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Q of the day: NC Dems party like its 2004

by: Pam Spaulding

Mon May 12, 2008 at 07:00:00 AM EDT


It's been an interesting and enlightening last few days over at BlueNC since the state primary on the 6th. As you know, Dem U.S. Senate candidate Jim Neal was defeated by Kay Hagan, and the latter will face off against Liddy Dole in the fall.  Incidentally, post-primary polls have Hagan at 48%, Dole at 47%. Do-Nothing Dole has a war chest that dwarfs Hagan's, so Liddy will be able to carpet-bomb the airwaves with ads.

Anyway, the post-mortems over at BlueNC have included "thank you" posts by nearly every candidate who has participated in liveblog sessions over there during this cycle, and the one for Kay Hagan took a bizarre, contentious turn when the subject of those now-infamous questions I asked of the state senator during her liveblog came up.

More below the fold, including an important Q of the day that I hope generates a lot of discussion and feedback I can take back to the folks at BlueNC.  

Pam Spaulding :: Q of the day: NC Dems party like its 2004
For a refresher, here are the questions I asked of Kay Hagan during the April liveblog:
First, thank you Senator Hagan for participating in this liveblog.

Senator Dole has not supported any legislation before her that would extend civil rights to LGBT citizens. What are your positions on matters under consideration in the U.S. Senate that will profoundly affect gay and lesbian taxpaying citizens here in NC. Below is legislation already introduced or about to be introduced that you would cast a vote on during your term if elected.

1. Federal hate crimes legislation. Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act (H.R. 1592 / S. 1105).

2. Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA). One version has already passed the House. It would prohibit discrimination against employees on the basis of sexual orientation. Gender identity is included in the other version of the bill.

3. "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" repeal, which would allow gays and lesbians to serve openly in the military. This has been introduced in the House and will likely be introduced in the Senate.

4. The Uniting American Families Act (H.R. 2221, S. 1328), that would enable an American citizen to petition for immigration sponsorship for a same-sex partner, and the INS would treat the relationships between opposite and same-sex couples in the same manner under the immigration code.

***

LGBT voters and allies in the NC (as well as thousands of my readers around the country) would also like to know your positions on these civil rights issues...

* Regarding civil marriage. In her consistent position in favor of restricting rights of LGBT citizens, Senator Dole voted for the Federal Marriage Amendment in 1996.

During a Feb. 25 forum at the University of North Carolina in Chapel Hill, you conveyed to attendees that the definition of marriage should be left up to state law.
- How is that reconciled with 1967's Loving v. Virginia, a U.S. Supreme Court ruling that invalidated state bans on interracial marriages? Should that have been left a state matter?
- Would you be in favor of overturning the federal Defense of Marriage Act in full?

* What legal rights should tax-paying gay and lesbian couples NOT have access to if you believe that extending civil marriage is inappropriate at this time. Do you believe that there should not be parity with opposite-sex married couples regarding:
- inheritance rights
- hospital visitation rights
- equal pension and health care benefits
- and the over 1,100 other legal protections government affords couples via civil, not religious, marriage?

Thank you for your consideration.

The questions were reposted by another BlueNCer, Linda, in the Hagan "thank you" post; she also desired answers to these questions. I personally wouldn't have posted them in that particular entry; I would have made a separate post about the questions themselves because 1) it's about moving toward the general election; and 2) I know that otherwise bringing it up it would immediately result in threadjacking. And yes, it did.

The rest of the "thank you" thread, as a result of the reposting of the questions, erupted into a back and forth over the merits, wisdom or strategy of even asking the questions at all. I'm not sh*tting you. This is so fantastically retro, so 2004  -- remember when the Dem presidential candidates ran screaming away from any questions about TEH GAY, and progressives in many post-election forums tried to blame Kerry's loss on the gay community because of the legalization of same-sex marriage in Massachusetts.

It's a complete 180 this cycle, as most of the Dem presidential candidates participated in a televised LGBT forum sponsored by HRC/LOGO. All of them were asked and answered questions about their positions on various pieces of legislation, some had better answers than others from my perspective. However, the bottom line is that none of them ran from open discussion. The issues were not perceived as something to be hidden away to protect the sensibilities of those uncomfortable with or in opposition of equality for LGBTs.

You know how they say it takes several years for styles and trends to make it outside the large metro enclaves? The discussion in this BlueNC thread was an instant replay of the irrational fears and caving to the Republican framing of LGBT issues in 2004. Some key mind-blowers:

"Questions are a means to a goal, not the goal itself. We don't actually even need to ask questions. We know what we want. We need to pursue the best route to get it."
Basically, I shouldn't have asked the questions of Kay Hagan. Since we "know" what the issues are, we shouldn't rock the boat by asking them in public -- recloset the issues.

