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'Family values' of NC anti-gay orgs support the bullying of kids in school

by: Pam Spaulding

Wed Jul 16, 2008 at 07:00:00 AM EDT


This is the height of hypocrisy. You have the self-proclaimed protector of the values to support families, the NC Family Policy Council, opposing the language of an anti-bullying bill intended to protect children in schools.

HB 1366, the School Violence Prevention Act, would include a reference to sexual orientation and gender identity -- and that set off the fundie alarm over the Homosexual Agenda. The paragraph in question:

"Bullying or harassing behavior includes, but is not limited to, acts reasonably perceived as being motivated by any actual or perceived characteristic, such as race, color, religion, ancestry, national origin, gender, gender identity or expression, physical appearance, sexual orientation, or mental, physical, or sensory disability, or by association with a person who has or is perceived to have one or more of these characteristics."
This language has been a sticking point for over a year, and the far-right fringe has been all over this.

More after the jump.

Pam Spaulding :: 'Family values' of NC anti-gay orgs support the bullying of kids in school
The Christian Action League is asking people on its mailing list to tell legislators to oppose it, and the N.C. Family Policy Council has written extensively on its view that homosexual rights groups are using school safety issues to promote a social agenda.

"This is a watershed issue, and if 'sexual orientation' is enacted into North Carolina law through HB 1366, it will serve as the basis for affirming deviant sexual behaviors throughout our state statutes," read a brief distributed by Bill Brooks, family policy council executive director.

And here's a profile in courage -- not:
Sen. Stan Bingham, a Republican from Denton, said a lot of his constituents don't know whether he represents them in Raleigh or in Washington, but a whole lot of people from his area seem to know the details of the bullying bill.

"They must have notified every church in my area," Bingham said of opponents. The messages were enough to convince him not to support the compromise bill, though he was one of the negotiators.

"It kind of hurt," he said.

In the end, the language settled upon replaced "gender identity and expression" with "masculinity and femininity." That was approved by all those participating in the negotiations on the bill.
Rep. Rick Glazier, the Fayetteville Democrat who sponsored the bill, said the change eliminated descriptions that were causing the most controversy but still recognized that effeminate boys and tomboys are bullying targets.

The compromise makes clear that the descriptions in bullying law would not expand the existing classifications of people who can claim discrimination, Glazier said.

Predictably, even that was too much leeway for the Family Policy Council's Brooks, who said the entire paragraph that refers to bullying targets should have been struck, and the bill simply "focus is on the bully, not the victim."

Ian Palmquist of Equality NC, while satisfied that the primary goal of protecting children was reached in the compromise, he would have preferred to see the language mirror other states' similar laws that referred to "gender identity and expression."

"I think it's kind of sad that we're having a debate about something that protects children from bullying in schools."
NC residents can contact their legislators here.
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So they're saying
it's OK to bully queer kids? If you're queer, you got it coming, right?

Here's what I find about compromise--
don't do it if it hurts inside,
'cause either way you're screwed,
eventually you'll find
you may as well feel good;
you may as well have some pride

--Indigo Girls


Yes, they are.
Jeannie Metcalf, Forsyth County Board of Education member, was quoted in the Winston-Salem Journal on February 4, 2003 saying, "I think homosexuality is a sin. If they want to make fun of them, I don't have a problem with it." She then went on to get re-elected in 2006, along with fellow publicly-anti-gay Board of Education member Buddy Collins. This is exactly why we need specific language in our anti-bullying policies! And their re-election shows exactly why we won't get it any time soon.

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So comparably it would be ok for us to bully fundies?
Equality in America, correct?
But can you, for a moment, imagine the reaction if LGBT youth began to target Fundamentalists youth in schools who preached the hatred?

The Christian right would be screaming for protection for thie children, for "special rights" like anti-bullying laws.

I tell you Chica that no greater abomination exists than women denying their spirit of sisterhood and instead becoming the oppressor. -Rebeca, Universidad Complutense de Madrid


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What if atheists proposed...
...to eliminate the religion part because they said it would be used by Christian activists to push their Bible and Creationist agendas in schools?

And besides, this law prevents good Christian youth from bullying evil Jewish, Muslim, "Hindu", Buddhist, Bahá'í, Wiccan, Taoist, etc. kids.




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Today's paper
in NC says that one representative was leaning towards voting for the anti-bulling measure until he heard from many constituents asking to leave the gay part out because it was helping the homosexual agenda advance!  Outraged!!! Yes, very!

But where are the gay groups of this state and the HRC?  Are they calling their reps and lobbying for this important measure?  No!!  They are too busy working on the Crepe Myrtle Festival with all sorts of fun stereotypical events to be held in gay bars.  If we are ever to be taken seriously we need to move ourselves away from the stereotypical gay events and get involved more politically.



Out the Hypocrites
Rumor has it that a closeted Democratic Senator is planning on voting against the bullying bill.  Unbelievable!

I'm not the biggest fan of outing, but it seems to me that when a gay elected official votes against the interests of his own people then we have no choice to draw back the curtain expose his hypocrisy.  If someone wants to stay in the closet, that's his business.  But when they vote against schoolchildren who are being abused because of real or perceived sexual orientation, then they've crossed a line.  

I hope this Senator comes to his senses before the vote today.  


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Take Action with this group in NC
As noted in the article, you can use this link to contact your NC legislator.

http://eqfed.org/campaign/bull...

Equality NC, the only LGBT group in NC with a permanent prescence at the legislature, has been working tirelessly on this bill, and still needs all the help it can get.

Foward the link to your friends in North Carolina.

The House is scheduled to vote today (Wed).  The Senate is scheduled to vote on Thursday.  

There are also other bills of concern to the LGBT community still alive during the rapidly closing legislative session.  A state bill opposing the federal REAL ID Act is up for a vote in the House today. Of course, we always have be on guard for parliamentary manuevers concerning the marriage amendments in each chamber.

At the moment, please use and foward the link for the bullying bill.  Folks are working literally around the clock on this bill.

http://eqfed.org/campaign/bull...


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ARG!
It's like they're trying to leave it open, so even kids can claim the Gay Panic defense if they pick on an LGBTQ kid.  ARG!!  **stomps over to contact legislators**

These people are trying to protect kids...
Their own kids. Learning their behaviors at home?

the basis for affirming deviant sexual behaviors throughout our state statutes

Isn't that verbal bullying?

"They must have notified every church in my area," Bingham said of opponents. The messages were enough to convince him not to support the compromise bill, though he was one of the negotiators.

Isn't pressuring someone into doing something also a form of bullying?

Jeannie Metcalf ... was quoted ... "I think homosexuality is a sin. If they want to make fun of them, I don't have a problem with it."

But I can bet you that she would have a problem if that child retaliated. Not only is she not standing up against bullying she is promoting it, endangering children. Isn't child endangerment a crime?

watashi no yomeiri wa doko desu ka


Bullying had a rather dramatic outcome if unchecked
That outcome is called Columbine

I tell you Chica that no greater abomination exists than women denying their spirit of sisterhood and instead becoming the oppressor. -Rebeca, Universidad Complutense de Madrid

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