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CNN does Black in America 101

by: Pam Spaulding

Sat Jul 26, 2008 at 07:00:00 AM EDT


(I'm at Blogging While Brown in Atlanta this weekend. I'm sure we'll discuss this multimedia effort by CNN...)

I was looking forward to the two-part, six-hour CNN special Black in America. The premiere this week (it re-airs over the weekend) was disappointing, but not unexpectedly so. What I mean is that it felt like Black People 101 for the "general audience," i.e. people who may have little or no first-hand exposure to blacks in this country. What it delivered in those six hours was a pretty superficial regrazing of territory that focused way too much on the urban black community and the socioeconomic woes in segments of black America. I was looking for more "advanced studies."

There was acknowledgment of the plight of incarceration of the black man and the unequal treatment in the criminal justice system, the lack of black men who are considered "marriage material" for black women because of underemployment, incarceration and discrimination, the impact of crack, HIV/AIDS, unequal access to quality education, black misogyny in rap -- all of these have been covered in one way or another before in the MSM. That's all well and good, but there was ample opportunity to explore areas that were undercovered or curiously touched upon then abandoned.

* the growing black middle class;
* the internal politics and tension over the definition of "black culture" within the community, including the "acting white" phenomenon;
* the generational divide in terms of political outlook;
* the digital divide and its impact, as well as the black digiterati and new activism;
* colorism and how it still holds sway in elements of the community;
* what it is like to be black and gay in America
* what is "black" in America today.

On the CNN web site, host of the series, Soledad O'Brien, who is biracial, discussed a frustrating exchange with a reporter about that last point.

I'm on the phone with a confused reporter, and I'm confused too. She keeps asking me why I "count myself as black... And why does Barack Obama?" My answer (for Sen. Obama, at least) is "have you seen him?" But she won't let it go. "Is your father annoyed that you deny him?" My dad is white. I interject. "Let's conference him in," I say. "Listen, he married a black woman, he has six black children. He'd be the first person to tell you I'm black."

The questions, to me, reveal more about the asker. This (white) reporter surely doesn't know a lot of black people, or she wouldn't be struggling so hard. She'd know black people come in all hues.

Unlike O'Brien, I'm not biracial, but the product of parents who have families that "come in all hues" -- and we all identify as black.


Acknowledging up front that race is a social construct and putting that aside for the moment, dealing with what it means to be black in America in my mind means taking a deeper look at what the expectation of being black is, not simply whether your appearance alone is the sole arbiter of how you are labeled. Because of the increasingly blurry color line, it's not only the dominant culture that seems to be having difficulties with the various hues and identities. Even within the black community there can be contentious discussion surrounding authentic blackness - that has little to do with how you look, and everything to do with how you culturally identify.

I find it perplexing to hear in some circles that Barack Obama has to prove his blackness, not only in association, but in his fealty to a particular kind of American black culture that has evolved due to the influence of the descendents of west African slaves. If that isn't his experience, why must he represent that?  The same could be said of Caribbean black Americans, whose heritage and culture are in many ways differs from the "norm" (my maternal grandfather, for instance, was from Barbados, my paternal side of the family includes  descendants of slaves). Does that make me more or less black?

Why is a specific kind of authenticity necessary to be seen as "black" for some in the community? What about socioeconomic status, or education? What role do they play? One can argue that the black support for Clarence Thomas during his SCOTUS confirmation process based on his race alone certainly didn't serve the interests of most black people in America, even though he was raised in the South, and had a culturally "traditional" black background. It seems rather superficial not to take a more expanded view and assessment of a person than the mere measure of hue or culture.

These are simply questions of course, not a declaration of support or dissent of a point of view. It would have been engaging to see people wrestling with these topics in the CNN special. More below the fold.

Pam Spaulding :: CNN does Black in America 101
It should be noted that there have been panel discussions preceding the debut of the showcase primetime specials, and post-broadcast analysis with live audiences and guests on AC360; some of these topics came up but if you tuned into the specials, which were divided into "The Black Woman and Family" and "The Black Man," both were weak, IMHO.

One topic discussed in great detail was the impact of AIDS on the black community - with the explosive tragic increase in transmission in heterosexual black women. This incredibly complex and controversial topic, which involves bringing up religion, man-on-man sex during incarceration (as opposed to homosexuality, since these men do not identify as gay), the resistance and low self-esteem of some women to protect themselves because of their desperate desire to hold on to a man whether he is cheating or not, the list goes on and on. The man-on-man sex and the tragic denial and pathology it leads to simply wasn't given any time. Maybe that's a good thing in hindsight, because I fear it would be handled poorly, with the further demonization of black men without any context about what is behind the denial.