My response:

We do need to ask questions -- what you are implying is that a prospective constituent shouldn't ask a candidate about their position on specific legislation (not hypotheticals) because some other voter base may have a problem with the subject matter.

The potential elected official is going to vote on that legislation and I'd like to know their position. I'm going to pay their salary. They work for me. The least they can do is respond -- I may not like the answer, but I will know where they stand. If they do not support my position, I can then begin the process of educating that official in a manner that may change their position in the future.

Another mind-blowing response:
I don't see how demanding an answer helps us. What do we gain? The actual info isn't valuable; the Senate seat is. Demanding an answer is a tactic to win the legislation, and I don't believe it is a good one.
As in, it's not important to know how a prospective candidate would vote on specific legislation. Figure that one out. I said:
The fact is they are going to have to vote one way or the other -- both those for or against that legislation have a right to know where that person stands. And some slice of the population won't like the yea or nay. Either you believe, for instance, that gays and lesbians can be fired from their jobs because of their orientation or not (the Employment Non-Discrimination Act - ENDA, which is on the table). I don't see how you parse that one to please all parties. It's thumbs up or thumbs down.

...Plenty of issues are clearly addressed by candidates prior to an election, some without any reference to legislation. My questions were about specific legislation. You're again failing to answer why the answers themselves would be so inflammatory about LGBT issues that they are worth avoiding. It's not "speaking out" it's stating a position. Again, you're conflating activism with a position. I'm not asking her to march in a Pride parade, I'm asking how she'd vote on a bill.

As you continue down the thread, I make note that Sen. Hagan had answered two of the questions I had asked in the only TV debate that was held. She supports the repeal of DADT, and she volunteered that she supports passage of hate crimes legislation. Obviously she didn't think answering the questions in that venue was going to deep-six her candidacy.

That renders moot the whole justification for avoiding the questions, then, doesn't it?

In my last comment on the thread, I summarized the insanity as I saw it:

It appears that my questions have stirred up a hornet's nest for some because of (feel free to amend, challenge or add):

* A belief that somehow, civil equality issues are too complicated or controversial to discuss in an open manner with candidates lest it harm their candidacy if they may be supportive of them (The Closet Syndrome).

* A fantastic assumption that somehow asking questions of a potential elected official who will represent me about specific legislation is a Subversive Radical Homosexual Agenda ActTM. You'd think my posing these questions in the logical, factual and respectful manner I did in the liveblog was the equivalent lobbing a political Molotov cocktail into the room.

* A belief by some that we must coddle and court the Democratic homophobic vote by closeting the issue rather than discuss it out in the open. IMHO, all this does is give the impression that there is something unseemly about civil equality issues that requires advancement to occur in back channel communication.

* A strategy conveyed here that NCDP (NC Dem Party) endorses the kid gloves/policy closet approach only, and that any other approach is counter productive.

Another thread was launched and some folks continued fixating on my questions. It's like I stepped in that DeLorean and turned the clock back, I tell you -- a lot of progressives treating LGBT equality like a crazy aunt in the attic they are ashamed of -- until they want her to open her purse and dole out the dough.

The NC Dems who are squeamish need to remember that any right-wing attempt to talk about The Homosexual Agenda or family values in NC need only to look at prime examples of Republican hypocrisy here -- Patrick McHenry and Coy Privette.

Seriously, we're simply not going to recloset the issues; candidates need to take a page from the current crop of presidential candidates who did just fine by addressing the issues and moving on.

My questions for you -- and elaborate on your sense of what is going on here. I'm stepping back to hear what you have to say.

* Is it off mark to ask polite questions in a town hall forum -- of someone running to represent you -- about how they would vote on specific LGBT legislation?  

* Is it OK for the candidate to not only not respond to the questions, but for the campaign to simply not acknowledge any follow up requests from several prospective constituents on the topic?  Is it appropriate or acceptable that a candidate when asked the same questions from LGBT media?

* How does that reflect on the candidate's future responsiveness as an elected official? What impression do you have?

* Is the act of asking the questions in public somehow more damaging to the progress of LGBT rights than working behind the scenes (e.g. in the closet), to effect change?

