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Connecticut court overturns same-sex marriage ban

by: Pam Spaulding

Fri Oct 10, 2008 at 18:30:29 PM EDT


(People have been bombarding my email box with pleas to put up a post on the Connecticut marriage equality ruling...apologies; I've been offline all day. I got zero sleep last night after putting Bailey down; the posts that went up today I had in the queue prior to the ruling. --P.)

In a ruling that has to bolster spirits across the country, the Connecticut Supreme Court ruled today that same-sex couples have the right to marry. This makes it the third state to legalize marriage equality, after Massachusetts and California.

Coverage in the Hartford Courant is here. Reactions abound...

National Gay and Lesbian Task Force:

"This is a momentous victory for the people of Connecticut and all Americans who hold fairness as a fundamental value. The high court's analysis comes down to this simple yet profound principle: All of Connecticut's families deserve and need the protections, rights and responsibilities that support and sustain them, and should be treated equally under the law.

"We thank the plaintiffs for their courage and our colleagues at Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders and their cooperating counsel for their outstanding advocacy on behalf of our community. We also applaud the years of work undertaken by our state partner, Love Makes a Family, which played a central role in creating a climate in Connecticut that made today's historic opinion possible."

Statement of Jennifer Chrisler, Executive Director, Family Equality Council:
"Connecticut has long been a leader on LGBT equality, especially as relates to LGBT parents and their children. Today's decision takes a tremendous and necessary step forward in fully protecting all Connecticut families. The Connecticut Supreme Court recognized what we all know to be true-civil unions are not equal to marriage and equality is the only way to treat all families fairly," said Jennifer Chrisler, executive director of Family Equality Council. "In these unstable times, we cannot afford to grant some families more access to rights and benefits than others. Unfortunately, three states will vote on constitutional amendments to ban gay and lesbian couples from marrying this November. Arkansas will vote to allow child welfare professionals to decide what is in the best interest of children or ban all unmarried couples from fostering and adopting children without ever considering their qualifications as parents or the needs of children. As we enter the last few weeks of this historic election, Connecticut's decision is a welcome reminder that the spirit of justice and equality this country was founded on is alive and well."
Soulforce Executive Director, Jeff Lutes:
"This momentous decision would not have been possible without the efforts of organizations such as GLAD (Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders) and Connecticut's Love Makes a Family. Today we salute their work, and we celebrate all the Connecticut couples and families who will now enjoy the same fundamental freedoms and legal protections as their neighbors.

Soulforce is dedicated to marriage equality for every couple in the United States, and we urge all Americans who value fairness and freedom to support the historic No on 8 campaign in California."

Statement by Geoff Kors, NO on Prop 8 Executive Committee Member:
"Today, another state recognized that same-sex couples have the fundamental right to marry," Kors said. "We believe - as do millions of our fellow Californians - that laws should not treat people differently, and we're thrilled that loving couples in Connecticut now have the same fundamental rights as everyone in California."

"As Californians, we believe in the freedom to make choices and live our lives without government interference," Kors said. "We don't want to eliminate the fundamental rights of our friends, neighbors and family members, and that's why voters will vote NO on Prop 8. This is another indication that more and more Americans are recognizing the fundamental right of loving couples to marry."

A snippet of the ruling and the reaction from Matt Barber are below the fold.
Pam Spaulding :: Connecticut court overturns same-sex marriage ban
You can read the full ruling here.
In sum, the state has failed to establish adequate reason to justify the statutory ban on same sex marriage. Accordingly, under the equal protection provisions of the state constitution, our statutory scheme governing marriage cannot stand insofar as it bars same sex cou-ples from marrying.

VIII

CONCLUSION

We recognize, as the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court did in Goodridge v. Dept. of Public Health, supra, 440 Mass. 309, that ''our decision marks a change in the history of our marriage law. Many people hold deep-seated religious, moral, and ethical convictions that marriage should be limited to the union of one man and one woman, and that homosexual conduct is immoral. Many hold equally strong religious, moral, and ethical convictions that same-sex couples are entitled to be married, and that homosexual persons should be treated no differently than their heterosexual neigh-bors. Neither view answers the question before [the court]. Our concern is with [our state] [c]onstitution as a charter of governance for every person properly within its reach.'' Id., 312.

