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Mormons Resigning Despite Strong Heritage, Citing 'Hatred' by LDS Church

by: Andrew Callahan

Wed Nov 12, 2008 at 12:35:13 PM EST


Mormons continued to register their resignations with, and post resignation letters to Signing for Something this week, citing "hatred" and "discrimination" among their chief reasons for quitting the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  These resignations come among the continuing backlash against the Mormon Church's involvement in passing California's Proposition 8 last week to take away the right of civil marriage for gays and lesbians.

Excepts of a few recent letters are posted here, with links to the full letters.

I am a gay man who, after serving a [Mormon] mission to the Netherlands, left the mormon church (although not officially) as they have no place for me. I’ve always felt that I didn’t need to upset my family or make waves by requesting that my name be removed from the records. After all, I didn’t recognize the church’s authority anymore so what was the point?
Andrew Callahan :: Mormons Resigning Despite Strong Heritage, Citing 'Hatred' by LDS Church
Since the LDS church has decided to VERY PUBLICLY extend their hatred beyond their realm I've decided that the time has come to make my voice heard, too. I resigned membership recently as has one of my friends from California who was recently married to his partner of 28 years.  See complete letter here: http://signingforsomething.org...

But now I see that there isn't a community or a place for me. There's not a place for the people I love. The Church is not a place for anybody who believes in equal rights and the Constitution of the United States of America. The Church is not pro-marriage, it is anti-gay. The leadership fights for bigotry and hate. The God I grew up with was perfect in His Love and Justice. Shame on the men who act so disgracefully in His name.  See complete letter here: http://signingforsomething.org...

The ABC TV station in Salt Lake City did a news story:

Entire families are resigning:

As a member of the LDS church I was always taught to love one another and to treat everyone with a certain amount of respect. The position the church took on this particular issue went against everything I learned from the church. Not only was the church's position discriminatory, but it was also hateful.

I found it extremely strange that it took the church 14 years after the passage of the Civil Rights Act to allow black members to hold the priesthood. I just excused this inaction as a mistake, but now as I see history repeat itself I realize that it wasn't a mistake and the Mormon Church will always discriminate.

My whole family has been traumatized by the church's efforts and will be sending in letters of resignations.  See the complete letter here: http://signingforsomething.org...

Emotions run deep.

For 45 years I served in every calling I was asked, in leadership, in service, in every capacity. I did it because I knew I was serving my Heavenly Father, a loving God. I continue to serve him and in doing so, I am resigning from this organization that I believe to be corrupt from the egos of mere men, that has strayed so far from its' original mission to serve God and His people.  See the complete letter here: http://signingforsomething.org...

Resigning despite deep roots and strong ties:

I served an honorable and successful mission for the Church, and I am well aware of what is at stake. Though I will never forget-and do not regret-that experience, I cannot in good conscience remain a member of the Church.

I do not take this step lightly. My family connection with the Church is old and deep: my forebears were among the first handcart pioneers, arriving in the Salt Lake Valley in September of 1856. They endured much hardship for what they believed to be a just and righteous cause, and I am proud of that heritage. It is now time for me to honor their memory and take a stand for what I myself believe to be right.

The Church's involvement in the effort to rescind a basic Constitutional right from California citizens is shameful and misguided. These are people whose desire to marry would only strengthen that civil institution, and would benefit and further family stability. And the campaign to deny them this right was a campaign of fear and lies, for which The Church should feel the deepest shame.

In offering their imprimatur to a mendacious, divisive, and unworthy political cause, Church leaders have, it seems to me, gone against both the spirit and the letter of Scripture, to wit:

"We believe that religion is instituted of God; and that men are amenable to him, and to him only, for the exercise of it, unless their religious opinions prompt them to infringe upon the rights and liberties of others;" See complete letter here: http://signingforsomething.org...

Even some not resigning are suffering abuse from family members:


I believe in the rights of all people, that two homosexual people who love and want to be with each other should have the right to do so. I believe that this right should be granted unto all people . . . .Every day as I drove to and from school I would pass by a major intersection where members of my church took turns holding signs promoting Prop 8 and telling fellow supporters to honk in agreement. . . . One day I came home and my brother was at our home visiting with his children. He bluntly asked me if I had honked or not. I was startled by his accusing tone and told him I had not. His eyes took on a blind rage as he demanded the reason to why I hadn't honked. I lied and told him my horn wasn't working but he didn't buy it. He told me with a vinomous voice, "that is the stupidest and worst excuse i've ever heard." It was difficult for me to hold my tongue as he continued to harrass me, but soon I simply left the room telling him I had homework to do. At this point I knew that my true political beliefs could never be revealed to my family. . . . I will not resign from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints because I truly do love my religion, but that does not mean that I am willing to go against everything I know to be right just because our prophet has told me to. I think the church has no right to assume the inner thinkings of its members and take such an open stand of any political issue. . . . I love God, I love ALL people, I try to live the way God wants me to, I pray, I repent, I read the scriptures, I go to church. . . .I WILL NOT BE TOLD WHAT TO BELIEVE! So here I am, going against the church i've stood up for so many times, and for what? for the rights of the people, our people, we as the people. So sorry Bretheren, I love you, but I will not at this time stand by you as you attempt to make me your soldier of a war I don't wish to fight. . . . I WILL STAND FOR WHAT I BELIEVE IN! Whether you will stand by me or stand against me, I WILL PREVAIL! And as my sunday school teachers have always taught me, "if you don't stand for something, you will fall for everything." This is me standing, this is me choosing a side, and this is me telling all people that I WILL NOT STAY SILENT!  See the entire letter here: http://signingforsomething.org...