I want to make it clear that discussing this larger picture has little to do in the end with Kay Hagan -- I want Elizabeth Dole out of office -- and more to do with changing the fossilized, homo-paranoid thinking among progressives and party officials in Red/Purple states that openly discussing civil equality is politically "dangerous" and we need to wait silently and patiently and hope progress will happen if we fold our hands and wait quietly for rights to be granted.

We've seen what happens when you don't ask for your rights -- it's always:

1) Shh. I have your back, just wait until I'm elected.

2) I know, I know, you gave and helped us win -- but I have to get re-elected. Not yet.

3) No, I can't help you right now, we need more of a majority and these Blue Dog Dems you helped get in are, unfortunately as homophobic as those folks across the aisle.

Sound familiar?

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Wow, Pam, what a thought-provoking column!  I had no idea there was so much controversy about simply asking the questions themselves, but it makes sense.  There's this perpetual push-pull around shame and expediency for minorities seeking rights.  How much are we out, how much should we shut up and work behind the scenes, where supposedly we'll get more done. Any civil rights movement is going to exhibit this same fault line: don't antagonize the people who can help you/don't let the people who can help you off the hook. And there's definitely a time lag nation- wide between popular culture and political culture when shows like Brothers and Sisters have a gay wedding as the centerpiece of their season finale.  And a character complains, "it's not even legal," and the quiet reply is: "Yes it is, in California."

In direct answer to your questions, it's never wrong to ask GLBT questions in a town hall meeting.  There's no way to gauge their "harm," but the harm of silence equals the death of discussion about issues affecting our lives.

It's never okay for candidates to ignore our issues, and their campaigns should be respectfully held to account.  If a candidate ignores us, it could be mere politics, but it's not a good sign for the future.  We may not get thrown under the bus, but if we do get on the bus at all, we're likely to be made to sit all the way at the back, right near the toilet.

Not asking these questions in public continues the silence, shame and ignorance.  The voting public needs all the education on our issues it can get, and then some more, to put aside the canard that we're asking for "special rights."

"In order to maintain an untenable position, you have to be actively ignorant."  The Colbert Report


thanks, Lev
After the incredible back and forth in that BlueNC thread, I needed to hear from folks outside that community to get feedback about the undercurrent going on. It so reminded me of the post-2004 election DKos threads. To think that asking the questions and expecting an answer is a subversive, destructive act, or that it negates back channel negotiation and encouragement to move LGBT rights forward.

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gay marriage NOT legal in California.
no matter what a tv show says.  In fact preliminary counts indicate the anti gay marriage amendment will be on the November ballot....sorry to be OT as this post by Pam is really good, but I run across this disinformation over and over here in my home state...

[ Parent ]
DADT
Of course there is an irony that a candidate who alleges she's gonna support the repeal of DADT who then allows her supporters the right to suggest that "please Don't Ask, then she Don't have to Tell".

I think you've just got to assume that, given she's a Beltway-clone, she's another DLC homophobe who's not gonna do anything for you and then work on that basis.  


This is part of where I often find difficulty with many Democratic candidates
. . .particularly the ones who like to appear to smile with understanding when approached with these kinds of questions and then almost whisper "you have to be patient."

Well, excuse me, but my constitutional rights as a citizen of this country should never require me to be patient about asking a question, particularly about legislation that has been introduced and which might directly affect MY life. There is something arrogant about those who believe we must never approach certain issues relating to our lives for fear of "derailing" a candidacy - to me it is the same as insisting the LGBT community must continue to be human sacrifices for someone else's bigot church.

In my mind, this has been manufactured by those "conservatives" who arrogantly claim that they are "giving" us "special" rights, or worse, taking away THEIR "special" rights to attack, defame, discriminate and attack those their church believes aren't quite at the level of being treated as constitutional citizens. After all, it is no mistake that the fundies scream about the need for constitutional amendments - and it isn't because they are trying to "protect" marriage. It's about using the constitution to abrogate any language which treats all citizens as equal. As we know, few conservative churches would have ever voted for the Constitution to begin with - and certainly without a slew of amendments which would officially set up the social caste system that sees themselves as the upper class.

So essentially, those Democrats who believe we should keep our mouths shut about asking questions of candidates are merely explaining that we don't really have many constitutional rights. We can't petition our government over grievances, because that requires openly addressing our candidates running for political office. We can't campaign for recognition of those grievances, because that might derail someone's campaign. We can't ask questions of the candidates about issues directly affecting our lives, because that might make the fundies go crazy.

