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Game over, man 2 - Steele: same-sex couples deserve legal recognition; being gay isn't a choice

by: Pam Spaulding

Thu Mar 12, 2009 at 07:00:00 AM EDT


The fun never ends! I do kind of feel sorry for Michael Steele at this point. If the brother's strategy is to moderate the party by stealth, he needs to look up the word in the dictionary. In its current incarnation, the GOP is a no-tolerance zone on two issues -- abortion and anything to do with The Homosexual Agenda. It's in the party platform. I have seen no evidence the party is trying to move to the center.

As I blogged last night, the chair-in-name-only of the RNC's interview in GQ magazine in which he said that abortion should be a choice of the individual, he's already strayed from the party line. In the same interview, he delivers yet another position on homosexuality and same-sex marriage that can't make his life easier with the rabid right, who already want him sacked and replaced with Katon Dawson, the man who was the member of an all-white country club.  It's game over, man.  Via Law Dork 2.0:

   Do you have a problem with gay priests who are celibate?
   No, it's your nature. It's your nature. You can't-I can't deny you your nature.

   Let's talk about gay marriage. What's your position?
   Well, my position is, hey, look, I have been, um, supportive of a lot of my friends who are gay in some of the core things that they believe are important to them. You know, the ability to be able to share in the information of your partner, to have the ability to-particularly in times of crisis-to manage their affairs and to help them through that as others-you know, as family members or others-would be able to do. I just draw the line at the gay marriage. And that's not antigay, no. Heck no! It's just that, you know, from my faith tradition and upbringing, I believe that marriage-that institution, the sanctity of it-is reserved for a man and a woman. That's just my view. And I'm not gonna jump up and down and beat people upside the head about it, and tell gays that they're wrong for wanting to aspire to that, and all of that craziness. That's why I believe that the states should have an opportunity to address that issue.

Of course his friends would have "some of the core things that they believe are important to them" if they could have a civil union, for instance. But Steele adamantly and very vocally opposed that just recently. When asked on February 23 if he favored them, he said: "No, no no. What would we do that for? What are you, crazy? No. Why would we backslide on a core, founding value of this country?"

So I guess the question is, what does M.C. Steele want for his gay friends? A  cobbled together set of legal contracts they have to shell out for and a hope and a prayer the state will honor hospital visitation? What exactly, from his POV, is wrong with civil unions then? It makes no sense. But them he goes on to say this incredibly confusing statement in the GQ interview when it comes to marriage equality:

   So you think it's a state issue?
   Absolutely. Just as a general principle, I don't like mucking around with the Constitution. I'm sorry, I just don't. I think, you know, in a pluralistic, dynamic society as the one that we have, every five years you can have a constitutional convention about something, you know? I don't think we should be, you know, dancing around and trying to amend it every time I've got a social issue or a political issue or a business issue that I want to get addressed. Having said that, I think that the states are the best laboratory, the best place for those decisions to be made, because they will then reflect the majority of the community in which the issue is raised. And that's exactly what a republic is all about.
Watch your back, Steele. This is sure to enrage Tony Perkins, Gary Bauer and the rest of the professional "Christian" set that deeply believes that a Federal Marriage Amendment is necessary. John McCain had to spend months groveling at Daddy D's feet to squeeze out an endorsement after taking this position. And you're no Maverick and you have no power.

And then Michael Steele covers himself in gasoline and lights a match:

   Do you think homosexuality is a choice?
   Oh, no. I don't think I've ever really subscribed to that view, that you can turn it on and off like a water tap. Um, you know, I think that there's a whole lot that goes into the makeup of an individual that, uh, you just can't simply say, oh, like, "Tomorrow morning I'm gonna stop being gay." It's like saying, "Tomorrow morning I'm gonna stop being black."

   So your feeling would be that people are born one way or another.
   I mean, I think that's the prevailing view at this point, and I know that there's some out there who think that you can absolutely make that choice. And maybe some people have. I don't know, I can't say. Until we can give a definitive answer one way or the other, I think we should respect that.

Buh bye, ex-gay movement.

Based on the rather public smackdowns (Rush, Ada Fisher) and the trashing he received on a recent conference call with top Republicans who said he was endangering small-dollar donations from Dittoheads with his loose talk, I'd say Michael Steele either: 1) wants out of his job, or 2) doesn't realize how close he is to losing his job. I haven't seen any public statements of support from his peers, they've all been apologizing to Rush and telling Steele to know his place.

Hat tip reader mcc, who mentioned Steele's quote in the comments last night.

BONUS: Below the fold, Keith Olbermann discusses the meltdown of the GOP.

Pam Spaulding :: Game over, man 2 - Steele: same-sex couples deserve legal recognition; being gay isn't a choice
The word on the street about McCain taking over in principle by introducing a new "Contract with America" since Steele isn't cutting it with the DC Republicans.

 

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Maybe he's decided
if he can't lead it, he's going to torpedo it. The RNC is in a tough spot; they can either kick him to the curb, piss off what few moderates might still be there, satisfy the fundies, and expose themselves completely as the rabid religious reich they are, or they can keep him, piss off the fundies, and have pretty much everything that's defined them for the last decade trashed. Either way, they wind up more marginalized than they already are.

Cause any fool knows, a dog needs a home; a shelter from pigs on the wing

Wow, wow ... wow.
Y'know, as much as I disliked Michael Steele a couple of days ago, reading these comments of his does warm my heart just a little.