The drafters of our constitution carefully crafted its provisions in general terms, reflecting fundamental principles, knowing that a lasting constitution was needed. Like the framers of the federal constitution, they also ''knew [that] times can blind us to certain truths, and later generations can see that laws once thought necessary and proper in fact serve only to oppress. As the [c]onstitution endures, persons in every generation can invoke its principles in their own search for greater freedom.'' Lawrence v. Texas, supra, 539 U.S. 579. Not long ago, this court made the same essen-tial point, explaining that ''as we engage over time in the interpretation of our state constitution, we must consider the changing needs and expectations of the citizens of our state.'' State v. Webb, 238 Conn. 389, 411, 680 A.2d 147 (1996). This admonition applies no less to the guarantee of equal protection embodied in our constitution than to any other state constitutional pro-vision.

Even though the right to marry is not enumerated in our constitution, it long has been deemed a basic civil right. E.g., Loving v. Virginia, supra, 388 U.S. 12 (''[m]arriage is one the basic civil rights of man'' [inter-nal quotation marks omitted]); Skinner v. Oklahoma ex rel. Williamson, 316 U.S. 535, 541, 62 S. Ct. 1110, 86 L. Ed. 1655 (1942) (same). Although we traditionally have viewed that right as limited to a union between a man and a woman, ''if we have learned anything from the significant evolution in the prevailing societal views and official policies toward members of minority races and toward women over the past half-century, it is that even the most familiar and generally accepted of social practices and traditions often mask unfairness and inequality that frequently is not recognized or appreci-ated by those not directly harmed by those practices or traditions. It is instructive to recall in this regard that the traditional, well-established legal rules and practices of our not-so-distant past (1) barred interra-cial marriage, (2) upheld the routine exclusion of women from many occupations and official duties, and (3) considered the relegation of racial minorities to separate and assertedly equivalent public facilities and institutions as constitutionally equal treatment.'' In re Marriage Cases, supra, 43 Cal. 4th 853-54.

Like these once prevalent views, our conventional understanding of marriage must yield to a more contem-porary appreciation of the rights entitled to constitu-tional protection. Interpreting our state constitutional provisions in accordance with firmly established equal protection principles leads inevitably to the conclusion that gay persons are entitled to marry the otherwise qualified same sex partner of their choice. To decide otherwise would require us to apply one set of constitu-tional principles to gay persons and another to all oth-ers.83 The guarantee of equal protection under the law, and our obligation to uphold that command, forbids us from doing so. In accordance with these state constitu-tional requirements, same sex couples cannot be denied the freedom to marry.84

The judgment is reversed and the case is remanded with direction to grant the plaintiffs' motion for sum-mary judgment and application for injunctive relief.

You know that I cannot end this post without presenting the reaction from the fringe. Here's Matt Bam Bam Barber, close friend of The Peter:
Matt Barber, Director of Cultural Affairs with both Liberty Alliance Action and Liberty Counsel, and Associate Dean with Liberty University School of Law,* released the following statement today in response to news that the Connecticut Supreme Court has imposed "same-sex marriage" on the citizens of Connecticut.

"Today, Connecticut's high court ruled that its state constitution led "inevitably to the conclusion" that men and women who are so inclined, have a 'right' to 'marry' someone of the same sex.  The 'inevitable conclusion' the Connecticut Supreme Court reached is only inevitable in the minds of judicial activists who are hell-bent on imposing, through judicial fiat, their own skewed ideology on 'we the people.'  

"Why do we even need the legislative and executive branches of government if we are going to allow the courts to brazenly legislate from the bench as a self-ordained Judiciocracy?" continued Barber.  "It's ridiculous to imagine that the framers of the Connecticut Constitution could have even conceptualized the oxymoronic notion of 'gay marriage,' much less considered it a 'constitutional right.'

"Still, today's decision underscores just how important this year's presidential election is.  We must elect executives who will appoint judges that strictly interpret the constitution, not twist it to say whatever they want.  Despite hollow platitudes to the contrary, the overwhelming body of evidence indicates that Barack Obama is a strong supporter of 'gay marriage' and that he would appoint judges who believe the constitution changes with the times.  He has said he would repeal the Defense of Marriage Act, and that he opposes any efforts to protect marriage through constitutional amendment.  He has also said he supports the California Supreme Court's earlier decision to impose 'gay marriage.'  

"John McCain, on the other hand, has a record indicating that he will defend traditional marriage and appoint judges who will actually interpret the constitution, not make-it-up willy-nilly. That said, McCain must do more - a lot more.  Today's decision gives McCain a golden opportunity to reiterate his support for traditional marriage and to get behind both state and federal constitutional amendments to protect marriage.  The differences between the two candidates on these issues could not be starker.  It's up to McCain to highlight those differences," concluded Barber.  

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when does it go into effect?
anyone yet know when people can start marrying in connecticut?  what i gather from leonard link is it will be late october at the earliest.  

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I heard Oct 28
But don't quote me on that.

I am the lizard queen!