Maybe we need to start forming those questions in a different manner. Perhaps something like "What do you think about allowing one religious group to persecute other citizens through legislation or constitutional amendment in order to impose their dominionist doctrine?" Or, "do you think it is important to examine legislation which protects Southern Baptists from persecution and violence but leaves out other groups?" Perhaps even more blatantly, maybe our questions should list different American sub-groups and just ask "which Americans should be treated as equal American citizens under the law?"

I have always felt that the number one thing which SHOULD have underminded any fundie argument about the "sanctity of marriage" was the plethora of laws, privileges and rights reserved exclusively for state-approved heterosexual unions. If those laws didn't exist, they wouldn't have any legal argument for those constitutional amendments, and gays would be battling the churches for marriage recognition, rather than the state and federal government. But when it is obvious that some citizens are required to live a lie (meaning, marry someone of the opposite sex) in order to protect their human dignity and property rights, the government needs to be addressed.

I know many people don't agree with me on this issue, but I view this as a singles issue as much as a LGBT couples issue. In my opinion, the state has long surpassed any right to regulate public health and provide smooth transfers of property after death by effectively preventing those who do not marry the right to manage their own affairs. Instead, we are stuck in the 19th century with a slew of crazy-ass laws that were more applicable when everyone lived on the family farm than moved around the country. But to insult over half the adult population of this country by demanding they be essentially wards of the State (unless they are married) - or tied mercilessly to the tantrums of an abusive family or worse, the decrees of an abusive "church" is unconscionable.

The long point of this is that we've been patient long enough. Those who protest asking these questions should be asked directly why they think we have no right to petition candidates for public office about issues which directly affect our lives.

One of the things that really pisses me off during EVERY campaign season, particularly in my area, is the insistence of candidates to ramble on and on about their "families." Even one closeted "gay" representative in my state legislature (everyone knows he's gay but no one says it in public) always makes sure he has a picture of himself and his hetero-appearing extended family in brochures. He just doesn't identify anyone. The rest always show the wife (or husband) and kids, like that is supposed to be some reason I VOTE for them. In fact, if we did a canvass of all the people in Congress, how many of them are unmarried? And how really representative of the general population is that?  


Out-ness
Pam, what you've identified with a bull's eye is the whole question of being out writ large.  Haven't many of us dealt with this on a personal and social level, wondering how out to be and where and in what circumstances?  At least in the beginning of our journeys.  And then we get friends, relatives, acquaintances either supporting us or questioning if we need to be out "in this case" or about a certain topic. Being out, we affect our allies, too, and their response creates a new reality that joins the reality we've created by being out personally, culturally, socially, politically.  There will always be voices saying, Go slow, be quiet, don't call too much attention to yourself, work behind the scenes, etc., etc.  Those are the voices of caution, and sometimes fear, and many times shame. I'm proud, Pam, that you and other bloggers are raising our issues (and others) to higher visibility and consciousness.  

"In order to maintain an untenable position, you have to be actively ignorant."  The Colbert Report

Lev, that's right
This is all about the fact that coming out of the closet has forced allies to think about their role and its impact on them. It's part of the growing pains of the progressive movement, which includes people who have a hard time dealing with their own insecurities on these issues of "outness." They desperately don't want to admit their own internalized homophobia, much like they don't want to admit to internalized racism, because they want to believe they are beyond that.

The social and political reality is that everyone isn't on the same page, but to tell the group that is discriminated against  to stay silent is a manifestation of their inability to handle the issue. That underscores the need for more education of our allies -- and the need for more of us to come out if at all possible. It is in fact the most radical act. After all, there are plenty of self-loathing gay folks who don't want to discuss the issues either.

Asking pols questions and expecting basic answers is pretty benign; the fact it's perceived as almost a "radical" an act as an ACTUP protest in a church based on the thread shows you how queasy some "allies" can be about it all. How do we move forward when confronted with this?


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Too true, Pam
We will always make even allies uncomfortable with what we need to change.  It's one thing for people to support us individually, privately, or even on a local level, but when the issues go public, state-wide, national, it changes every aspect of the question.  People can be pro-marriage for their friends and neighbors, but then can they go the next step further and talk about the issue not just to us bot to friends, family, politicians?  Can they advocate actively for us, rather than just accept even embrace us and give us their good will?  

So how do we move forward?  We raise the issue around elections and politicians and news events. We don't simmer in private or where it's perhaps 100% safe (and I admit I can fall back on that pattern sometimes) when a politician pisses us off. Here in Michigan I can talk to my pro-gay friends and describe the queasiness and uncertainty caused by the recent State Supreme Court decision.  They have to know the immediate personal impact.  That's a small start, but it's a start.  I think we take certain things for granted with our allies and perhaps too often assume they know the impact on us.  And maybe we're too pissed off at times to talk about it, but we must.

