%. And he beat her in one of the most conservative districts in the state, the 10th CD, home of the diminutive neo-fascist congressman and betrayer of military secrets, Patrick McHenry.

...Jim has asked Hagen to debate from the instant she was lured by Schumer into the race. But the DSCC is advising her that she will lose the primary in a landslide if TV viewers see trying to debate him. Schumer is frantic to keep the race as undercover as he can so that he doesn't wind up with another embarrassment when he attempted to slip a Republican-lite Democrat into the Montana Senate in 2006, only to be rebuffed and made to look like a fool and a tool. Jim's campaign claims Hagen's spinning of why she is afraid to debate isn't fooling anyone. "Hagan wants to buy this election with TV ads and avoid a real discussion."

Senator Hagan's campaign strategy is to raise more money, avoid legitimate debate and blanket the airwaves with television ads. It is typical Washington politics-as-usual and it amounts to selling our elections to the highest bidder.

   Senator Hagan's cynical and disingenuous refusal to debate flies in the face of her claim to be a candidate of change.

   Political candidates and elected officials are supposed to answer questions from, not dictate terms to, an independent news media. We've had enough of the latter from the Bush Administration.

Progressives who would like to help Jim Neal challenge the Big Money Insiders of both political Establishments can donate directly to his campaign through our Blue America ActBlue page.
- Jim Neal, showing the power of grassroots campaigning, won North Carolina's 10th Congressional District Straw Poll  on Saturday 53% to Hagan's 47%. (Other results in the Straw Poll: Obama 54, Clinton 43; Gov - Perdue 53%, Moore 47%; Lt. Gov: Smathers 38%, Besse 27%, Dalton 24%. Dellinger 10%).

- There's a great diary by Robert P. on DKos, NC Sen: It's Lieberman vs. Lamont, Part I.

* EqualityNC PAC endorsements. The endorsements of our local LGBT advocacy org are interesting. Richard Moore  earned the thumbs up for

[H]is adoption of a non-discrimination policy including sexual orientation for the Department of State Treasurer as evidence of his support for equal rights. "Treasurer Moore has demonstrated leadership in standing up for fairness in state government and is committed to fighting discrimination as Governor," said Ian Palmquist, the group's Executive Director. "We are proud to support his campaign."
What's interesting about the rest of the slate is where there are NOT endorsements (and I have no inside dope as to why) -- nothing for Lt. Governor, where there are four candidates in the running -- Canton Mayor Pat Smathers, Raleigh attorney Hampton Dellinger,  state Sen. Walter Dalton, and Winston-Salem City Councilman Dan Besse, who jumped at the chance to be profiled on the Blend.  Since ENC only endorses state candidates, not federal, that's why there's no endorsement of either Kay Hagan or Jim Neal.
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Pope on a Rope soap for $9.99
Why did that jump out at me? Oh yes, I'm a sick puppy. My bad.

Your bad?
Heck, I was waiting for either Papal Swiss Cheese or Donuts, so we could joke about "His Holiness"...

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Back in college
Catholic friends used to sing this ditty about Paul VI:

Giovanni Battista Montini
He lives in the Vaticanini
He don't even have to use dope
He's Giovanni Montini the Pope

"In order to maintain an untenable position, you have to be actively ignorant."  The Colbert Report


[ Parent ]
As you're coming back to reality...
You really should go check out Peter's latest entry about how much he hates vaginas.

:)

http://breakthterror.blogspot.com


He's diversifying!
I LOVE it!!!

[ Parent ]
I read it
So typical of the anti-feminist Christian Right. They hate anything to do with anyone's sense of pride and equality. They need fear and hatred to function. Margaret Cho is right, were Jesus to come back he would turn to the fundies and scream "That isn't what I meant!"

I tell you Chica that no greater abomination exists than women denying their spirit of sisterhood and instead becoming the oppressor. -Rebeca, Universidad Complutense de Madrid

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LOL
Just read it.

How hysterical he is!  The Peter accuses Ensler of sexualizing a 6 year old girl when the questions she asked have nothing even remotely sexual in their content or overtone.  HE added that sexual connotation in his reading (which I think is the sign of a sick mind).  When I read the small excerpt posted on AFTAH, all I could think was "if I had been allowed to be so comfortable with discussing and referring to my vagina, rather than thinking of it as some part of me only to be dealt with with disdain, I would have had a lot less emotional baggage to throw off when I became an adult."