[ Parent ]
Thiss is great, I love great news on Friday!!!
  Please, Please McSame and Bible Spice, Run on this issue, Send your campaign all the way to the right!!! Get the Fundie Vote and no More. Switch gears from Ayers to Teh Gay Boogie Man, Give up on Ayers as that has hurt your chances instead of improving them. GO GO GO to the Same-Sex Marriage issue and look foolish and again running away from the economy. Say bye-bye to the LCR vote! I don't think you can get more out of your base than you already have. Hell, start saying Bill Ayers is Gay, why not, what is stopping you?  McSsme and Bible Spice have been lying this whole campaign, why stop now?  

 

If I make sense? it was quite by accident.


Sends Pam...
A massive hug and a nice strong coffee.

"judicial activists" - BamBam

Hmmm, I thought judges were usually elected in the US? (an idea that scares the hell out of me, I have to admit!) Doesn't that mean that, if they make a decision the people don't like much, they'll get chucked out come election time? So ultimately they're acting with respect to a mandate given them by the citizens of Connecticut - not with respect to the dictat of a bunch of judicio-religious wingnuts five states away in Virginia!

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Cuius testiculos habes, habeas cardia et cerebellum.


My guess
Since we're talking about the Supreme Court (of CT), they were appointed by the Governor "with the advice and consent" of the  Senate or something like this... Not directly elected.

[ Parent ]
I don't know about CONN either.

But in California they are appointed and consented...but for a term, at the end of which they do have to be re-elected. I know in articles re Californias decisions, Chg Justice George mentioned that he had seriously considered that he might not get relected come the time...but he simply had to follow the mandates of the Consitution as it applies to our current sociocultural climate. 



It's the Hammer of JUSTICE,
It's the Bell of FREEDOM,
It's the Song about LOVE between,
my Brothers and my Sisters
...All over this Land.


[ Parent ]
Conn Constitution
doesn't really say anything about reelections. It just talks about nomination and impeachment of judges, or their removal based on 2/3 of legislature's chambers voting. So, seems to me unless they're afraid of getting "fired"...

[ Parent ]
Pam - Sleep. Others - Dance
Pam - get some sleep!   You gotta busy month ahead.  

Let's just say you put the cream in my coffee today, Barista Diva (and Connecticut)!

Decades MORE of Psychological Abuse? - OR - Stonewall.  Nationwide.  NOW!


If people are bailing on McCain in spite of California
Their not likely to go back to him over this.

I am the lizard queen!

I'm more curious
on what effect this will have on the marriage initiatives in California and Florida, than what effect it will have on the Presidential race.

[ Parent ]
I don't think it'll have much effect
on the haters, but it may have an effect on fence-sitters who now see the writing on the wall and decide it's futile and spiteful for california to turn away from the direction the nation is heading.

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[ Parent ]
I tend to agree
The quiet fair minded can start to speak.  Like I mentioned in the Prop 8 thread, once a Vote NO on 8 editorial was published by the newspaper in a reddish part of California, all of a sudden there were all sorts of people commenting and posting in favor of equality and fairness and rights than I had seen before.

Meanwhile the wingnuts over at ADF have a posted links to a series of commentaries about the CT ruling about how Civil Unions are being used for easy transition to "redefining" marriage.
Here's some scare lingo from them:

Civil unions: The recipe to redefine marriage

Civil Unions: Trojan Horse to Conquer Marria

http://www.alliancealert.org/2...

[ Parent ]
My thought is it will have a positive effect for No 0n 8
 Depending on how much news coverage there is on the issue.  The Fundies have been yelling about 'Activist Judges' and other dumb stuff.  I think it is coming to light that these are not 'Activist Judges' but Judges who are doing their job, interpreting the Constitution of the State.  That is why these Hate Amendments have to be added because there is nothing written in them saying Same-Sex Marriage is illegal.  

 Iowa Supreme court is supposed to take this up in November after the election, and from everything I have read, there in nothing in Iowa's Constitution that makes Same-Sex Marriage illegal either.  

 I hope the Hate Amendments fail in California, Arizona and Florida.  But watch in other states that don't have them have State Supreme court hearings rather quickly.  

 I think people will see that this is what it is, Taking away right from Citizens of the United States.

If I make sense? it was quite by accident.


[ Parent ]
What they're REALLY saying...
So, The Peter and his minions believe that expanding the number of people who can meaningfully marry (i.e., marry someone they truly love) somehow redefines the entire institution of marriage in a way that devalues heterosexual marriages.