"In order to maintain an untenable position, you have to be actively ignorant."  The Colbert Report


[ Parent ]
We are learning too.

I followed silently as a GLBT ally for years, only voicing support in a 'supportive' environment.  And I felt proud of it, inching my way to more openness.  Then I read the Straight for Equality Guide put out by PFLAG.  It has a glossary. The definition for 'closeted' shocked me because it was not about someone of different sexual orientation being silent, but that ALL heterosexuals who were allies of GLBT who were silent were in the CLOSET, and not helping.  

For me, I have only just become a vocal ally. I feel like I am in kindergarten, or maybe up to thirde grade or so now, as I have been vocal for 3 months or so. Give us time, we will learn and support... and maybe someday graduate.



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[ Parent ]
And when you do graduate--
The buffet will be terrific.

And we'll have a Harvey Milk Ice Sculpture.

Son et lumière.

Balloon rides.

Pin the tail on the Republican.

"In order to maintain an untenable position, you have to be actively ignorant."  The Colbert Report


[ Parent ]
NC
North Carolina is a difficult state. Especially for these difficult questions. If Hagan helps the Dems get to 60 seats, then her individual positions don't matter that much - and personally, I think that when push comes to shove, she will vote in favor of ENDA and so on.

Didn't she favor ending DADT and support hate crimes during the debate? The number one priority should be defeating Dole, who favors none of these.


My answers to your questions
* Is it off mark to ask polite questions in a town hall forum -- of someone running to represent you -- about how they would vote on specific LGBT legislation?  

Not at all.  Town hall forums are to find out what candidates have to say about the issues.  There's no reason that different and more restrictive rules should apply to LGBT topics -- well, no reason other than homophobia and transphobia, and I don't see those as valid reasons.

* Is it OK for the candidate to not only not respond to the questions, but for the campaign to simply not acknowledge any follow up requests from several prospective constituents on the topic?  Is it appropriate or acceptable that a candidate when asked the same questions from LGBT media?

No to your first question; not sure I understood the second one.

* How does that reflect on the candidate's future responsiveness as an elected official? What impression do you have?

My expectation is that they'd be even less responsive as an elected official than they are during the campaign.  It's just like a job interview: if somebody's not being responsive when they want something from me, then it's realllllly unlikely things'll change after they've gotten what they want.

* Is the act of asking the questions in public somehow more damaging to the progress of LGBT rights than working behind the scenes (e.g. in the closet), to effect change?

No.  Of course there's a role for behind-the-scenes work as well, but history's shown that without public pressure, political systems are very content to ignore the perspectives of LGBT people -- and other oppressed groups.

jon

PS: great column, by the way!

jon


In the end...
...politics sucks. Yes it would be nice if you could look up peoples responses to specific policies and legislation, or better still if gay rights were not used as part of a crowd pleasing effort one way or the other. (the main parties here agreed not to use LBGT people in their efforts to get elected)

My general opinion is yes, any representative of the people at any level should answer any direct question truthfully and to the best of their ability.


Let It Go

Lev et al are all perfectly correct.  On the other hand, the goal is getting Hagan elected in North Carolina.

NC elected Dole.  Excuse me, but didn't NC go for Bush in 2000 and 2004?  Isn't it expected that NC will be a McCain state in 2008?  And as you say, Dole will definitely outspend Hagan in this Senate race.

As I lamented in my most recent diary, not that much has really changed for the glbt folks ... even in California.  The larger community wants us in the closet.  They do not want to see or hear about us.  The less seen or heard, the better.  I believe that is true where I live in northern California.  How much more is that true in North Carolina?

In the general election, if one really wants Hagan to be elected, I would lay low on glbt issues.  If Hagan becomes closly identified with lgbt issues, I think it will hurt her electability in NC.  The time to educate and lobby is after she is elected.

Sorry to say this, but is my opinion as an ex-professional political operative.

The fight for full LGBT Equality is NOT over.  Be strong and be ready to really fight!  And read my blog in your spare time! http://ravenhurst-ravenhurst.b...


the only reason one becomes "closely identified"
is if you treat the issue as a big deal. The dustup over answering the questions has become more of an issue than had she answered them and moved on. Her campaign made it an issue by not responding/acknowledging any offline followups.