It appears that for The Peter, genitals have no other use than that of an erotic nature.  For him, one can't possibly be comfortable with just the existence of one's genitals, much less discuss them with anyone in a non-sexual way.

I just glad The Peter isn't a gynecologist!

What a moron!

"To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best day and night to make you like everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight and never stop fighting." -E.E. Cummings


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words from my mouth
i was going to say something to the effect of "doesn't it seem sick that in Peter's mind, genitals are shameful?"

and...isn't part of the idea of the play to reclaim the vagina as a beautiful natural part of one's OWN body?

(i mean, i'm thinking myself into foreign territory, since i neither have one, nor am i desirous of vaginal exploration myself...)

grin

but while we're talking about penises, there were, of course, things about my upbringing that caused me to feel shame as an adolescent/young adult, but my parents decidedly did NOT teach us to be ashamed of our naked bodies.


http://breakthterror.blogspot.com


[ Parent ]
What is wrong with these people?
I remember one of my Mom's anecdotes being about when I had come from showering with my Dad and asking, "Mom why does Dad have feathers there and I don't".

Are these people terrified of their own bodies?


[ Parent ]
I think..
...people are getting even more and more terrified of their bodies as time goes on.

I'm wondering if this terror comes from people like The Peter who oversexualize things or if aspects of our culture are causing people like the Peter to oversexualize things and therefore be adverse to any meaningful discussion of our natural bodies -- particularly with curious children.  Sort of a chicken and egg thing.

I was never actually taught to feel shame from my parents at all, but there's something about not talking about things that brings its own shame.  For instance, not discussing your gay child's sexuality with them is almost tacit shame about their sexuality.  Same with genitals.  If you're not allowed to refer to them (except by cute names that distance them from their actual functions and form), are poo-pooed about asking real questions about them (why does my vagina look like it does...), or are almost encouraged to just plain forget it exists, then you get to feel a certain shame about it.

"To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best day and night to make you like everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight and never stop fighting." -E.E. Cummings


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two anecdotes...
1.  when my mom was a little girl, she was absolutely INTENT that when she grew up, she "was going to get herself one of those handy little gadgets" her Dad had, because peeing was obviously easier if you had one.

2.  when i was younger, i obviously was a bit curious about the fact that my parents had pubic hair, and i didn't, and she explained that, well, you get that when you get older, and some people don't get that much, but others get a LOT, and for instance, "Mommy doesn't have a lot, but Aunt Barbara has a LOT of pubic hair!"

i'm terrified of Aunt Barbara to this day.

(because she's an insane fundamentalist, not because of the pubes.)

http://breakthterror.blogspot.com


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ROFL!


"To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best day and night to make you like everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight and never stop fighting." -E.E. Cummings

[ Parent ]
you know...
I think I'm a little scared of your Aunt Barbara, too.  :=)

[ Parent ]
also...
she's a math teacher and orthodontist's wife.

with major pubes.

http://breakthterror.blogspot.com


[ Parent ]
Sorry to double-post
But I wish to add that The Peter makes a lot of assumptions.  In re-reading the press release he makes it seem as if Ensler went up to some 6-year-old randomly in a park and started asking her these questions.  I can't imagine ANY reasonable adult doing something like this to any child.

More than likely, the child Ensler asked was probably a relative or at the most a friend's child and the parents gave full consent.

Anything else would be irresponsible and, as The Peter concludes in his rant, would immediately be interpreted as some sort of sexual advance and Ensler would be in jail.

"To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best day and night to make you like everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight and never stop fighting." -E.E. Cummings


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the child
was most likely someone Ensler knew well.

i'm trying to work through how this could be harmful to the child...

"when i was little, i said my vagina smelt of newfallen snowflakes, and thus my issues with...snow melting?"

i mean, what is it, Peter?


http://breakthterror.blogspot.com


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:) Can't find the soap on a rope on the site.
I was going to buy one to hang up in my bar.

me neither
I guess it is an unofficial product for which the Catholic bishops haven't given their blessing.
http://www.star-telegram.com/n...