I'm totally with you, Pam, on his lack of political astuteness.  Reading this, you have to wonder ... he knows he's in charge of the ... Republican party - right?

Still, it's nice to see a smidgen of reality-based thinking from the nominal leader of the GOP.  Of course, then you have to square this with the what-what-are-you-crazy tirade of a week ago, note the lack of consistency and ponder whether or not Steele is trying to have it both ways.

And yet, I have to conclude that when he says two contradictory things, and one is parroting the party's tried and true talking points, and the other is in direct opposition to them ... that the second comment is probably a lot more indicative of his true feelings on the subject.

Too bad he won't last long.  We could have used a moderate in charge of the GOP.  (sigh) ... Oh well.

The good news is that firing Steele for saying that people can't choose to un-gay themselves - a view that the majority of Americans accepted a long time ago - will make the GOP look even more troglodytic than they did last year.

"There are two kinds of people in this world -- the kind who separate the world into two kinds of people, and those who don't."  -- Gloria Steinem


I suspect these are Steele's actual personal convictions
but why didn't he say all this in the first place?

Granted, it is not what the rank and file Dittoheads think (who are more important as foot soldiers than donors, frankly) but it's exactly what people like Lincoln Chaffee, Susan Collins, Christine Todd Whitman, and John McCain (in 2000) had been calling for. Steele quite possibly could have led the charge of marginalizing the Dittoheads, and he blew it, choosing to act as the house Negro instead.

Sad.  


Intersting
So basically, Steele's opinions on GLBT rights are now the same as Barack Obama's.  

What. A. Tool.
Can't he make up his mind. It's our nature, yet it's crazy to give us any legal protections? At least this is speeding up their demise.

I am the lizard queen!

I don't like David Frum
But his comments on The GOP's new/old jerk to the right, which is going to destroy Steele and glorify Limbaugh is great:

"On the one side, the president of the United States: soft-spoken and conciliatory, never angry, always invoking the recession and its victims. This president invokes the language of "responsibility," and in his own life seems to epitomize that ideal: He is physically honed and disciplined, his worst vice an occasional cigarette. He is at the same time an apparently devoted husband and father. Unsurprisingly, women voters trust and admire him.

And for the leader of the Republicans? A man who is aggressive and bombastic, cutting and sarcastic, who dismisses the concerned citizens in network news focus groups as "losers." With his private plane and his cigars, his history of drug dependency and his personal bulk, not to mention his tangled marital history, Rush is a walking stereotype of self-indulgence - exactly the image that Barack Obama most wants to affix to our philosophy and our party. And we're cooperating! Those images of crowds of CPACers cheering Rush's every rancorous word - we'll be seeing them rebroadcast for a long time."


Confusing!
Is it just me, or is he really confusing to follow? Is it just the nature of an interview that you get all flustered and can't speak in coherent/complete sentences? Or is he just a terrible speaker? It's weird that the "leader" of the other major political party cannot even finish a sentence in an interview!  

he's a terrible speaker,
not all that bright, and with no qualifications for this position other than the fact that the rethugs think that one black man is much like any other black man.  

also see: sarah palin.  substitute "woman" for "black man".  

The gays stole my lunch money


[ Parent ]
Didn't Steele mess with
the state of Maryland extending equality?  Just asking.

And as for "Buh bye, ex-gay movement" don't ya wish it was that easy?  


That was his boss, Robert Ehrlich
who vetoed the Medical Decision-Making Act in 2005. (Current Democratic governor Martin O'Malley signed a nearly-identical bill into law after the legislature passed it in 2008.) But Steele wasn't exactly marching at Baltimore Pride either.

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Clip of the Week!
Meghan McCain on Rachel Maddow

This says it all about the GOP.



When you look for the bad in mankind, expecting to find it, you surely will.

- Abraham Lincoln.


Contract with America
  Can't the republican party come up with new ideas?  They are proving to be the same old knuckle dragging baffoons they are.  What would make anyone to jump up and say they are a republican or a conservative for that matter?  Nothing.

Steps to be a modern day republican,

#1 Hate Islam for no real reason.

#2 Hate the homos for no real reason.

#3 Hate everyone that isn't white for no real reason.

#4 Earn $40,000 a year and bitch you pay to much in taxes, not knowing how the tax system works. (Joe the Plumber)

#5 Spout "Traditional Family Values"  at the same time saying Liberals have no family values.

#6 Step out side and tell your neighbor who lost his or her job, that he or she is to lazy to work.

I ask anyone to present a positive reason to be a republican, Just one.

Good luck on finding one, the republicans would love to hear from you, and you could probably charge them a pretty penny.



If I make sense? it was quite by accident.


Defection?
As PA Gov. Rendell said, "Steele's days are numbered." For someone who has carried the GOP water for so long, he's quickly learning that there is no place for him within his own party. Kind of like the Log Cabin Republicans.

I wouldn't be surprised if within the next year or two he defects to the Democratic party. Not that the Dems would want him.

I can't bring myself to feel sorry for him because he constantly contradicts himself within 24 hour cycles. The guy is a pathetic liar.

If Steele leaves the GOP, what person of color will be in the audience at their next convention?


Steele is not stupid
He can actually talk quite intelligently.  Watch this:

http://ta-nehisicoates.theatla...

It's just that he feels the need to act up for the white folks in the GOP.


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