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Good for them. Right thing to do.


I have tremendous respect for them.
From what I know of the LDS, this is a larger decision than, say, leaving the local Baptist church.  It is so wonderful to see that at least some people understand that it is more important to not brutalize your fellow Americans than it is to belong to the gang doing it.  I hope a lot of these people speak out publicly.

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He's not a Mormon
But the straight Christian writer John Shore has an interesting perspective that I think reminds you how much these people are giving up when they walk out of the Mormon church.

If my gay friends, whom my life experience tells me can no sooner stop being gay than I can stop being straight, have to go to hell after they die, then I'm going with them.

Jesus said, "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends"; these people are (in their eyes) risking not just their lives but their salvation, in many cases for people they do not even know. This is a major, major sacrifice.

____________________________________
Cuius testiculos habes, habeas cardia et cerebellum.


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me too!
I'm one of the 200-- letter will be in the mail as soon as I get someone to notarize it....

I sent my letter on Sunday
...after the home teachers showed up on my front doorstep.

I'm pretty sure that I'll have to talk to them eventually.

What makes it hard is that my neighborhood (townhouse complex) is predominantly LDS.

But after Prop 8 / Prop 102, the whining from church spokesdroids, as well as the Church's actions towards Chad Hardy (you do NOT let someone walk in graduation and then take their degree away six weeks later--no sirree bob), it was Not In My Name, seeyalater!


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Good work Mayhem and Mirele


[ Parent ]
Send it certified/return receipt requested.


[ Parent ]
Speaking of resigning
A guy who donated to yes on prop 8, Musical theater director resigned because the theater was threatened with boycott.

What could go wrong being a closeted gay-basher in musical theater?....duh

Also there is a whiney mexican restaurant owner targeted for donating to support Prop 8....if ya valued your LGBT patrons, ya wouldn't donate along with the LDS church to attack OUR families.

"race, taste. and History finally overcome....and you ain't there"
by Tony Kushner


..and remember sister of owner BILL MARRIOTT...
gave $25,000.  Asking Joe S.if Marriotts will still be 100% equality blessed next year.

"If the time isn't ripe, we have to ripen the time."
DOROTHY HEIGHT


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New Fun Equality Game - It'll tie you in a knot!
Next time you go into a business (or a church, if applicable), ask this question without revealing the answer you desire:

       "Do you support same sex marriage?"

A - YES
B - NO
C - Undecided
D - No Answer

YES gets our money & support; NO is self-explanatory.

UNDECIDED earns a nice little "educational sheet"; support is pending.

NO ANSWER is a cop out, so that is a NO......unless you WANT to support people who do not support you.

Decades MORE of Psychological Abuse? - OR - Stonewall.  Nationwide.  NOW!


Addendum
Hallellujah to the EX-Mormons.  

Oh yeah - the benefits of PROP 8?  It shined a light on WHAT LIES BENEATH many religions in this country, and "We've Only Just Begun".    

Decades MORE of Psychological Abuse? - OR - Stonewall.  Nationwide.  NOW!


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VIDEO on het divorce uses prop 8 literature quotes
from queerty.com
  http://www.queerty.com/the-pro...

BRAVO!

"race, taste. and History finally overcome....and you ain't there"
by Tony Kushner


I hope this spreads to the other religions that were backing Prop. 8...
...namely the Catholics and the Christians.

Bravo to the families and individuals that had left the Morman church in protest over them funding Prop. 8.


Bless them....
This makes me tear up reading these letters.

Oh, my POWERFUL Sharing....
I do hope a lot of folks get to see these.  And that all of these folks know of EQUALITY Utahs...new plan to introduces a bill for rights for GLBT into the Utah legislature next year.    LOOK up EQUALITY Utah...Their Press Release of Nov 10.

"If the time isn't ripe, we have to ripen the time."
DOROTHY HEIGHT


JOEMyGod..and JH..too I think..

NYC Marching on MORMON TEMPLE tonoc. This from JMG

Tonight is NYC's first Prop 8 protest, which will be held at the Mormon temple on the Upper West Side at W.65th and Columbus Avenue at 6:30PM. It looks to be major. Who's down?

UPDATE: Eric Leven has this shot of last night's sign making party at the NYC LGBT Center. I see couple of our JMG peeps there. Andy Towle has more photos. I was on a plane last night and couldn't attend, but I did score about 25 of those blue No On 8 placards from in front of the Castro Theater and I'll hand those out to whomever wants one.

 

Should get good report back.

"If the time isn't ripe, we have to ripen the time."
DOROTHY HEIGHT


wish
I could have been there!

Electricity's for light bulbs!

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n8nyc...and Julien?
You all going Saturday??

"If the time isn't ripe, we have to ripen the time."
DOROTHY HEIGHT


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yep Orion
I'm planning on being there with the Camcorder.  I live in lower Manhattan, not too far from City Hall.

Electricity's for light bulbs!

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