I happened to catch one of the panels earlier in the week (prior to "the main event") featuring Dr. Julianne Malveaux, actress Sheryl Lee Ralph, and megachurch pastor T.D. Jakes, and the conversation there got within a hair of being truly frank about AIDS, as they urged pastors to speak frankly to their congregations about sex. Rev. Jakes was asked a question from host Soledad O'Brien about the dilemma pastors face in preaching abstinence outside of marriage even he or she is aware HIV is spreading through church membership. He responded with a nugget of sanity that should give the virulently homophobic pastors pause as they spew hate from the pulpit - they must preach the ideal, but also acknowledge that the faithful can and do fall short of that ideal. Reality check.

Other than that one beacon of truth, most of the commentary that I caught wasn't particularly enlightening or groundbreaking.  I do urge people to visit the much more comprehensive CNN web site on Black in America, because, unlike the program, it is chock full of reports, videos, a wide range of editorials and thought pieces that cover a much wider range of topics. One recommended feature is Shopping While Black. I can identify with this one, as I've been followed in stores as if I was a shoplifter on the prowl. Leah Wells of Atlanta, described the incident to Soledad O'Brien.

"We were dressed professionally," Wells told me. "It was casual Friday. We had on dresses and casual office wear. We were racially profiled. It was as simple as that."

At about 1:15 p.m., mall security contacted Gwinnett County police saying there was a group involved in shoplifting. The police department says four officers arrived at the mall about 10 minutes later, and security pointed out Wells and her two friends as they walked away from the Old Navy store. Old Navy is owned by GAP. The officers asked the three to return to the store.

Wells says six officers were involved, not four, and that she and her friends were detained for "about an hour and a half"; the police say it was 29 minutes. In her letter to Murphy, the GAP CEO, Wells describes enduring "disdainful stares from the mothers and grandmothers and children entering the store."

Police found no stolen merchandise on Wells or her friends. But Wells says neither the police nor the store managers bothered to apologize.

..."No matter your education, your status or profession, some still only see the color of your skin," Wells wrote two months after the event.

A lot of us know exactly what you're talking about. Shopping while black, hailing a cab while black, and even driving in your own neighborhood while black, which was covered in the primetime special when a school system superintendent in Arkansas was stopped by police when white neighbors saw him driving in his subdivision where he was building a house because his presence there was suspicious.

So, I wouldn't say pass on the specials; it's certainly a stab in the right direction -- it beats invisibility. And as I mentioned, the CNN web site, which includes a discussion guide for parents and teachers, as well as I-Reports and feedback from viewers about what they've read and seen, provide the kind of depth that cannot fit into a TV special.

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Don't let this become an orphan post because people are reluctant to share their views. :)

Pam
I've often wondered what would happen if we spoke  our hearts and minds rather than being politically correct in discussions of race and racism.  

OK, may I try?
Discussing the issue from only one side--born to 3x "better"--white, hetero and educated middle-class side--the main point deciding that I will be given "the corner of the cake" in front of others, automatically and without an authority thinking why, is class. CNN lacks that frame in most of its coverage, right? That said, the presentation cannot say " 'The American Dream' is that of a move up in class from where you are and the automatic simplifier used in the US that color can help decide who 'should' move up is invalid:  better candidates are excluded because their qualities are not acknowledged,or worse, they are told that any success they do achieve was 'given' because of 'affirmative action' or 'political correctness'. From there, excluded persons who are better or try harder become frustrated and bitter. There may be a turn to 'magical thinking': eg "If I only_________(win the lottery)". A whole group of the country set to spinning in this circle, spinning alongside poor whites, also in similar thought-traps, alongside other groups outside the 'native' Black/White divide, will, by the friction generated, be held back from success, and our country as a whole is held back by the fruitless struggle."
That said, I claim 'cousin': of Ishmael Reed, who acknowledges his Irish roots--a wave of the shamrock to all who are so related--that hidden relationship excluded automatically by a look at our outsides.

Pam, you should know better
than ask some of us long-winded folks to comment! :)

Seriously, thank you for this post and the CNN links (saw part of the series on CNN but hadn't gone to their site and will do so later on). As a northern raised white girl, I never saw a black person until I was 9 and never understood my father's racism. He told me "you'll understand when you're older."