Fun fact from the official site Pam mentioned:
The Pope is a helicopter pilot and regularly flies one between the Vatican and his summer home, Castel Gandolfo.  But he doesn't know how to drive a car.

Okay, not as fun as Pope on a Rope. I need to find that!

If you want allies, you have to be an ally.


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Pope's Cologne for $25.95
Is that for guys who date nine year old boys?

[ Parent ]
I sure wouldn't want to find that..
in my pizza. Fr. Guido does not want.

New evidence emerges that Obama is a Vulcan!
Can certainly do with some logic over there.


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Are you confusing teleprompter readers with journalists?
did any reporters do any digging to see whether incidents of hate crimes, discrimination and such increases in these blue-collar towns when joblessness rises? Is there a correlation between economic discomfort and a lashing out at the "other?"  I'm pretty sure this is likely

That's the best overlooked point I've heard. The media reported how lightning fast the GOP press release went out everywhere, then breathlessly reported every tit for tat afterwards, but not a one did actual research to see where hate crimes went up or whether voting patterns changed in economically distressed regions, even though the historical shift in voting after the Civil Rights bills passed is already  common knowledge.

After the press release went out, McCain let a flunky and Clinton carry the ball while he stayed out of the fray. And the media left him alone on it, while showing us every burp, whistle, fart and whiskey-shot-downing of Clinton demonstrating that rural voters aren't bitter and manipulated, they're God-loving gun-toting drunks!

I'm no Hillary-hater, but on this one, she carried McCain's water and played a perfect caricature of a pandering pol to the hilt. And the press - as you so eloquently noted - set the controls on autopilot, content to display the circus devoid of the yellowphant dung that surrounded it all.


teleprompter readers
After all, the teleprompter readers are reading what "news" is gathered by the "reporters" and the infamous "political analysts." I still have yet to see anything raised about the abovementioned observation of mine. Man, the MSM covers things a mile wide and an inch deep.  

[ Parent ]
telepromptly
An op-ed in yesterday's NY Times (http://www.nytimes.com/2008/04/13/opinion/13kristof.html), on the potential political and social fallout to global warming, noted that "some historians have found correlations between recessions or declines in farm values and increased lynchings of blacks."  He doesn't give a source for this, but it seems prima facie plausible and extendable to more recent circumstances.  (The majority of the article is about different cultures and wouldn't map as easily onto the situation in the States.)  

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"Property of Pope Benedict XVI"
That is very, very chilling, especially given his own involvement in the Hitler Youth.

Plus ça change, plus c'est la même merde.

Pam, you are so right, and it's very sad
My spouse and I have been talking about this for years to our geeat dismay.  We see so-called journalists do interviews on TV where the most outrageously false statements are made and they go unchallenged.  We see pundit panels natter on and on about minutiae at the behest of their hard-driving, egomaniac hosts (think Chris Matthews) or simply to create a circus atmosphere (think David Gregory) and it's all heat and no light.  This goes on and on and the campaigns are constantly discussed at the most superficial level: either in terms of a horse race (who's ahead, who's behind); gambling (is the risk too great to do XY or Z); or sports.  It is sickening.  They mostly talk off the top of their heads, either quoting spin points from one source or another, or spar with each other in a dim battle of wits.  Instead of informing, they entertain, or think they do.  You asked them to do digging, Pam?  They don't even Google--they make basic mistakes and false assumptions that anyone could check (and believe me, I've done so and written umpteen emails and letters to various reporters on TV). Everything is seen in terms of political gains or losses, everyone is considered venal most of the time.  That's why I was shocked to see how gobsmacked Chris Matthews can look when speaking to or about Obama.  It's as if someone has stepped outside his convenient categories.  For a moment, anyway.  

"In order to maintain an untenable position, you have to be actively ignorant."  The Colbert Report

I lost
what scant respect I had for David Gregory when I saw him in the back-up group for Karl Rove's "rapping."  Gregory, along with most of the news establishment at NBC, is so obviously a shill for Bush.  Chet Huntley's ghost should haunt them all.

Cynic, n.  A blackguard whose faulty vision sees things as they are, not as they ought to be.  
-Bierce, The Devil's Dictionary


[ Parent ]
Oh, to be standing directly behind Rove...
and not kick him in the ass??? What a wasted opportunity- worth every second in the clink.

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