As I mentioned above, Sen. Hagan answered two of the questions during a subsequent TV debate; clearly she didn't have a problem answering the moderator. And little mention of her answer was made in the press; no fundie blowback was evident.

This is about the reaction to internalized fear of the subject as framed by the Republicans. Kay Hagan's prospects aren't great against the Dole machine, but it won't be LGBT questions that sink her.  


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Two Answers

Pam, Ms Hagan and her advisors thought the two answers she did NOT give were answers she did NOT want plastered across Republican TV and radio ads.  Perhaps she is correct and perhaps she is wrong.  Her campaign and her call.

At this point, we are in the general election.  I am with you in thinking the issue should not have been brought up in that thread.  It was a VERY appropriate primary issue.  But in the general election?  Not so appropriate ... why beat up our candidate?  Let it go.  As a glbt rights issue, wonderful.  As an election issue, not so good.  Let it go in NC.

Can't believe I am writng this, but I am really looking for the magic number ... SIXTY IN THE SENATE!

The fight for full LGBT Equality is NOT over.  Be strong and be ready to really fight!  And read my blog in your spare time! http://ravenhurst-ravenhurst.b...


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I'm not beating Hagan up in this post
I'm pointing out that there is a strong segment of the progressive movement who is so afraid of the topic that it will automatically deep six a candidacy to engage it.

And how did Hagan's campaign come to the conclusion that those two answers she did give become acceptable/safe to go public with?

Hate crimes and DADT repeal legislation have resulted from open discussion, personal stories, good public advocacy work from the likes of SLDN and HRC, for instance; it certainly wasn't all back channel communication with folks on the Hill.

And there's the rub.

Of course we want to hit that number 60, and I'll still vote for Kay Hagan.  


[ Parent ]
Maybe she does need a political beating.
I personally find it rather disingenuous to give faux allies a write off just because they happen to be less repugnant than their counterparts. Most of the time, there's a dimes worth of difference between the forthright anti-gay haters and the faux allies we're supposed to align to with smiling faces and open pocketbooks.

I'll now refer to a quote from V for Vendetta:

Our integrity sells for so little, but it is all we really have. It is the very last inch of us. But within that inch we are free.

I'm tired of being forced to choose between the lesser of two evils. I'm tired of people who desire political responsibility not being willing to accept accountability. Why should she not answer those questions, and why should Pam be admonished for asking them in the first place? Why should a constituent not get an answer to a question that will affect their daily living? If Hagan wants the position of power, she should be willing to answer any question posed to her by a possible constituent, within reason. And, to be very frank, if she loses the election because she became associated with "the gays," then she obviously wasn't a strong enough candidate to begin with. It would be her own fault for losing the election, not the fault of any constituent wanting to know legitimate answers to that candidate's positions.

Judging from Hagan's responses (or lack of) I wouldn't trust her when it came to LGBT issues, or any other, for that matter. I'm just glad I don't have to vote in that election, because I'm not sure I could. I'd always worry that I'd replaced one vile regime with yet another. Would I have sold my integrity for so little?

I am not a Democrat, and I am not a Republican. I owe neither party my allegiance, as they certainly do not reciprocate theirs. I'm tired of being seen as sub-human by both parties due to my sexuality. When I finally become a human in their eyes, and not just a wedge-issue statistic, then perhaps I'll cut them a break. My life is not constructed of LGBT issues, but of LGBT reality, and until either side can accept that fact, I will not settle for less.


[ Parent ]
tried and true tactics
The issue will be in play until a NC Dem can win a statewide race while being explicitly pro-LGBT.

[ Parent ]
Why?
On the other hand, the goal is getting Hagan elected in North Carolina.

Why? Why is this the goal? She could be worse (on this issue anyway, though even as a NeoCon it's difficult to see how anyone could be worse than Dole on any issue). We don't know.

Don't think that Dole's campaign won't cause these questions to be asked and back her into a corner at a moment of their choosing? Or is it that they know what the answer will be, and that it won't favour them one little bit?

I'm Australian. Maybe you do things differently. But when I see 25 Republicans cross the floor to vote for ENDA, and Democrats saying that they don't have enough votes to make it Trans-inclusive because so many in their own party would defect, I really wonder at this illusion that the DNC is GLBT-friendly. It's not. The GOP is just worse, mainly.

Zoe

There is no situation so complex it can't get even worse


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Does it even make any sense?
The idea that equality can be achieved within a political environment that makes the idea of equality unmentionable?

"Our Liberties We Prize and Our Rights We Will Maintain" -- Iowa state motto

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