Well, I am now older and I understand that I will never understand racism at all.

Living and working in downtown Baltimore for years exposed me to a city where I was in the minority percentage. Many, many of my coworkers, friends and neighbors were black; many of my patients. Routinely I rode the buses from Patterson Park to the hospital where I worked and back; most of the other passengers were black. When our daughter was born, one of my pals/coworkers came over to see the baby and said she was surprised that we lived where we did, because her grandmother lived a few blocks away.

Was I scared to live there? Honestly, at first- yes. Not of blacks- but of the gunshots and sirens one heard every day. That was why we left Maryland, to raise our kids in rural Maine and near their relatives. I had lived previously in Boston and Austin suburbs, but the noise and crime levels took awhile to get used to- barely slept the first night.

My coworkers (mostly 20-40 years old) quickly accepted me and my gabby nature and sometimes they told me stories of racism that shocked, horrified and infuriated me. But more often? We were just friends, sharing recipes and baby clothes, gossiping about daily life or the news, joking around and raising hell, bringing in pies and cakes, bitching and commiserating.

You know- like all people do! :)

Sum all of this up: people are people, period and end of sentence. Some terrific, some not.

Pieces like CNN's and posts like these do such a service in helping to show that racism in everyday life affects everyone, as it tears at the very essence of simple humanity, fairness and decency. As painful as it is, the stories must be told and heard, lessons must be learned, and understanding must occur for all to realize, accept and strive for respect, decency and equality for all.


"It goes on one at a time, it starts when you care to act, it starts when you do it again after they said no, it starts when you say We and know who you mean, and each day you mean one more."


But having returned to Maine
I find that racism is even more open here than when I was a kid.

Oh c'mon; you KNEW I wasn't done after just a few paragraphs, didn't ya? ;)
================================

Take the newly arrived (well, last decade) Somali immigrant community in the central Maine area:

1. A positive story: http://www.downeast.com/Articl...

2. A negative viewpoint: http://www.somaliawatch.org/ar...

3. Wiki on Lewiston, Maine: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/L...

Every place in America has similar issues, sadly. What's interesting (for lack of better word) is to see how a state with a population of 99% white is reacting.

It pisses me off big-time. One of my very dearest friends and coworkers was from Eritrea, just north of Somalia- he was a fantastic person that I adored! That people like him are being judged and mistreated infuriates me.


"It goes on one at a time, it starts when you care to act, it starts when you do it again after they said no, it starts when you say We and know who you mean, and each day you mean one more."


Black AND White in America
is something it would have been worth CNN's time to address at some juncture in this series. What about contrasting more integrated  vs. less integrated neighborhoods? Looking in depth at real estate patterns in major American cities?

 In other words instead of turning a lens on an Other, why not meaningfully consider each other, black and white as they intersect? I just haven't seen this done in depth anywhere, outside of crisis points.

         


[ Parent ]
Just quickly watched
the Soledad O'Brien/ Bill and Janet Cohen interview on CNN.com

It shows them as a very nice couple but damn! Now I'm hungry for Bangor Rye Keiser Rolls, which I haven't had in a gazillion years.

I'd love to see positive stories of communities merging, too!! Our Baltimore neighborhood (2 block square radius) had families of black, white, Greek, Russian, Korean, Puerto Rican, Irish, Polish ethicities, as well as a few known/out gay and lesbian couples. It didn't seem unusual at all but in retrospect, maybe it was.

"It goes on one at a time, it starts when you care to act, it starts when you do it again after they said no, it starts when you say We and know who you mean, and each day you mean one more."


[ Parent ]
one of the saddest
and most infuriating experiences of my adult life was sitting on a grand jury for New York's special drug court.  I would never break the confidentiality that's required by law, but I will say that I never realized just how unbalanced the law is with respect to race until sitting in that room.  Or, maybe I never had a full emotional connection with that fact.

In NYC, all drug related grand jury proceedings are held in Manhattan, regardless of where an arrest is made.  No juror I sat with was from anywhere other than Manhattan.  The jury was mostly white.