Well, once we strip away all the quasi-sociological rhetoric (designed to give their bigotry a veneer of intellectual appeal), their position essentially reduces to a claim that letting more people participate somehow drops the value of their stock.  I don't know if they realize it, but they're effectively implying that the worth of their own heterosexual marriages derives only from these marriages' Special(TM) status in society at large, rather than from the love and commitment shared between the individual participants!

This doesn't seem to square AT ALL with even the fundies' own claimed values... and it's certainly a very cynical way of viewing something that's supposed to be about intimacy and enduring commitment.  If our movement could find some way of getting these logical implications of the fundie viewpoint down to an easily-transmissible "meme" size... let's just say it wouldn't be a happy day in PeterLand.  :)


MEME....via leonard link.

1. Marriage is a constitutionally protected right that is valuable to the state.

2. CU's and DP's are Different from Marriage...all SEVEN judges agreed with this.

3. Gays are a valid quasi suspect class..as they have been discriminated against.

4. The state could not provide a valid argument why they should not be married.(Both uniformity of state law, and 'traditional marriage' e.g. enshrinement of longstanding discrimination, were easily refuted.)

5. Thus, under Connecticut's Constitutions same-sex marriages deserve protection.

The 'channeling procreation' fallacy was invoked by one judge, but that is denied even by the Catholic church which allows full marriage rights to people who cannot procreate. 



It's the Hammer of JUSTICE,
It's the Bell of FREEDOM,
It's the Song about LOVE between,
my Brothers and my Sisters
...All over this Land.


[ Parent ]
Marriage isn't just a contitutional right...
It's a Human right, listed under article 16 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights.

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Cuius testiculos habes, habeas cardia et cerebellum.


[ Parent ]
Judicial activists?
Peter's often used accusation of judicial activism is confusing to me. How did these judges legislate? All they did was once again interpret the constitution to include everyone. Marriage law isn't changed one iota. All the same laws exist and are now applied to all. And how does Peter explain California, where the legislature twice approved equal marriage law, and then the court did so? Apparently the legislature legislated! What a travesty of justice! And as for John McCain standing up for traditional marriage, I doubt it. He's divorced. That's not traditional marriage, by anyone's definition. That's modern marriage.

Go congratulate Bill and Kent!
They are getting married after 33 years together!

http://billandkent.com/blog/20...

Bill,

I just got back from about 4 hours of meetings, and I saw a news alert from the New York Times just before I saw your e-mail. I never thought I'd live to see the day when I could ask

Will you marry me?

Kent

I'm crying tears of joy for them.


When you look for the bad in mankind, expecting to find it, you surely will.

- Abraham Lincoln.


Connecticut and California
Connecticut is a huge victory precisely because it consciously replaces the second class status of civil unions with equality.

The decision by the Connecticut Supremes exposes the contempt Obama and McCain have for the GLBT communities. They deliberately support civil unions vs. marriage because they're religious bigots. They also support the notion of 'states rights', an old racist trick to encourage ill treatment of minorities. That's especially bad because many states, following the lead of Bill Clinton, passed anti-GLBT marriage laws and constitutional amendments.

As for the vote in California and the other states this is just one of many variables affecting the outcome. What is for sure in California is that if we lose much of the blame will be because the battle isn't being joined in the Black, Latino, Asian, Pacific Islander and immigrant communities. Those communities are the majority in California. They need to be specifically addressed by mass leafleting, TV/radio spots and phone banks and all the means at our disposal. In particular rightwing christian leaders have to be denounced as bigots and their ties to right wing bigots like Karl Rove and George Bush exposed.

Here's a link to an LA Times article titled "Selling Their Birthright to the GOP  "But the recent invasion by Karl Rove's minions... on Tuesday at the Crenshaw Christian Center ... with a campaign against gay marriage."

In spite of their record the last time we lost in California the current campaign is based on the dictates of public relations idiots and Democratic Party hotshots who don't have a clue about LGBT politics but are experts on selling predatory mortgages, used cars and opportunist hustlers like Obama. That's why they give Biden and Obama a pass when they undercut the No on 8 messages with their bigoted views on same sex marriage. They, and not just open reactionaries like McCain and Palin, should be publically challenged and vilified for their bigotry.  

The looter rich much prefer working with Democrats like Obama and the Clintons - they're greedier, they fool more people and they're able to get away with a lot more than Republicans.  


Corrected link to ruling
Pam, sorry about Bailey and I can see that you have other things on your mind than being able to do the perfect post.  I really appreciate what you have been doing on your blog and hope you find comfort in your memories of Bailey's companionship.  

The link to the full decision does not (as of 10/13/08 11:10pm Pacific time) go to the Same-Sex Marriage case.  The correct link is
http://www.jud.state.ct.us/ext... (case 152 not case 2).


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