It still infuriates me when I remember some of the attitudes in that room.  Among some people there was a frivolity; they were amused to see rough and tumble undercovers and patrol officers describe interactions with drug suspect. They seemed to be watching Law and Order. Among others, mostly men, there was the attitude that when you mess with the law, you deserve whatever punishment the police see fit to dispense.  The latter's an attitude I was writing about just yesterday with respect to taser usage (and no, I'm not going to blogwhore here).  There was an overwhelming and implicit trust of the police in the room. People were bent on supporting their boys in blue no matter how badly cases smelled. Such trust and support for the police are luxuries born in never having encountered genuinely bad police. The voice recently had a very interesting article offering some stats on the NYPD. The NYPD just added over 3000 tasers to its arsenal.  You can bet they won't see overuse in neighborhoods like Tribeca and Soho.

For my part, I sat on that jury pretty pissed off for ten days. I admonished other jurors once for laughing at people who showed up in their own defense. I really do wish I could write about those details...  

I can't fully understand the impact that direct and systemic racism have on a person, but I can at least empathize with having a group of straight white people viewing me as either a stereotype, meant only for a laugh, or alternatively hating me if I dare to try for a piece of their American dream pie.

On another front, I blog about tasers and taser use.  One really disturbing aspect to the devices is their disproportionate use in minority areas.  I feel comfortable writing about tasers because I have backgrounds in biomedical engineering, electrical engineering, and physiology.  I have written about racial disparity and the devices as well. At first I wondered what an AA person would think about a gay white guy writing about racial issues. But, the unregulated use of a device that randomly dispense a death sentence is something worth writing about, so I kept writing about as many aspects of the device as possible, putting out as much information as possible.

Electricity's for light bulbs!


oh and
Mother Jones has an interesting issue on incarceration with a relevant article here:
Today, one in nine African American men between the ages of 20 and 34 is locked up.


Electricity's for light bulbs!

[ Parent ]
Have you seen
this CNN recent story about the Taser death of Baron Pike?


"It goes on one at a time, it starts when you care to act, it starts when you do it again after they said no, it starts when you say We and know who you mean, and each day you mean one more."

[ Parent ]
Yeah, it's an infuriating
case.  It happened back in January and never hit a major media outlet until the white cop was charged.  

Electricity's for light bulbs!

[ Parent ]
The bias extends to the automatic acceptance of the Taser defense
The typical Taser defense is to claim that the individual Tased had been on illegal drugs (cocaine, meth) at the time and died from the drug and not the tasing by itself. (I know this because I know one of the people that testifies for the defense in Taser lawsuits). This might have some validity if it was shown that the tased individual had whopping amounts of said cocaine or meth on board, and also had an underlying heart disease. However, this toxicology info is not always gathered, and I have the feeling that the jurors just assume that the dead black tased victims were drug abusers just because they were lower class young black men. (Toxicology for  cocaine and meth is somewhat problematic due to the short half-lives of the drugs and metabolites. One has to think about drawing blood sooner rather than later, or in this case, retrieving blood draws made during a resuscitation event.)

[ Parent ]
a comment over at Pandagon
Black People 101 is better than nothing... right?

My response: I do think it is better than nothing, don't get me wrong, it's just that the small slice shown in the highly promoted two-part primetime portion really didn't break ground as promised. The CNN web site succeeds by far on this front by providing depth, however it won't receive the eyeballs the specials did.  


Better than nothing may depend on how many non-blacks watched it
I agree that the two episodes was largely a re-hash of old topics.  But a lot of whites aren't familiar with such issues, so perhaps some learning was done.

I like the suggested topics you made at the beginning of this blog entry.  It is unfortunate that more community input was not sought when planning the special first began.

Oh, and thanks for mentioning the better material on the CNN website!  I will have to visit for a read.  

If you want allies, you have to be an ally.


[ Parent ]
I agree, It is better than nothing
I've been writing, talking and now blogging about those issues within the transgender community for over a decade, and it still floors me (but doesn't surprise me) sometimes just how much ignorance is out there when it comes to African-Americans.

It's also interesting to note that when we do try to kick knowledge on aspects of how we see the world through African-American eyes, it's quickly dismissed by some whites as 'whining', we're labeled 'angry', or any discossion on race is tagged with the conservative 'political correctness' label.

We can't talk about the issues in order to solve the problems if whites and blacks can't even agree on a common vocabulary in which to foster the discussion.  

The other problem as I see it is that you can't have an honest discussion about race relations in this country unless you honestly talk about what happened during slavery and how it still 150 years later affects both the descendants of former slaves and the descendants of former slaveowners.

Much of what ails this country in terms of racial attitudes and race relations has its roots in slavery, and I've argued for a while now that we sorely need a Truth and Reconciliation Commission on slavery similar to what the South Africans did about apartheid.  

 


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